# How can I socialise and establish a relationship better with girls?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-can-i-socialise-and-establish-a-relationship-better-with-girls/655025>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [April 6, 2013, 4:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-can-i-socialise-and-establish-a-relationship-better-with-girls/655025 "2013-04-06T16:48:57Z")\
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**Author:** ![pancakes3](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/ba9def/32.png) [@pancakes3](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pancakes3)\
**Post date:** [April 8, 2013, 5:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-can-i-socialise-and-establish-a-relationship-better-with-girls/655025/21 "2013-04-08T17:17:07Z")

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Of course the real trick is to make yourself so attractive (inside and out) that the girls come and ask you out.

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**Author:** ![Larry\_Borgia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/larry_borgia/32/156_2.png) [@Larry\_Borgia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Larry_Borgia)\
**Post date:** [April 8, 2013, 5:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-can-i-socialise-and-establish-a-relationship-better-with-girls/655025/22 "2013-04-08T17:48:14Z")

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Make sure you stay in shape. Watch how much you eat. Start a weight training program. Even if you are clumsy and not good at sports, you can still stay fit.

Practice good hygiene. Shower daily and use deodorant.

Pick up a guitar and maybe take voice lessons. Try to write some poetry and ask your English teacher for **HONEST** criticism. Don’t write it about yourself and how miserable you are.

Work on your mental health issues with a therapist. If you don’t feel like you are making progress find a different therapist.

Relax. You’ve got a lot of time for this.

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