How do you save money

Oooh, ooooh - let me put a plug in for Amazon’s subscription service. They have a lot of stuff that you might use regularly, and if you “subscribe and save” you get it sent to you regularly and there’s a small discount. I don’t know if shipping is always free with subscribe-and-save; it might be but since we have Amazon Prime it would be covered anyway. The one thing we subscribe to is Prilosec (omeprazole). We get the brand name vs. the generic because of packaging issues - and Amazon’s regular price is the lowest around plus that 15% discount.

It can be hard to find stuff that qualifies, there’s not a simple way to search (I think) but it’s something to consider forship-able stuff that you use routinely. It includes groceries, toiletries and probably some other stuff.

And every single thing you buy and when, to be tracked and sold to various companies.

I wish I could find that thread that turned me off of the whole concept. I think it was in the Pit, but this was many years ago.

Buying the Sunday paper for coupons is a good idea. But make that idea even better: go here on Saturday and see if you’ll actually use any of the coupons.

And building on what overly said about free shipping coupons, make sure you do a search for discount coupons before buying things online. Thinkgeek, for example, frequently has coupons for $10 off a $40+ purchase.

I’m not getting the angst. I don’t give a rat’s ass if they know about the muffins I’m buying or how often or who they give that info to. It doesn’t harm me in the least. “OMG, Fred, there’s a guy in Portland who buys a bag of Doritos every month! Let’s assign an agent to follow him!”

Sorry for the hijack. I’m done.

We track every single purchase, down to the item when possible, in an excel spreadsheet. The simple act of recording things has helped tremendously, because the best deal of all is when you don’t buy something you don’t really want/need.

We have one car in a city where virtually every couple has two. This is a PITA at times, but the savings are astronomical.

Lots of good tips already. My advice about grocery shopping is to carry a list of what you frequently buy - 20 to 30 items - and write down how much they cost in each store. By writing down, I know that dm has cheaper cereal than basic, but Aldi’s organic apple juice is cheaper than dm (only special offer though), that Edeka has cheaper bananas than basic this week, but basic has cheaper eggs than Edeka, etc.

Then, at home, you can go to work with calculator to figure out whether 150 g of Cheese at 2.99 are better than 230 g of Cheese at 3.33 (or whatever). Unless you are so good at math you can do it in your head at the store?

Update each time you are in the store!

Agree with the “Think before you buy whether you need it” mindset - it’s not a bargain if the 600 blazer is reduced by half if your budget is only 100 for a blazer, or if you already have two blazers and can afford one only in 6 months.

For that matter, make a budget! All fixed expenses like rent and water and traffic, and a guesstimate of how much each month for food, clothing etc. Then break it down per day and watch that you don’t spend more than the allocated 5 $ (or whatever) on all food.

Agree, too, with the quality thing: it’s worth saving up to buy quality that lasts (and can be repaired) than buy cheap and have to replace every six month. (Sam Vimes explains this as his “theory of boots” in one of the Discworld books). Obviously, this varies on the item we are talking about - a quality electric appliance is different than a store brand for hand cream. Add to that reading consumer reports to find out how the objective quality of cheap brands tested. Very often, they are as good or better than the expensive brand. (Typical example: ALDIs olive oil is the cheapest and best in tests).

In addition to thrift shops and ebay, you could look at lending org.s in your area. We started one several years ago, but it died off due to lack of interest. The reasoning was: why spend hundreds of Euros to buy a machine that you use only 10% of the time and is standing around the rest of the time unused, taking up space in your basement? Instead, a group of citizens post what they have to offer, and you just rent the machine from a citzen.
Again, this depends on what kind of machine. And DIY markets often offer to rent the big machines, so you can use that.

Agree with hobbyies: look at what you can do differently and still enjoy. Reading - use library, paperbookswap and bookcrossing, or buy used and sell again.
Excursions: packing a lunch and cycling in the city park can be as much fun as driving a car to a remote location.
Over here, the state owned museums are open free on each Sunday, so you can save admission. (Don’t know if they have that).

We have here LETS, that is, exchange rings. You post what you can do - touch-type, bake a cake, teach French - and the other person pays you in talents. Then you can use the talents to buy other services - take Mandarin lessons, get a babysitter. No money necessary.

If you have time*, get active in a church or other charity group. It helps against the feeling of being excluded because of poor and lets you feel worthwhile because you are doing sth. useful. So if you save money on food, you can still help ghetto children with homework, or accompany Spanish speakers to offical agencies to interpret, or go shopping for old people, or whatever.

  • a lot of people who are poor have less time because their wage is low.

Carpooling or public transport are cheaper than own cars.

Re: Coupons: remember that you look first at the original price. I get a lot of coupons for drug store stuff that I never use, because getting 50 cents of Ariel detergent is more expensive than the other brand I buy. So coupons and cards should always come in last in the consideration process.

Check consumer reports for what models tested best in their category, and then look for a special sale in your store, even if you have to wait a few months.

Oh, something that started several years ago with the recession: clothing swap parties (for women). Similar to Tupper parties, a hostess invites people, everybody brings one (obviously nice and high-end) garment they have decided they no longer wear and want to trade. Hostess provides drinks and snacks. All clothes are put on racks, you browse, try on, and for each garment you brought, you are allowed to take one (if nobody likes yours, you take it back home at the end). At the end, everybody goes home with a new garment without spending money - e.g. you brought a tight black mini skirt and leave with a green blazer. Hostess duties rotate each time. Feels much more upscale than the thrift store or flea market.

And even better, you can sell a video of the party to specialist websites for a little extra cash! :smiley:

I haven’t checked if “clothingswapparty.com” is registered

Last month my husband I reviewed our budget and found that we’d spent $5,000 on eating out in the last year. Fixing that problem is pretty straightforward.

Quality food is definitely a priority in this household, and that adds up fast. One of the first thing we did to try to get the food budget under control (other than eating out) is take a look at our grocery receipts and identify the absolute cheapest things we bought. Then we made an effort to incorporate those cheap things into our meals more often. We found adding cheap things worked much better than trying to cut out expensive things.

Hint: The answer is beans. Beans are cheap and healthy and can be prepared so many different ways.

Switching from juice or soda to water is huge. (Juice is no better for you than soda- quite fooling yourself.) I used to despise water with every fiber of my being, but it really is an acquired taste. It is now my beverage of choice 90% of the time.

I am just now starting to learn the beauty of this. Our food budget went way over this year and we tried to figure out why. It’s because we often tried to plan for 5-7 meals in a week. We would always waste food.

Now I plan for 2-3 high quality meals using fresh ingredients. Reluctantly, I have learned leftovers are my friend. I plan for those two meals (which usually is enough food for the week) and when I want a snack or lunch I use the extra ingredients we already have. We also put a tiny post-it note on leftovers with the item and the date it was created. This stops the guesswork on whether or not a certain mysterious container has gone bad.

I respect your right to not brown-bag it, but were you really making sandwiches every day? That might be the problem right there. When I bring my own lunch it’s usually homemade soup or salad or tomatoes with cottage cheese and tuna and pretty much every combination of healthy foods I can imagine. Homemade chili, homemade chicken fajitas, stuff I actually look forward to. I often bring leftovers from dinner the night before, too. I once (in a more ambitious state of mind) actually made my own bread and brought a home-made sandwich to an office meeting where pasta was served. (All of this can be prepared on the weekends, of course.)

I’m just saying, if you’re not excited about the lunch you’re bringing, of course it will be torture to eat it. But it doesn’t have to be that way. Here’s a plethora of healthy lunch recipes, many of which are suitable for preparing in advance and brown-bagging.

One final word on buying quality (which I agree is important) - decide what you value and spend money on that. Let the other stuff go. For me it’s cooking at home – I’m going to go that extra mile, buy the best cooking tools I can find, and shop for quality food. But if that means generic mouthwash and shampoo, well so be it. I feel like it’s better to have luxury in certain areas of your life that you have identified as important and slum it in other ways than feel like everything in your life is mediocre.

It’s possible that you can. It’s estimated that over 90% of the cars in the US are driving on under-inflated tires, which decreases fuel economy. Checking your tire pressure regularly (“weekly” is recommended, but seems a bit much; every two weeks, once a month, just more often than you’re probably doing it now) and keeping them inflated to proper pressure will increase your MPGs.

Your driving technique can affect your mileage, too. Did you know you actually use more gas when you drive angry? The reason is most likely an increase in rapid acceleration, hard braking, and fluctuating speed. Driving a nice, even speed is most efficient; you should also try to accelerate smoothly and brake gently over long distances. Try to minimize the time you spend idling. And while it’s hideously dangerous, there’s always drafting

Edited for more tire info: some folk say that filling your tires with nitrogen rather than air increases fuel economy by 3% or so. The reason for the increased savings is likely due to nitrogen’s slower rate of diffusion through rubber, meaning that tires properly inflated with N won’t lose their pressure as quickly, and thus stay at proper pressure longer. But the cost of inflating your tires with nitrogen isn’t always negligible, so take that into consideration.

Especially if it was the same damn kind of sandwich for the first 4 months. The thought certainly drains my appetite… not to mention my will to live. Where’s the horrified shudder smiley when you need it?

Lately, I just don’t spend anything from my paycheck, and learn to live on the per diem and free gasoline and free company car. But that’s quickly coming to an end, so I’ll have to go back to my old ways:

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[li]thegrocerygame.com and a newspaper subscription for the coupons. Although I don’t realize as much savings as people that buy pre-packaged foods and convenience stuff, I save on pet supplies and pharmacy items. Without the coupons, thegrocerygame still tells you the best deals on fresh produce and meats.[/li][li]Sam’s club for premium meat. Really, eating a Meijer steak just so that you can say you had steak isn’t saving money. It’s just bad steak.[/li][li]Trying to time my gas purchases for when I go across the bridge. Duty free, so fewer taxes and a lot cheaper.[/li][li]Brown-bagging my lunch.[/li][li]Making my own coffee.[/li][li]Servicing my car (it’s a long-term money saver)[/li][li]Buy only high-quality items such as clothes and shoes. They last a lot longer.[/li][/ul]
Those are really cost-avoidance measures. As for saving proper, I max out my 401(k), direct deposit a chunk into a money market account, and put my spare change into a plastic model of the Skylon Tower.

Also try the store brands - they are usually cheaper than a name brand+coupon. You may not like them all, but we find that about 70% of the time we are just as happy with the store brand as the name brand.

I have several to contribute:

  1. For any office supply or battery needs, Big Lots always has that stuff in stock all the time for about 1/3 of any retail store. Keep a list of other things that aren’t critical (light bulbs, etc.) and buy those too on the same trip.

  2. Get rid of worthless ‘memberships’ and/or share with others. Only one person needs to have a ‘Costco’ card among your friends, and if it’s you, always buy your gas there since it’s several cents cheaper. And I, like many people, never used by gym enough, so I ditched the membership and now make a point of walking rather than driving places when I have the time (saves gas and gets exercise)

  3. Clothing can never be purchased at the mall as a rule. Either I get it online, at Ross/Marshall’s/TJ Maxx, or at a mid-range standalone store like a Kohl’s. Even with business suits, we have a great place that has closeouts on them called ‘Men’s Fashion Depot’ here in San Diego that is easily 1/3 the price for the same nice suits. They even have an illegal alien sweatshop that does tailoring around the corner where they specifically direct you, which does outstanding work.

  4. Perhaps my biggest savings is on the bigger stuff such as:

a) car repairs - I learned to do my own brake jobs, oil changes, etc, which has saved me countless thousands of dollars.
b) appliances - when one breaks, we go to a special ‘scratch and dent’ outlet Sears has with high end Kenmore appliances at low end prices, often with scratches so small, we can’t figure out why they are there - if you don’t own a truck, make friends with someone who does, because bribing that guy with dinner will save you huge costs in all kinds of large item ‘delivery fees’, with the added bonus of not having to wait all day for the delivery guys. Also, before you commit to buying a new appliance, at least look up the problem online. Sometimes it’s a simple fix or a $5.00 part/repair that even the unskilled homeowner can do themselves.
c) the vet - Petco does vaccine clinics on certain weekends where the vaccines for dogs and cats are half the price of the vet.
d) wierd tools - before you head out to Home Depot, ask your friends on Facebook who may already own that expensive drill/router/sander, etc. that you were going to buy for a single job and then likely never use again.

I buy a lot of books online (alibris is a good one). If it’s a book I’m just curious about and the library doesn’t have it, I search for a used copy, which can be as low as 99 cents. Eventually, I recycle it by dropping it off in the bin at the library, which collects books of all sorts for a gigantic October book sale.

I’ve haunted thrift stores for clothes for years, and have assembled several good quality, coordinated outfits that will always be in style. They are there in the closet waiting for the proper occasion, and I can always buy the latest fad when it’s on sale at T.J. Maxx, or Target.

I have a couple of friends who love perfume. They’ll buy an expensive bottle and split it up (decanting supplies can be found online). Better yet, they’ll buy it for a low price at T.J. Maxx or Marshalls.

I actually do save little bits n’ pieces of food, store it in baggies in baskets in the freezer. The stuff adds up. I can grind up frozen ham or chicken the day before payday to make ham or chicken salad, make soup with frozen vegetables, chop up and heat leftover hamburgers to make burritos. Otherwise, I’d be making a cost-more-than-I-planned run to the grocery, or a fast food place, or charge a nice restaurant meal on my credit card.

And I save all my change in a big coffee can, haul it to a coin counting machine in the grocery store (banks are supposed to do it for free). I only WISH I could save $10 bills!

The day before payday, someone here is always running out of something, but I always say, make do with what you have. No toothpaste? Use baking soda, this one day. Substitute - just because you’re out of Biolage, you can use that old bottle of Suave just this once. Do without! - craving a pizza? Be virtuous, and put it off, one more day (or make an English muffin pizza to tide you over).

Drink water. Make your own coffee. Make your own bread.

I’m not poor by any means. I could always go to the bank and take out a few bucks to buy that expensive shampoo or that pizza. But I enjoy being thrifty, for the most part.

I’m fortunate enough at the moment I don’t have to be excessively frugal, basically what I do right now is practice asking myself if I really need something or if it’s a whim, that keeps the big impulse purchases down at least.

If I was in full on super save mode I’d do several things.

  1. Go through all the flyers from grocery stores to find the best prices on food.

  2. Get as many clothes as possible from the local thrift shop.

  3. Only purchase alcohol at the government liquor store.

  4. Severly limit nights out/movies etc, try to find the free or super cheap entertainment going on in town.

It’s simple-
The best way to save money is to not spend it.

I rarely eat out – while I’ll drop $40 on a nice once in a while meal, more often I’m liable to go home and make something inexpensive and tasty. And my game subscription keeps me off the streets and out of trouble. :smiley:

I let almost every potential purchase stew for a while before I pull the trigger, so impulse buys generally aren’t a problem for me.

I split every paycheck into approximate thirds: 1/3 to pay the month’s expenses and fun money, 2/3 to savings. (well, and stuff gets automatically put into IRA and 401K before it ever hits my credit union) This division has worked pretty well for me so far.

Loose change goes into a mason jar which gets taken to the local coinstar and turned into an Amazon credit or what have you.

One way (and I have mentioned it before) is to not break a $5 note. Save them and then bank them when you get to $100, or whatever.

It takes discipline- if you want an apple danish for morning tea and you only have a $5 note you go without. At the end of the day you take them from your wallet and stash them.

It does work. And pretty quickly as well.

I wanted to second what’s already been said: you need to also shift your attitude. Living thrifty as a lifestyle choice means instead of thinking “I can’t afford x, y, z” “I’m doing a , b, c which I enjoy”. That’s why, like a food diet, the lifestyle has to be acceptable. A lot of the usual tips on saving have the problem that they only save fractions of cents while being very uncomfortable. To me, that’s close to penny-wise, pound-foulish. So instead of for example, eating only potatoes (or beans) because they are cheapest, add small luxuries at regular intervals. One woman on unemployment enjoys one single praline per month (some bakeries and the delicatessen dept. of big stores offer pralines singly). It costs a few Euros, but she looks forward to it the entire month and enjoys it. Or you buy one bar of chocolate and treat yourself to one piece each evening. Not only better for health and weight, it also means you come closer to the Zen-buddhist idea of living in the Now. Or to Epikurs Gourmet idea of enjoying what you are eating, instead of scarving down one whole bar because you are depressed.
Likewise, when I take a trip on the weekend, I can spend over 20 Euros for train, lunch out and entrance fee. Or I pack my own lunch and take a walk in the park, and can do this every weekend, instead of only once. I can go (as said upthread) to the cinema on Monday (1 Euro off) and bring my own food. Or lend a DVD for 1 Euro and have a movie night at home. (I rarely go to the cinema anyway, because most movies don’t interest me, and I know that successfull ones will be shown on TV two years later, anyway.

Some people of the LOHA and green movement are living thrifty not because they are poor, but because they don’t want to waste resources unnecessary, and because by concentrating on quality instead of quantity, they can enjoy things more.

I think writing down a budget is the most essential step, to know how much you can spend. (if you wage is unfair, that is, lower than the minimum expense, then you are in a bad situation and need either another/ a second job or a law about fair wages). And for people who have trouble with discipline, a household book, where you write down all expenses every day to track what you are buying.

To continue the “penny-wise, pound foolish” idea: often a bigger investment can save a lot of money. Changing light bulbs is old hat, of course, but for a single or small household, buying a freezer means that you can buy in bulk which is cheaper. Buying a canning pot at a flea market or borrowing it from your neighbor, to make canned fruit and veggies when they are plentiful and cheap in season might also save money.

And I make individual compromises, for example, I personally don’t brown-bag my lunch. But I can eat hot lunch for 2 to 3 Euros, and eat sandwiches for dinner (Muesli for breakfast). This is better for me than cooking dinner myself in the evening. But generally, cooking yourself and brown-bagging is cheaper.

For those who like cooking, BTW, there are cooking clubs: a group of four or five couples invite each other in rotating fashion once a month for a big dinner. One couple makes the entry, one the main meal, one the dessert, so it’s not too much work, but still exquisite meal, and different from your own food.