# How can you do this to a child?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-can-you-do-this-to-a-child/204670>\
**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Created:** [September 30, 2003, 11:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-can-you-do-this-to-a-child/204670 "2003-09-30T11:21:07Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 5\
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**Author:** ![BiblioCat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/ed8c4c/32.png) [@BiblioCat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BiblioCat)\
**Post date:** [October 1, 2003, 11:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-can-you-do-this-to-a-child/204670/41 "2003-10-01T23:35:41Z")

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Just commenting…  
My family and I (hubby and 2 kids) are going away for the weekend in about 3 weeks. We have two cats. I’ve _already_ made arrangements for someone to come and feed them, scoop the litterbox once or twice, and play with them.

I know some people think, “Oh, it’s just cats. Fill the food bowls extra full, put out a real big bowl of water, and off we go!”  
Nope, I can’t do that. I need to know they’ll be taken care of.  
The fact that someone could leave a **baby** alone for a couple of hours, let alone three freaking weeks, is just beyond me.

I can’t even begin to imagine what the mother was thinking.

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**Author:** ![Rhum\_Runner](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/2bfe46/32.png) [@Rhum\_Runner](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rhum_Runner)\
**Post date:** [October 2, 2003, 3:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-can-you-do-this-to-a-child/204670/42 "2003-10-02T03:12:27Z")

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> \*Originally posted by racinchikki \*  
> \*\*You are wrong.
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> She will have abandonment issues. She will freak out whenever her guardian leaves the room, much less the house…\*\*

Cry me a fucking river. The kid isn’t dead, and I bet that across the country in the last three days at least ten kids (total WAG) have died from abuse or neglect. I didn’t say that this was a good thing to have happen, I said it wasn’t that bad, and in the grand scheme of things, it isn’t. The kid may be a little jumpy when left alone for a while. We all got our baggage to carry. The only thing interesting about this story is the novelty of the fact that the kid ate some ketchup and dry pasta. Woopdee-fucking-do.

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> Rhum Runner, you might do well to read the relevant portion of the description of the Pit: “If you gotta flame, do it here”. No mention of “But it has to be a controversial topic”.

Well, yeah. So? I recognize that FCM can post what ever the hell she wants, and when she does she invites comments. And my comment is this: yawn. I don’t see in the forum description of the Pit where it says you can only post in support of the OP.

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> What is up with people just dropping by to judge other people’s rants? If it’s not worth your time to read, it sure as hell isn’t worth your time to post to, so don’t let the door hit you on the ass on your way out of the thread.

What is up with people just dropping by to judge other people’s judgments of other people’s rants? What are _you_ doing here?

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**Author:** ![racinchikki](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/eada6e/32.png) [@racinchikki](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/racinchikki)\
**Post date:** [October 2, 2003, 3:35am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-can-you-do-this-to-a-child/204670/43 "2003-10-02T03:35:17Z")

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Tragedy A is worse than Tragedy B, therefore Tragedy B should go fuck itself. :rolleyes:

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**Author:** ![Zenster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/cdc98d/32.png) [@Zenster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zenster)\
**Post date:** [October 2, 2003, 4:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-can-you-do-this-to-a-child/204670/44 "2003-10-02T04:32:54Z")

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> \*Originally posted by racinchikki \*  
> Tragedy A is worse than Tragedy B, therefore Tragedy B should go fuck itself. :rolleyes:

Ah, tragedy porn, _that’s_ what’s been missing in my life.

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**Author:** ![iampunha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/74df32/32.png) [@iampunha](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/iampunha)\
**Post date:** [October 2, 2003, 4:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-can-you-do-this-to-a-child/204670/45 "2003-10-02T04:39:05Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Zenster \*  
> Ah, tragedy porn, _that’s_ what’s been missing in my life.

Oh God, I’m so hot for your abandoned family… oh, man, a trailer park just got leveled by a tornado … oh god! Oh! Is that a family of homeless orphans? OH! YES! That man just lost an arm trying to rescue a kitten from a pine tree. MORE! MORE! Woman, 25 … barely misses bus to see her boyfriend, then catches the next one which spontaneously bursts into flames! YES! YES! OH GOD YES! SOMEONE’S SENSELESSLY KILLING A KITTEN!

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