I’m not sure i can quantify my answer enough to click a box.
I used a free web dating service to meet one guy that i thought was awesome, tall, with floppy surfer dude hair, with whom i was definitely falling in lust, and I did sleep with him and then never heard from him again.
An older man that’s a little shorter than me, who liked cats, with the same wild curly hair, and glasses that i met at the dollar store when out on an errand turned out way better for me. Steve is still in my life three years later despite my having moved back to Indiana. I am glad that I talked to this man, and said yes.