# how do i find a sugar daddy?

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**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [April 11, 2013, 1:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-i-find-a-sugar-daddy/655395 "2013-04-11T13:33:32Z")\
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**Author:** ![hunnybee87](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/5e9695/32.png) [@hunnybee87](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/hunnybee87)\
**Post date:** [April 11, 2013, 1:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-i-find-a-sugar-daddy/655395/1 "2013-04-11T13:33:32Z")

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what the title asks, how do I go about finding a sugar daddy? I am 25/F and in the sticks of KY.

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**Author:** ![The\_Surb](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ce73a5/32.png) [@The\_Surb](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_Surb)\
**Post date:** [April 11, 2013, 1:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-i-find-a-sugar-daddy/655395/2 "2013-04-11T13:36:31Z")

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> [@hunnybee87](#):
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> what the title asks, how do I go about finding a sugar daddy? I am 25/F and in the sticks of KY.

Have you tried Craigslist? I’m not sure if it would go in the Personals ads or the Services ads. Maybe both. Be sure to include pictures.

Let us know how this works out, please.

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**Author:** ![USCDiver](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/uscdiver/32/354_2.png) [@USCDiver](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/USCDiver)\
**Post date:** [April 11, 2013, 1:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-i-find-a-sugar-daddy/655395/3 "2013-04-11T13:42:30Z")

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Try the corner store. They’re usually near the Sugar Babies.

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**Author:** ![silenus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/silenus/32/166_2.png) [@silenus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/silenus)\
**Post date:** [April 11, 2013, 1:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-i-find-a-sugar-daddy/655395/4 "2013-04-11T13:45:19Z")

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What does a Kentucky Sugar Daddy look like, anyway? Someone whose pickup is only up on cinder blocks half the time?

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**Author:** ![leftfield6](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/leftfield6/32/18780_2.png) [@leftfield6](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/leftfield6)\
**Post date:** [April 11, 2013, 1:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-i-find-a-sugar-daddy/655395/5 "2013-04-11T13:48:08Z")

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This is not going to go well.

I never would have guessed that this is her (more likely a his) first post!!

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**Author:** ![Bricker](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/977dab/32.png) [@Bricker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bricker)\
**Post date:** [April 11, 2013, 1:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-i-find-a-sugar-daddy/655395/6 "2013-04-11T13:51:13Z")

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Here’s [a CNN](http://www.cnn.com/2013/02/26/living/students-sugar-daddy-relationships) article that may contain some useful pointers.

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**Author:** ![Jackmannii](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jackmannii/32/311_2.png) [@Jackmannii](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jackmannii)\
**Post date:** [April 11, 2013, 1:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-i-find-a-sugar-daddy/655395/7 "2013-04-11T13:56:59Z")

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If you’re in eastern Kentucky, just hang out in downtown Harlan or Paintsville. You’ll have to beat the sugar daddies off with a stick, or maybe a more formidable implement.

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**Author:** ![Fear\_Itself](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/fear_itself/32/19637_2.png) [@Fear\_Itself](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Fear_Itself)\
**Post date:** [April 11, 2013, 2:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-i-find-a-sugar-daddy/655395/8 "2013-04-11T14:01:39Z")

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What attributes do you bring to the table that a sugar daddy might find attractive?

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**Author:** ![elbows](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/b3f665/32.png) [@elbows](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/elbows)\
**Post date:** [April 11, 2013, 2:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-i-find-a-sugar-daddy/655395/9 "2013-04-11T14:06:33Z")

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Honey, you gotta advertise the goods, if you want to do business.

Photos please!

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**Author:** ![drewtwo99](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/d07c76/32.png) [@drewtwo99](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/drewtwo99)\
**Post date:** [April 11, 2013, 2:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-i-find-a-sugar-daddy/655395/10 "2013-04-11T14:09:41Z")

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Hilarious.

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**Author:** ![lost4life](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/c4cdca/32.png) [@lost4life](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lost4life)\
**Post date:** [April 11, 2013, 2:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-i-find-a-sugar-daddy/655395/11 "2013-04-11T14:10:41Z")

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Could you be more specific about your location? Sticks of Kentucky doesn’t really narrow it down much.

Surely there has to be a website that deals specifically with this issue.

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**Author:** ![StusBlues](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/dc4da7/32.png) [@StusBlues](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/StusBlues)\
**Post date:** [April 11, 2013, 2:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-i-find-a-sugar-daddy/655395/12 "2013-04-11T14:11:26Z")

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> [@Bricker](#):
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> Here’s [a CNN](http://www.cnn.com/2013/02/26/living/students-sugar-daddy-relationships) article that may contain some useful pointers.

This story contains a link to the obvious website, [sugardaddy.com](http://sugardaddy.com) and the slightly less obvious [seekingarrangement.com](http://seekingarrangement.com).

And there is no way I am clicking on either of these at work.

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**Author:** ![Loach](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/loach/32/350_2.png) [@Loach](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Loach)\
**Post date:** [April 11, 2013, 2:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-i-find-a-sugar-daddy/655395/13 "2013-04-11T14:16:45Z")

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You’re out of luck. I’ve lived in Kentucky. You are over the hill.

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**Author:** ![Anaamika](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Anaamika](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anaamika)\
**Post date:** [April 11, 2013, 2:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-i-find-a-sugar-daddy/655395/14 "2013-04-11T14:20:08Z")

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I kind of want a sugar daddy, too. I mean, don’t we all?

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**Author:** ![USCDiver](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/uscdiver/32/354_2.png) [@USCDiver](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/USCDiver)\
**Post date:** [April 11, 2013, 2:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-i-find-a-sugar-daddy/655395/15 "2013-04-11T14:43:53Z")

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> [@Anaamika](#):
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> I kind of want a sugar daddy, too. I mean, don’t we all?

Hell, I’m a straight married dude, and I want a sugar daddy too!

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**Author:** ![Prof.Pepperwinkle](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/prof.pepperwinkle/32/13627_2.png) [@Prof.Pepperwinkle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Prof.Pepperwinkle)\
**Post date:** [April 11, 2013, 2:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-i-find-a-sugar-daddy/655395/16 "2013-04-11T14:45:51Z")

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Here you go:

> **[Secret Benefits - Where Experienced & Attractive People Meet](https://www.secretbenefits.com/welcome/sugar_baby/sugar_domain/sugardadys)**
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> Secret Benefits is a dynamic online meeting place where experienced and attractive people can find their dream relationship. Millions of people have used Secret Benefits to find adventure and companionship, creating unique relationships that are...

Purveyors of the Edgeless Brownie, as seen on Ellen!

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**Author:** ![Cicero](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cicero/32/3594_2.png) [@Cicero](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cicero)\
**Post date:** [April 11, 2013, 2:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-i-find-a-sugar-daddy/655395/17 "2013-04-11T14:46:29Z")

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If you post a picture of your chest it would help.

For me, anyway.

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**Author:** ![control-z](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/eada6e/32.png) [@control-z](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/control-z)\
**Post date:** [April 11, 2013, 2:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-i-find-a-sugar-daddy/655395/18 "2013-04-11T14:48:29Z")

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She’s not coming back is she?

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**Author:** ![lieu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/c2a13f/32.png) [@lieu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lieu)\
**Post date:** [April 11, 2013, 2:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-i-find-a-sugar-daddy/655395/19 "2013-04-11T14:51:35Z")

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> [@Loach](#):
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> You’re out of luck. I’ve lived in Kentucky. You are over the hill.

Are we sure KY meant Kentucky?

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**Author:** ![Drunky\_Smurf](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/drunky_smurf/32/449_2.png) [@Drunky\_Smurf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Drunky_Smurf)\
**Post date:** [April 11, 2013, 2:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-i-find-a-sugar-daddy/655395/20 "2013-04-11T14:57:51Z")

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> [@Loach](#):
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> You’re out of luck. I’ve lived in Kentucky. You are over the hill.

Yeah, I had a good friend from Kentucky and he used to say all the time, “If she’s older than 14 then she’s just a saggy-tittied old bitch.”

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