# how do i find a sugar daddy? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [April 11, 2013, 1:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-i-find-a-sugar-daddy/655395 "2013-04-11T13:33:32Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 17\ **Page:** 4
**Author:** ![core\_dump](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/dec6dc/32.png) [@core\_dump](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/core_dump)\ **Post date:** [April 12, 2013, 1:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-i-find-a-sugar-daddy/655395/61 "2013-04-12T01:53:48Z")
> [@kunilou](#): > > One other thing. Prepare for competition. From the horses? No actually I don’t want to know. ---
**Author:** ![Enuma\_Elish](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/5e9695/32.png) [@Enuma\_Elish](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Enuma_Elish)\ **Post date:** [April 12, 2013, 2:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-i-find-a-sugar-daddy/655395/62 "2013-04-12T02:26:07Z")
How do I find a Sugar Momma? Do I have to be good at sex? Nevermind . . . . . . . ---
**Author:** ![Peremensoe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/ce7236/32.png) [@Peremensoe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Peremensoe)\ **Post date:** [April 12, 2013, 2:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-i-find-a-sugar-daddy/655395/63 "2013-04-12T02:34:45Z")
Well, **DataX** , perhaps you have more direct knowledge of prostitution arrangements than I. But I stand by the basic interpretation that all of them, including the version in this thread, come down to the same thing. ---
**Author:** ![DrumBum](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e79b87/32.png) [@DrumBum](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DrumBum)\ **Post date:** [April 12, 2013, 12:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-i-find-a-sugar-daddy/655395/64 "2013-04-12T12:40:23Z")
You guys are being unfair. Maybe she just has a sweet tooth and wants one like[this](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sugar_Daddy_%28candy%29). 😃 Might be able to get them in bulk at Costco. ---
**Author:** ![lost4life](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/c4cdca/32.png) [@lost4life](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lost4life)\ **Post date:** [April 12, 2013, 12:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-i-find-a-sugar-daddy/655395/65 "2013-04-12T12:45:16Z")
> [@kunilou](#): > > Move to Lexington. > Go to Keeneland. > Hang around the sales. See who’s bidding. > Strike up a conversation. > > One other thing. Prepare for competition. Ha! I was thinking the same thing except to hang out by the betting windows, see who’s betting large, then determine whether they’re rich or have a gambling problem. ---
**Author:** ![scootergirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e99b99/32.png) [@scootergirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/scootergirl)\ **Post date:** [April 13, 2013, 7:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-i-find-a-sugar-daddy/655395/66 "2013-04-13T19:52:28Z")
I see that **hunnybee87** has not returned. Maybe she got herself one…:eek::eek::eek: ---
**Author:** ![Ethilrist](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ethilrist/32/4604_2.png) [@Ethilrist](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ethilrist)\ **Post date:** [April 13, 2013, 8:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-i-find-a-sugar-daddy/655395/67 "2013-04-13T20:46:41Z")
> [@Enuma\_Elish](#): > > How do I find a Sugar Momma? > > Do I have to be good at sex? > > Nevermind . . . . . . . Search for a woman looking for a gigolo. To the OP, since you’re bi, you might also want to include (particularly if you’re posting to craigslist) that you’re looking to be a unicorn, and search for people looking for one. ---
**Author:** ![ioioio](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ioioio/32/316_2.png) [@ioioio](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ioioio)\ **Post date:** [April 13, 2013, 10:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-i-find-a-sugar-daddy/655395/68 "2013-04-13T22:04:24Z")
> [@scootergirl](#): > > I see that **hunnybee87** has not returned. Maybe she got herself one…:eek::eek::eek: Maybe it was somebody here. ---
**Author:** ![Jackmannii](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jackmannii/32/311_2.png) [@Jackmannii](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jackmannii)\ **Post date:** [April 14, 2013, 1:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-i-find-a-sugar-daddy/655395/69 "2013-04-14T01:27:34Z")
> [@kunilou](#): > > Move to Lexington. > Go to Keeneland. > Hang around the sales. See who’s bidding. And before you know it, **hunnybee** has her own stall and all the hay she can eat. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![blindboyard](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/blindboyard/32/2833_2.png) [@blindboyard](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/blindboyard)\ **Post date:** [April 14, 2013, 2:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-i-find-a-sugar-daddy/655395/70 "2013-04-14T14:24:12Z")
[It Happened To Me: I Cruised OkCupid And Craiglist For Dates So I Could Eat](http://www.xojane.com/it-happened-to-me/i-cruised-okcupid-and-craiglist-for-dates-so-i-could-eat) ---
**Author:** ![colander](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/e8c25b/32.png) [@colander](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/colander)\ **Post date:** [April 14, 2013, 2:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-i-find-a-sugar-daddy/655395/71 "2013-04-14T14:46:50Z")
> [@blindboyard](#): > > [It Happened To Me: I Cruised OkCupid And Craiglist For Dates So I Could Eat](http://www.xojane.com/it-happened-to-me/i-cruised-okcupid-and-craiglist-for-dates-so-i-could-eat) no shame in admitting it, **blindboyard** ---
**Author:** ![drewtwo99](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/d07c76/32.png) [@drewtwo99](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/drewtwo99)\ **Post date:** [April 14, 2013, 3:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-i-find-a-sugar-daddy/655395/72 "2013-04-14T15:08:57Z")
Wow the OP actually came back for a 2nd post. If I were a betting man I would have lost a bit of money! ---
**Author:** ![StusBlues](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/dc4da7/32.png) [@StusBlues](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/StusBlues)\ **Post date:** [April 14, 2013, 11:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-i-find-a-sugar-daddy/655395/73 "2013-04-14T23:01:30Z")
> [@blindboyard](#): > > [It Happened To Me: I Cruised OkCupid And Craiglist For Dates So I Could Eat](http://www.xojane.com/it-happened-to-me/i-cruised-okcupid-and-craiglist-for-dates-so-i-could-eat) There’s nothing new about this in concept. My own sainted grandmother alluded to doing this in college–her depression-era meal plan didn’t cover Sunday evenings, so she (and most of her friends, to hear her tell) made sure they had a date that night. I saw television special on the Black Dahlia once where an investigator denied that Elizabeth Short had ever been a prostitute–but that she had “dated for dinner.” Her interviewer, Diane Sawyer, noted that she’d done this herself in college. ---
**Author:** ![clairobscur](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/839c29/32.png) [@clairobscur](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/clairobscur)\ **Post date:** [April 15, 2013, 12:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-i-find-a-sugar-daddy/655395/74 "2013-04-15T00:52:18Z")
There’s nothing wrong with prostitutes, sugar babies and what not, but there’s definitely something wrong in pretending to date someone just in order to get a free restaurant meal. The best part is where she said that she ordered the most costly items because her date was flirting with other women. Presumably, this guy deserved to be punished for not showing enough respect for her lying greedy ass. ---
**Author:** ![HoneyBadgerDC](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/honeybadgerdc/32/1033_2.png) [@HoneyBadgerDC](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/HoneyBadgerDC)\ **Post date:** [April 15, 2013, 3:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-i-find-a-sugar-daddy/655395/75 "2013-04-15T15:31:10Z")
Well, I have been a sugar daddy long term and it workd well for me. They found me by flirting with me in a nightclub and then giving me some mind blowing sex. They kept me long term by not having too many demands and keeping it for the most part exclusive with some exceptions. Both times it took me awhile to realize I was a sugar daddy, I actually thought I was a boyfriend. ---
**Author:** ![Ranger\_Jeff](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ranger_jeff/32/2065_2.png) [@Ranger\_Jeff](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ranger_Jeff)\ **Post date:** [April 15, 2013, 8:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-i-find-a-sugar-daddy/655395/76 "2013-04-15T20:43:48Z")
Sometimes, it’s a fine line between “dating” and “prostitution”, isn’t it? ---
**Author:** ![Aman27deep](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ebca7d/32.png) [@Aman27deep](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Aman27deep)\ **Post date:** [April 15, 2013, 9:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-i-find-a-sugar-daddy/655395/77 "2013-04-15T21:08:55Z")
Lol, funny thread. > [@Ranger\_Jeff](#): > > Sometimes, it’s a fine line between “dating” and “prostitution”, isn’t it? Exactly! [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-i-find-a-sugar-daddy/655395.md?page=3)