# How I Met Your Mother: The Ducky Tie Spoiler!

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**Category:** Cafe Society\
**Created:** [September 27, 2011, 4:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-i-met-your-mother-the-ducky-tie-spoiler/597743 "2011-09-27T04:26:24Z")\
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**Author:** ![Oy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/bc8723/32.png) [@Oy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Oy)\
**Post date:** [October 4, 2011, 1:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-i-met-your-mother-the-ducky-tie-spoiler/597743/81 "2011-10-04T13:50:37Z")

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Note: this week (10/3), Barney was wearing the ducky tie. Robin actually mentioned it.

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**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\
**Post date:** [October 4, 2011, 2:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-i-met-your-mother-the-ducky-tie-spoiler/597743/82 "2011-10-04T14:34:13Z")

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I did note that! I also noted NPH playing a flaming gay character, which was getting pretty damned meta. 🙂

Is it too much to hope for that Kal Penn sticks around and marries Robin?

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**Author:** ![Justin\_Bailey](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/justin_bailey/32/8792_2.png) [@Justin\_Bailey](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Justin_Bailey)\
**Post date:** [October 4, 2011, 2:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-i-met-your-mother-the-ducky-tie-spoiler/597743/83 "2011-10-04T14:48:04Z")

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> [@Cat\_Whisperer](#):
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> Is it too much to hope for that Kal Penn sticks around and marries Robin?

He’s going to stick around for a few episodes at least and start dating Robin.

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**Author:** ![TruCelt](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/trucelt/32/523_2.png) [@TruCelt](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TruCelt)\
**Post date:** [October 4, 2011, 4:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-i-met-your-mother-the-ducky-tie-spoiler/597743/84 "2011-10-04T16:43:34Z")

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> [@Merijeek](#):
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> Remember too that he bought his parents a new Cadillac as a ‘just because’ gift.
> 
> Jerry wasn’t hurting, no doubt. One of the folks in New York Sitcoms that was probably living below his means.
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> His apartment was (for TV) pretty modest as well. What, a one bedroom with a tiny kitchen nook, a bathroom, and a living room?
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> -Joe

And yet, he couldn’t just buy another d@+^ space pen and be done with it. . .

Ted’s not jewish? Really? I thought he was. . .

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**Author:** ![Alessan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/alessan/32/465_2.png) [@Alessan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Alessan)\
**Post date:** [October 4, 2011, 5:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-i-met-your-mother-the-ducky-tie-spoiler/597743/85 "2011-10-04T17:00:06Z")

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> [@TruCelt](#):
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> Ted’s not jewish? Really? I thought he was. . .

Josh Radnor’s Jewish (as are both Alyson Hannigan and Jason Segel, at least partially), but I’m pretty sure Ted isn’t.

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**Author:** ![Happy\_Lendervedder](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/happy_lendervedder/32/8488_2.png) [@Happy\_Lendervedder](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Happy_Lendervedder)\
**Post date:** [October 4, 2011, 5:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-i-met-your-mother-the-ducky-tie-spoiler/597743/86 "2011-10-04T17:05:58Z")

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> [@TruCelt](#):
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> And yet, he couldn’t just buy another d@+^ space pen and be done with it. . .

Jerry shouldn’t have to. Jack Klompus could afford to give away a pen with all his money. Believe me. He writes a check for $19.45? He didn’t have a Coke? Ho, ho, ho!

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**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\
**Post date:** [October 4, 2011, 8:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-i-met-your-mother-the-ducky-tie-spoiler/597743/87 "2011-10-04T20:11:23Z")

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Ted’s from Ohio. Lily might be Jewish - she has certain JAP tendencies and she’s from New York.

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**Author:** ![Merijeek](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f05b48/32.png) [@Merijeek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Merijeek)\
**Post date:** [October 4, 2011, 8:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-i-met-your-mother-the-ducky-tie-spoiler/597743/88 "2011-10-04T20:32:25Z")

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> [@Cat\_Whisperer](#):
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> Ted’s from Ohio. Lily might be Jewish - she has certain JAP tendencies and she’s from New York.

I hear tell there’s rumors of Jews in Ohio! Don’t tell anyone!

-Joe

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**Author:** ![silenus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/silenus/32/166_2.png) [@silenus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/silenus)\
**Post date:** [October 4, 2011, 8:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-i-met-your-mother-the-ducky-tie-spoiler/597743/89 "2011-10-04T20:33:18Z")

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> [@Cat\_Whisperer](#):
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> Ted’s from Ohio.

Because there are no Jews in Ohio? 😕

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**Author:** ![Alessan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/alessan/32/465_2.png) [@Alessan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Alessan)\
**Post date:** [October 4, 2011, 9:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-i-met-your-mother-the-ducky-tie-spoiler/597743/90 "2011-10-04T21:01:03Z")

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Because Ted once spent Christmas with his Fundamentalist Christian cousins (whose kids had never heard the word “grinch”\* before). Sure, there could have been some conversions involved, but it didn’t seem very likely under the circumstances.

- In the sense of “cunt”.

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**Author:** ![Enderw24](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/ba9def/32.png) [@Enderw24](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Enderw24)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2011, 3:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-i-met-your-mother-the-ducky-tie-spoiler/597743/91 "2011-10-05T15:48:37Z")

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By the way, the season started with Barney having a crisis at his wedding because he wasn’t able to choose between two different ties. Then we find that he’s saddled with the Ducky Tie for the year.  
First, what this shows is that either Barney somehow gets out of the bet (for at least the wedding), or the flash forward is from more than a year in the future.  
Second, I’m going to guess that the lessons he learns from the Ducky Tie wearing (whatever the heck they may be) will directly translate into his decision on the wedding tie situation.

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**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2011, 5:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-i-met-your-mother-the-ducky-tie-spoiler/597743/92 "2011-10-05T17:17:53Z")

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> [@Merijeek](#):
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> I hear tell there’s rumors of Jews in Ohio! Don’t tell anyone!
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> -Joe

> [@silenus](#):
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> Because there are no Jews in Ohio? 😕

I think I was making a joke; I’m not entirely sure at this point. 🙂

So, you say there might be Jews in Ohio, eh? Fascinating!

(I thought the word his cousins hadn’t heard was “bitch,” but you might be right, **Alessan**.)

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**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2011, 5:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-i-met-your-mother-the-ducky-tie-spoiler/597743/93 "2011-10-05T17:32:11Z")

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Hey, anyone remember [Jen? Here’s a lovely photo I found online.](http://cdn.tvovermind.com/wp-content/gallery/how-i-met-your-mother-5-02-promo-pics/98400_D0775b.jpg) Hey, maybe Jen turns out to be his wife! (I do like the cats as the bridesmaids.)

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**Author:** ![Alessan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/alessan/32/465_2.png) [@Alessan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Alessan)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2011, 5:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-i-met-your-mother-the-ducky-tie-spoiler/597743/94 "2011-10-05T17:40:02Z")

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> [@Cat\_Whisperer](#):
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> (I thought the word his cousins hadn’t heard was “bitch,” but you might be right, **Alessan**.)

I thought so too, until I read otherwise here on the board. It makes sense, actually - “bitch” isn’t that strong a word; after all, Lily says "Sonovabeech!"all the time. “Cunt”, though, is just the kind of word that she would have a \*very \*hard time forgiving

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**Post date:** [October 5, 2011, 6:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-i-met-your-mother-the-ducky-tie-spoiler/597743/95 "2011-10-05T18:01:53Z")

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> [@Enderw24](#):
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> First, what this shows is that either Barney somehow gets out of the bet (for at least the wedding), or the flash forward is from more than a year in the future.

Not necessarily. Remember, towards the end, right after Ted leaves to go talk to the bride, Lily says to Barney (paraphrasing:)

“You’re going with _that_ tie?”

Which might be a subtle way of Lily reminding Barney that no, just because it’s his wedding doesn’t mean he gets out of the bet.

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**Post date:** [October 5, 2011, 10:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-i-met-your-mother-the-ducky-tie-spoiler/597743/96 "2011-10-05T22:26:56Z")

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> [@TruCelt](#):
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> Ted’s not jewish? Really? I thought he was. . .

The episode where Ted finds out his parents are divorced has a bit where Barney goes to Mass with Ted’s mother.

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**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\
**Post date:** [October 6, 2011, 5:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-i-met-your-mother-the-ducky-tie-spoiler/597743/97 "2011-10-06T05:00:13Z")

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> [@Alessan](#):
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> I thought so too, until I read otherwise here on the board. It makes sense, actually - “bitch” isn’t that strong a word; after all, Lily says "Sonovabeech!"all the time. “Cunt”, though, is just the kind of word that she would have a \*very \*hard time forgiving

You make a good point.

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**Post date:** [October 6, 2011, 3:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-i-met-your-mother-the-ducky-tie-spoiler/597743/98 "2011-10-06T15:00:34Z")

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This one is far more frightening.  
[http://tvovermind.zap2it.com/wp-content/gallery/how-i-met-your-mother-5-02-promo-pics/98400\_D0904b.jpg](http://tvovermind.zap2it.com/wp-content/gallery/how-i-met-your-mother-5-02-promo-pics/98400_D0904b.jpg)

The pics seem to be showing a bachelor party. and Robin is there, and seems to be drinking in a very determined manner.

[http://tvovermind.zap2it.com/wp-content/gallery/how-i-met-your-mother-5-02-promo-pics/98400\_D0661b.jpg](http://tvovermind.zap2it.com/wp-content/gallery/how-i-met-your-mother-5-02-promo-pics/98400_D0661b.jpg)

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**Post date:** [October 6, 2011, 3:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-i-met-your-mother-the-ducky-tie-spoiler/597743/99 "2011-10-06T15:39:14Z")

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> [@TruCelt](#):
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> The pics seem to be showing a bachelor party. and Robin is there, and seems to be drinking in a very determined manner.
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> [http://tvovermind.zap2it.com/wp-content/gallery/how-i-met-your-mother-5-02-promo-pics/98400\_D0661b.jpg](http://tvovermind.zap2it.com/wp-content/gallery/how-i-met-your-mother-5-02-promo-pics/98400_D0661b.jpg)

That was from the episode where Robin shows Barney how cool she is with strip clubs and goes to one with him (and Lily and Marshall).

> **[Double Date (How I Met Your Mother)](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Double_Date_%28How_I_Met_Your_Mother%29)**
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> "Double Date" is the second episode of the fifth season of the sitcom How I Met Your Mother, and the 90th episode overall. It originally aired on September 28, 2009.
> Future Ted describes a date he went on in 2009, and the screen quickly changes to show a side-by-side shot of him preparing in 2009 and 2002. It turns out that Ted is about to go on a blind date with Jen, a woman he went on another blind date with in 2002. After going to exactly the same restaurant and exchanging the same dialogu...

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I’m coming around to the Robin is Barney’s bride camp. I’m thinking that Nora will want Barney to wear something other than the Ducky Tie, which (having lost the bet) he won’t. Nora will want to know why (his bet with Marshall). She will then want to know what the stakes of the bet were. I doubt very much that she would be amused that Barney wanted to cop a feel of Lilly’s pregnancy boobs while he was desperately trying to win Nora back.

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