Basically, I say “ant” most of the time. However, I’m bothered by the hypothetical chance of confusion. In that case, I’ll go with “ahnt” to help clarify.
I suppose the chances of confusion are slim, but you never know when “My ant is in the kitchen” might be misunderstood.
If a British person is rhyming aunt, aren’t, and can’t, then the likely pronunciations are — [cɑːnt] [ɑːnt]. And if want doesn’t rhyme with them, then it’s probably [wɔnt] — American want is usually [wɑnt], and it would rhyme (roughly) with British can’t.
The contrasting American pronunciations are ant [ænt], “ahnt” [ɑnt], and “awnt” [ɒnt]. If it rhymes with ain’t, then it’s [eɪnt], but in that accent, [eɪ] is probably an allophone of [æ] and would probably also rhyme with can’t [keɪnt].
I agree with the first part, yet I can’t disagree when it is pointed out that “awnt” is a reflection of how it’s spelled, which is generally how I pronounce most words. So when I’m around my Brit friends I’ll use “awnt” lest I have to hear how poorly Americans speak, but otherwise “ant” comes naturally. I used to call my favorite aunt “Auntie”, but only to her face, not in conversation with others.
I’ve caught myself pronouncing it both ways as needed for clarity. If I’m going to say “aunt and uncle”, I’ll pronounce it ‘ant’. If I need to say “my aunt’s house has a terrible ant problem”, I’ll pronounce it ‘änt’.
First off, you have a pretty voice. Second, you are saying “ahnt.” Third, the way you say “ain’t” makes you sound like an American Southern.
And here are transliterations of what you are saying. The first is IPA, the second is the usual English respelling:
[ul]
[li]/ɑnt/ /cɑnt/ ahnt cahnt[/li][li]/ɑnt/ /wɔnt/ ahnt wawnt[/li][li]/ɑnt/ /hɔnt/ ahnt hawnt[/li][li]/ɑnt/ /ænt/ ahnt ant[/li][li]/ɑnt/ [æɪnt] ahnt aynt[/li][/ul]
And the four different versions of “aunt” we have now are
[ol]
[li]/ɑnt/ ahnt - The way Eliahna says “aunt”[/li][li]/ænt/ ant - The way she says “ant”[/li][li]/ɔnt/ awnt - Rhymes with her “haunt”[/li][li]/eɪnt/ aynt - Not really the way she says “ain’t,” due to her accent.[/li][/ol]