# How do you identify, gender-wise?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-you-identify-gender-wise/948004>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [August 4, 2021, 12:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-you-identify-gender-wise/948004 "2021-08-04T00:59:53Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![DocCathode](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/doccathode/32/18773_2.png) [@DocCathode](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DocCathode)\
**Post date:** [August 4, 2021, 4:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-you-identify-gender-wise/948004/21 "2021-08-04T16:09:02Z")

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I identify as a man.

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**Author:** ![Hari\_Seldon](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/hari_seldon/32/5173_2.png) [@Hari\_Seldon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hari_Seldon)\
**Post date:** [August 4, 2021, 4:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-you-identify-gender-wise/948004/22 "2021-08-04T16:19:56Z")

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Can you guess from my avatar?

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**Author:** ![jaycat](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jaycat/32/3015_2.png) [@jaycat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jaycat)\
**Post date:** [August 4, 2021, 4:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-you-identify-gender-wise/948004/23 "2021-08-04T16:25:15Z")

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“It.”

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**Author:** ![Buck\_Godot](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/buck_godot/32/6573_2.png) [@Buck\_Godot](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Buck_Godot)\
**Post date:** [August 4, 2021, 4:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-you-identify-gender-wise/948004/24 "2021-08-04T16:28:05Z")

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White, CIS-male, heterosexual, educated, middle class, able bodied, American citizen by birth.

I got me so much privilege its coming out of my ears.

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**Author:** ![kanicbird](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/5f8ce5/32.png) [@kanicbird](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kanicbird)\
**Post date:** [August 4, 2021, 5:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-you-identify-gender-wise/948004/25 "2021-08-04T17:02:12Z")

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> [@Odesio](#):
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> I’m a man, baby. I’m so manly…

Is a man baby like an adult baby who is male 😃

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**Author:** ![Odesio](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/odesio/32/20003_2.png) [@Odesio](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Odesio)\
**Post date:** [August 4, 2021, 5:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-you-identify-gender-wise/948004/26 "2021-08-04T17:51:29Z")

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> [@kanicbird](#):
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> Is a man baby like an adult baby who is male 😃

Hey, now. There’s a comma where it should be, baby!

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**Author:** ![Dung\_Beetle](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dung_beetle/32/7945_2.png) [@Dung\_Beetle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dung_Beetle)\
**Post date:** [August 4, 2021, 5:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-you-identify-gender-wise/948004/27 "2021-08-04T17:55:14Z")

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I can bring home the bacon  
Fry it up in a pan  
And never ever let you forget you’re a man  
'Cause I’m a woman…

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**Author:** ![Die\_Capacitrix](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/die_capacitrix/32/9_2.png) [@Die\_Capacitrix](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Die_Capacitrix)\
**Post date:** [August 4, 2021, 6:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-you-identify-gender-wise/948004/28 "2021-08-04T18:27:40Z")

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I am a female person who will get annoyed if someone calls me a female.

Female should be used as an adjective.

And there are some days where I think that I am just me. Whatever that could mean.

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**Author:** ![mbh](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/a6a055/32.png) [@mbh](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/mbh)\
**Post date:** [August 4, 2021, 7:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-you-identify-gender-wise/948004/29 "2021-08-04T19:39:59Z")

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Male cisgender heterosexual suburban capitalist, of Christian ancestry, and middle-class upbringing.

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**Author:** ![Treppenwitz](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/treppenwitz/32/3445_2.png) [@Treppenwitz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Treppenwitz)\
**Post date:** [August 4, 2021, 7:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-you-identify-gender-wise/948004/30 "2021-08-04T19:41:17Z")

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Male and heterosexual. Boring. Sorry.

j

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**Author:** ![panache45](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/panache45/32/64_2.png) [@panache45](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/panache45)\
**Post date:** [August 5, 2021, 1:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-you-identify-gender-wise/948004/31 "2021-08-05T01:18:56Z")

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Well, I didn’t know to include sexual orientation.

Gay cis male.

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**Author:** ![River\_Hippie](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/river_hippie/32/26_2.png) [@River\_Hippie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/River_Hippie)\
**Post date:** [August 5, 2021, 2:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-you-identify-gender-wise/948004/32 "2021-08-05T02:13:15Z")

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White, CIS-male, heterosexual. A failure as a heterosexual but heterosexual none the less.

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**Author:** ![Biffster](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/biffster/32/339_2.png) [@Biffster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Biffster)\
**Post date:** [August 5, 2021, 7:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-you-identify-gender-wise/948004/33 "2021-08-05T07:14:25Z")

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I am male, and my pronouns are she and him.

Just kidding about the pronouns, but I do wonder if people are allowed to mix and match depending on whether it’s the subjective or objective case.

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**Author:** ![LH75](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lh75/32/4438_2.png) [@LH75](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LH75)\
**Post date:** [August 5, 2021, 11:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-you-identify-gender-wise/948004/34 "2021-08-05T11:48:45Z")

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If I have ever led anyone here to think that I am anything other than an older, short, barrel chested man with longer but rapidly thinning grey hair I apologize.

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**Author:** ![dropzone](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dropzone/32/7515_2.png) [@dropzone](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dropzone)\
**Post date:** [August 5, 2021, 8:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-you-identify-gender-wise/948004/35 "2021-08-05T20:37:55Z")

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Near as I can tell, we need more womenfolk.

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**Author:** ![Dallas\_Jones](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dallas_jones/32/3277_2.png) [@Dallas\_Jones](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dallas_Jones)\
**Post date:** [August 5, 2021, 9:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-you-identify-gender-wise/948004/36 "2021-08-05T21:37:32Z")

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I am a meat popsicle.

I believe in no pronouns at all. Lately I am having a problem with adjectives too.

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**Author:** ![Dr.Strangelove](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dr.strangelove/32/6613_2.png) [@Dr.Strangelove](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dr.Strangelove)\
**Post date:** [August 6, 2021, 12:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-you-identify-gender-wise/948004/37 "2021-08-06T00:40:10Z")

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I don’t. Other people reliably say I’m male, though, so to reduce confusion that’s what I tell people on the rare occasions it comes up.

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**Author:** ![ParallelLines](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/parallellines/32/3575_2.png) [@ParallelLines](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ParallelLines)\
**Post date:** [August 6, 2021, 3:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-you-identify-gender-wise/948004/38 "2021-08-06T03:51:09Z")

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> [@Dallas\_Jones](#):
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> I am a meat popsicle.

That’s a very nice hat. 😜

Do you have a Lelu Dallas-Jones multipass while you’re at it?

Okay, had to get that out of my system.

Male, hetero, married, white-ish (Jewish), educated uses he/him (unless I’m feeling super pompous and address myself as ‘this one’), slowly turning to dust from age.

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**Author:** ![Kamino\_Neko](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kamino_neko/32/34_2.png) [@Kamino\_Neko](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kamino_Neko)\
**Post date:** [August 6, 2021, 4:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-you-identify-gender-wise/948004/39 "2021-08-06T04:04:54Z")

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Fluid, feminine leaning, NB at the other extreme. AMAB, and not happy about that for fairly obvious reasons.

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**Author:** ![Slithy\_Tove](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/slithy_tove/32/18248_2.png) [@Slithy\_Tove](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Slithy_Tove)\
**Post date:** [August 6, 2021, 4:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-do-you-identify-gender-wise/948004/40 "2021-08-06T04:14:40Z")

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A lot of my exes must have been bi…

…bipedal, the way they walked out on me.

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