# How did you lose your viginity? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [April 23, 2007, 8:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-did-you-lose-your-viginity/401356 "2007-04-23T20:28:42Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![betenoir](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/258eb7/32.png) [@betenoir](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/betenoir)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2007, 8:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-did-you-lose-your-viginity/401356/1 "2007-04-23T20:28:42Z")
And yes it’s been pointed out sex is the almost only thing I can talk about. But I’m lonely and it’s a good subject. And I think it’s an interesting subject. Me? my gay friend came around and and sang “I’ve had a straight boy” About a year latter he came around and…was still a staight boy as far as I could notic. Quite 🙂 We then did it for the rest of the summer. It was a good summer. You? ---
**Author:** ![Jodi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/7feea3/32.png) [@Jodi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jodi)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2007, 8:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-did-you-lose-your-viginity/401356/2 "2007-04-23T20:30:30Z")
I accidentally set it beside me on a bench and then forgot it, and when I went back to get it, it was gone. ---
**Author:** ![pinkfreud](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/pinkfreud/32/17603_2.png) [@pinkfreud](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pinkfreud)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2007, 8:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-did-you-lose-your-viginity/401356/3 "2007-04-23T20:34:34Z")
I lost my virginity at the age of eighteen when I was raped by two men. I guess “lost” isn’t really the way to describe this. I was robbed. ---
**Author:** ![SaharaTea](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e9a140/32.png) [@SaharaTea](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SaharaTea)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2007, 8:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-did-you-lose-your-viginity/401356/4 "2007-04-23T20:39:05Z")
The old-fashioned way, drunk off my ass in a college dorm room. ---
**Author:** ![JohnT](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/johnt/32/15048_2.png) [@JohnT](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JohnT)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2007, 8:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-did-you-lose-your-viginity/401356/5 "2007-04-23T20:40:20Z")
With the lass that eventually became my wife. In a dorm room. But not drunk. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Mike\_Fun](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/a9adbd/32.png) [@Mike\_Fun](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mike_Fun)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2007, 8:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-did-you-lose-your-viginity/401356/6 "2007-04-23T20:44:21Z")
It depends. What counts for a guy? Orgasm from another person, penetration, penetration ending in orgasm? ---
**Author:** ![Drunky\_Smurf](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/drunky_smurf/32/449_2.png) [@Drunky\_Smurf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Drunky_Smurf)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2007, 8:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-did-you-lose-your-viginity/401356/7 "2007-04-23T20:51:18Z")
With the then girlfriend in her bedroom with my candlestick while her mom was at the grocery store. I think I was 16. It was not too rememberable. ---
**Author:** ![Monstera\_deliciosa](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/monstera_deliciosa/32/109_2.png) [@Monstera\_deliciosa](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Monstera_deliciosa)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2007, 8:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-did-you-lose-your-viginity/401356/8 "2007-04-23T20:52:56Z")
Nothing unusual. I was 17. It was a Sunday afternoon. My boyfriend was visiting while my mother was out. Physically, it was a dismal sexual experience, since neither of us knew what we were doing, but a very pleasant life experience nonetheless. I was in love, and I was ready emotionally. However, today just happens to be the 29th anniversary of said occasion. Happy Anniversary, W.P.–wherever you are! ---
**Author:** ![drm](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/a88e57/32.png) [@drm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/drm)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2007, 8:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-did-you-lose-your-viginity/401356/9 "2007-04-23T20:54:53Z")
For the longest time I was a victim of extremely high standards and a girl I know suggested I get the monkey off my back so that when I finally meet someone who I like enough for a long term relationship, I’m not all thumbs. The specifics are that I went to a bar, found a girl who was receptive to grinding, took her home and did the deed (just to be clear, it wasn’t instantaneous). When we parted ways the next morning I mentioned that this was my first time and I thanked her (I wasn’t really clear on what is considered appropriate post one night stand conversation). I took it as quite a compliment that she didn’t believe me. ---
**Author:** ![Giraffe](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/giraffe/32/129_2.png) [@Giraffe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Giraffe)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2007, 8:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-did-you-lose-your-viginity/401356/10 "2007-04-23T20:54:54Z")
I put my pee-pee in a girl’s hoo-hoo. ---
**Author:** ![Lanzy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/74df32/32.png) [@Lanzy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lanzy)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2007, 9:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-did-you-lose-your-viginity/401356/11 "2007-04-23T21:04:15Z")
Lost it? I gave it away as soon as someone would take it. ---
**Author:** ![Rigamarole](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/77aa72/32.png) [@Rigamarole](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rigamarole)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2007, 9:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-did-you-lose-your-viginity/401356/12 "2007-04-23T21:07:07Z")
To a Mexican prostitute named Silvia. She was beautiful, and I don’t regret it. ---
**Author:** ![Belrix](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/ed655f/32.png) [@Belrix](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Belrix)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2007, 9:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-did-you-lose-your-viginity/401356/13 "2007-04-23T21:12:04Z")
[QUOTE=10 points for the reference…] We learned about love in the back of a Dodge (the lesson hadn’t gone too far). [/QUOTE] Graduation night in the back seat of her car. All fumbles and bad timing. I got scared and a bit weirded-out and it wasn’t a good experience. Neither was the freaked-out-running-away thing I did to her afterward. Lessons learned. ---
**Author:** ![enigm4tic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/7ba0ec/32.png) [@enigm4tic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/enigm4tic)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2007, 9:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-did-you-lose-your-viginity/401356/14 "2007-04-23T21:14:53Z")
Hehe… I gave a brief run down of this story in a different thread… Basically, this girl I saw every once in a while who I usually hooked up with in some fashion or another every time I saw her, and I, were hanging out. In her basement, her parents were upstairs, watching a movie. Ghostbusters II, actually. So anyways, we were doing the usual and things got heavier. She was rather experienced at this point, whereas I was, well, a virgin. At any rate, the question of whether or not we were going to have sex came up and we both pretty much thought it sounded like a good idea. No emotional attachment, essentially random. Got me over the hump, so to speak. Was quite enjoyable too, surprisingly, maybe. I let her handle most of it, and it pretty good sex, which is, I suppose somewhat abnormal. (Although admittedly the 2nd and 3rd times I had sex were, well, less spectacular.) ---
**Author:** ![Hung\_Mung](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/a88e4f/32.png) [@Hung\_Mung](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hung_Mung)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2007, 9:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-did-you-lose-your-viginity/401356/15 "2007-04-23T21:20:21Z")
She said: This may be inappropriate, but I really want to have sex with you. I said: Sounds good. So let it be written. ---
**Author:** ![tomndebb](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/b9e5f3/32.png) [@tomndebb](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tomndebb)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2007, 9:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-did-you-lose-your-viginity/401356/16 "2007-04-23T21:20:36Z")
I engaged in sex. ---
**Author:** ![Giraffe](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/giraffe/32/129_2.png) [@Giraffe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Giraffe)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2007, 9:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-did-you-lose-your-viginity/401356/17 "2007-04-23T21:29:21Z")
[QUOTE=tomndebb] I engaged in sex. [/QUOTE] Pervert. ---
**Author:** ![CalMeacham](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/calmeacham/32/35_2.png) [@CalMeacham](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CalMeacham)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2007, 9:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-did-you-lose-your-viginity/401356/18 "2007-04-23T21:35:37Z")
I told me girl friend at the time that I had a deep, dark secret. She asked me what it was, and I confided that I was a virgin. She was delighted – she thought I was secretly married, or had a disease, or something. And it turned out that my situation could be remedied, and she even knew the cure! ---
**Author:** ![Man\_With\_a\_Cat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/cab0a1/32.png) [@Man\_With\_a\_Cat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Man_With_a_Cat)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2007, 9:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-did-you-lose-your-viginity/401356/19 "2007-04-23T21:38:45Z")
In the back of a tan Olds station wagon with the 1975 version of the Adorable Redhead. I told her it was my first time, and she was so excited that she insisted I stay there with her and do it again. ---
**Author:** ![SiXSwordS](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/49beb7/32.png) [@SiXSwordS](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SiXSwordS)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2007, 9:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-did-you-lose-your-viginity/401356/20 "2007-04-23T21:57:57Z")
Making out with my best friend’s girlfriend on the hill behind the super market. She said, “It’s now or never.” And I thought she meant NEVER! So I did [del]her[/del] it. It was great! For about thirty seven seconds. [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-did-you-lose-your-viginity/401356.md?page=2)