# How do we feel about teachers fired for posting homemade porn?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-we-feel-about-teachers-fired-for-posting-homemade-porn/994614>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [December 14, 2023, 8:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-we-feel-about-teachers-fired-for-posting-homemade-porn/994614 "2023-12-14T20:21:40Z")\
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**Author:** ![Babale](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/babale/32/15666_2.png) [@Babale](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Babale)\
**Post date:** [February 16, 2024, 8:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-we-feel-about-teachers-fired-for-posting-homemade-porn/994614/541 "2024-02-16T20:19:40Z")

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Anyways, @Beckdawrek, you took us on this weird drug tangent without answering the original question. If she is doing porn to pay for a mercedes or other luxury, rather than to pay her bills - what’s it to ya?

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [February 16, 2024, 8:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-we-feel-about-teachers-fired-for-posting-homemade-porn/994614/542 "2024-02-16T20:32:15Z")

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You brought up drugs. Don’t put that on me.

I care because I’ve raised kids. I have grandkids in the school system.

I really don’t care that she did the OF porn(yes it’s porn. And porn is a deplorable system that’s not good for women. Ever. It’s made for men to get their rocks off. Because HE can’t get it any other way. It teaches young boys unrealistic views on sex. And it’s never going away. So, guys don’t worry you’ll be able to find free porn til the end of time)

The teacher needs to quit saying she did it, oh poor me, to pay off her school loans.  
She did it for the big money. That’s all. She can buy any damn thing she wants.  
It’s wrong to lie about it. And we all know that’s what she’s doing. Of course she’s gonna try to mitigate her shame and guilt.  
Yes, guilty.  
She knows she’s guilty of something. Hence the face hiding.

She got busted out. Resigned her job. Will probably have to sacrifice the career she supposedly loved.  
Well, too bad dummy. You made the wrong choice. You have to suffer the consequences.

ETA, sorry that was @Babale who brought up drugs. Not you. Or me.

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**Author:** ![Miller](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/miller/32/481_2.png) [@Miller](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Miller)\
**Post date:** [February 16, 2024, 8:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-we-feel-about-teachers-fired-for-posting-homemade-porn/994614/543 "2024-02-16T20:34:55Z")

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> [@Beckdawrek](#):
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> I really don’t care that she did the OF porn(yes it’s porn. And porn is a deplorable system that’s not good for women. Ever. It’s made for men to get their rocks off. Because HE can’t get it any other way. It teaches young boys unrealistic views on sex. And it’s never going away. So, guys don’t worry you’ll be able to find free porn til the end of time)

I like how there’s not even a space between you saying “I don’t care if they do OF,” and immediately contradicting yourself.

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [February 16, 2024, 8:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-we-feel-about-teachers-fired-for-posting-homemade-porn/994614/544 "2024-02-16T20:37:08Z")

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I don’t care if SHE personally did OF. Plenty of people do, it seems. That’s her problem.

I care about the whole situation. And how it affects my kids

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**Author:** ![Miller](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/miller/32/481_2.png) [@Miller](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Miller)\
**Post date:** [February 16, 2024, 8:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-we-feel-about-teachers-fired-for-posting-homemade-porn/994614/545 "2024-02-16T20:38:11Z")

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> [@Beckdawrek](#):
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> I don’t care if SHE personally did OF.

Clearly.

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**Author:** ![Procrustus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/procrustus/32/2994_2.png) [@Procrustus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Procrustus)\
**Post date:** [February 16, 2024, 8:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-we-feel-about-teachers-fired-for-posting-homemade-porn/994614/546 "2024-02-16T20:39:06Z")

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> [@Beckdawrek](#):
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> And porn is a deplorable system that’s not good for women. Ever. It’s made for men to get their rocks off. Because HE can’t get it any other way.

I assure you that at least some men who “can get it” other ways (happily married, etc) still visit Only Fans now and then.

> [@Beckdawrek](#):
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> So, guys don’t worry you’ll be able to find free porn til the end of time)

I’ve never been to that site, but I believe O.F. is not free.

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [February 16, 2024, 8:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-we-feel-about-teachers-fired-for-posting-homemade-porn/994614/547 "2024-02-16T20:39:27Z")

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What?

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [February 16, 2024, 8:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-we-feel-about-teachers-fired-for-posting-homemade-porn/994614/548 "2024-02-16T20:40:24Z")

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That’s true. It’s not free. But there’s plenty free.

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**Author:** ![Darren\_Garrison](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/darren_garrison/32/92_2.png) [@Darren\_Garrison](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Darren_Garrison)\
**Post date:** [February 16, 2024, 8:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-we-feel-about-teachers-fired-for-posting-homemade-porn/994614/549 "2024-02-16T20:42:01Z")

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> [@Beckdawrek](#):
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> And we all know that’s what she’s doing.

You keep saying “we all know” this and “we all know” that. You do not speak for everyone.

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [February 16, 2024, 8:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-we-feel-about-teachers-fired-for-posting-homemade-porn/994614/550 "2024-02-16T20:42:28Z")

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Y’all are picking out pieces of what I’m saying. That’s not right.

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**Author:** ![crowmanyclouds](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/crowmanyclouds/32/19884_2.png) [@crowmanyclouds](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/crowmanyclouds)\
**Post date:** [February 16, 2024, 8:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-we-feel-about-teachers-fired-for-posting-homemade-porn/994614/551 "2024-02-16T20:42:42Z")

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> [@Beckdawrek](#):
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> And porn is a deplorable system that’s not good for women. Ever. It’s made for men to get their rocks off. Because HE can’t get it any other way. It teaches young boys unrealistic views on sex. And it’s never going away.

Especially the gay porn!

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**Author:** ![Riemann](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/riemann/32/3133_2.png) [@Riemann](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Riemann)\
**Post date:** [February 16, 2024, 8:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-we-feel-about-teachers-fired-for-posting-homemade-porn/994614/552 "2024-02-16T20:45:26Z")

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> [@Beckdawrek](#):
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> Y’all are picking out pieces of what I’m saying. That’s not right.

I’m quite happy to sit back and watch the totality of this trainwrek. I’m just worried that the mods might give you a warning for what you’re doing to yourself outside the PIt.

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**Author:** ![Babale](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/babale/32/15666_2.png) [@Babale](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Babale)\
**Post date:** [February 16, 2024, 8:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-we-feel-about-teachers-fired-for-posting-homemade-porn/994614/553 "2024-02-16T20:48:24Z")

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> [@Beckdawrek](#):
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> You brought up drugs

What I said was “as long as she’s not buying drugs or something” and you decided that meant she was cracked up with no teeth.

> [@Beckdawrek](#):
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> I care because I’ve raised kids. I have grandkids in the school system.

You’re not the only one. I care because I have kids and I want the world they grow into to be a less regressive and self-hating one.

> [@Beckdawrek](#):
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> I really don’t care that she did the OF porn

Clearly you do

> [@Beckdawrek](#):
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> And porn is a deplorable system that’s not good for women. Ever.

Are you gonna offer any evidence to substantiate your claim, or do we just have to take your word for it?

> [@Beckdawrek](#):
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> It’s made for men to get their rocks off. Because HE can’t get it any other way.

I can tell that this really bothers you. Why’s that?

Did you know that sometimes _women_ watch porn? _Gasp!_

> [@Beckdawrek](#):
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> And it’s never going away. So, guys don’t worry you’ll be able to find free porn til the end of time

The fact that you continue insinuating in nearly every post that the only reason someone might disagree with you is that they are horny men concerned with their own future porn supply is both extremely insulting and mind numbingly sexist. I’d thank you for stopping.

> [@Beckdawrek](#):
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> The teacher needs to quit saying she did it, oh poor me, to pay off her school loans.

Did she say that? I hadn’t seen that she had.

> [@Beckdawrek](#):
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> She did it for the big money. That’s all. She can buy any damn thing she wants.

OK, cool. So what?

If she did it to pay for her Grandma’s chemo, or to pay for her boyfriend’s LEGO collecting habit, or to pay for her expensive taste in sex toys - _who the fuck cares? Why does it matter?_

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [February 16, 2024, 8:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-we-feel-about-teachers-fired-for-posting-homemade-porn/994614/554 "2024-02-16T20:48:57Z")

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As a society. Pornography is not good. Yes we all know this. It’s not a secret what it does too women. I didn’t cause this. Some MAN did a gazillion years ago. For other men to “enjoy”

It’s bad for young boys and men. They assume all sex is like that. And it’s not.

You men here telling me it’s just all okay. I should not have an opinion are just wrong.

I do not want my childs teacher to do pornography. That’s all I’m saying.

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**Author:** ![Left\_Hand\_of\_Dorkness](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/left_hand_of_dorkness/32/7156_2.png) [@Left\_Hand\_of\_Dorkness](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Left_Hand_of_Dorkness)\
**Post date:** [February 16, 2024, 8:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-we-feel-about-teachers-fired-for-posting-homemade-porn/994614/555 "2024-02-16T20:51:19Z")

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> [@Beckdawrek](#):
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> How am I slut shaming her?

> [@Beckdawrek](#):
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> Well, too bad dummy. You made the wrong choice. You have to suffer the consequences.

just trying to help

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**Author:** ![Babale](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/babale/32/15666_2.png) [@Babale](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Babale)\
**Post date:** [February 16, 2024, 8:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-we-feel-about-teachers-fired-for-posting-homemade-porn/994614/556 "2024-02-16T20:51:59Z")

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> [@Beckdawrek](#):
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> You men here telling me it’s just all okay. I should not have an opinion are just wrong.

Out of curiosity, could you quote a single person who told you that you shouldn’t have an opinion?

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**Author:** ![Tibby](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tibby/32/17030_2.png) [@Tibby](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tibby)\
**Post date:** [February 16, 2024, 8:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-we-feel-about-teachers-fired-for-posting-homemade-porn/994614/557 "2024-02-16T20:55:02Z")

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I don’t know what is shown on OF (I just watch Funny Cat Videos online 🐈), but with regard to porn in general, there are certainly sub-genres (I’ve been told 😇) that, while being OK between consenting adults in a controlled environment, are potentially dangerous physically, and/or psychologically if acted out by pre-adults.

Would you, for example, be OK if your 15yo daughter Becky watched porn depicting a guy tying up and spitting on, gagging, choking, whipping, etc. a woman? Would you be OK if her boyfriend Timmy watched? Would you be OK if they tried to re-create the scene at home? I wouldn’t.

I’m not anti-porn, I’m just anti children watching porn, and youngsters being taught by pornsters.

And, for the record, I don’t want my kids taught by anti-vaxxers either.

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**Author:** ![Left\_Hand\_of\_Dorkness](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/left_hand_of_dorkness/32/7156_2.png) [@Left\_Hand\_of\_Dorkness](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Left_Hand_of_Dorkness)\
**Post date:** [February 16, 2024, 8:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-we-feel-about-teachers-fired-for-posting-homemade-porn/994614/558 "2024-02-16T20:55:42Z")

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> [@Babale](#):
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> Out of curiosity, could you quote a single person who told you that you shouldn’t have an opinion?

Yup. I think her opinion is uninformed–and that’s all I think I can say here without running afoul of rules–but of course she’s allowed to have an opinion.

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [February 16, 2024, 8:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-we-feel-about-teachers-fired-for-posting-homemade-porn/994614/559 "2024-02-16T20:57:12Z")

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Exactly what you say.

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [February 16, 2024, 8:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-we-feel-about-teachers-fired-for-posting-homemade-porn/994614/560 "2024-02-16T20:59:58Z")

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I’ve admitted I know little about watching pornography. I’ve seen some and it’s disgusting.  
It’s fake and unrealistic.

OF can only be seen by making an account and paying…yes I looked.

I’m not uninformed as to what it does to women. I can read.

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