# How is this OP not trolling? (IMHO thread about Atheists)

**URL:** https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-is-this-op-not-trolling-imho-thread-about-atheists/654563
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**Created:** [April 1, 2013, 7:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-is-this-op-not-trolling-imho-thread-about-atheists/654563 "2013-04-01T19:02:59Z")
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### Author: ![WordMan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/e8c25b/32.png) [@WordMan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/WordMan)
#### Post date: [April 1, 2013, 7:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-is-this-op-not-trolling-imho-thread-about-atheists/654563/1 "2013-04-01T19:02:59Z")

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**Bijou Drains** started a thread with:

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> **Are there atheists who are not really arrogant?**
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> If so I have not met any of them. To be fair I don’t know many atheists so it’s a small sample.

How is that OP not trolling? Now, Dopers posting to the thread have, for the most part, walked past the OP’s insult to discuss arrogance in one’s beliefs from a variety of angles. But didn’t **Bijou** start the thread with a decidedly troll-y approach?

If I am asking the question incorrectly, or presuming something I shouldn’t…or, or _something_, I apologize. But this just seems like a twit move.

ETA: and yes, if someone started a thread with “Aren’t Theists XYZ-bad people?” I would feel the same way and report it or ask about it like I am here - this is not about the specific group insulted in the OP, atheists - it is about the tone of the OP.

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### Author: ![tim314](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tim314/32/3468_2.png) [@tim314](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tim314)
#### Post date: [April 1, 2013, 7:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-is-this-op-not-trolling-imho-thread-about-atheists/654563/2 "2013-04-01T19:22:46Z")

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Yeah, starting an “Are all X really jerks?” thread is kinda jerkish, IMO.

Unless X = Nazis or Westboro Baptists or something, and in that case do we really need a thread about it?

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### Author: ![lieu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/c2a13f/32.png) [@lieu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lieu)
#### Post date: [April 1, 2013, 7:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-is-this-op-not-trolling-imho-thread-about-atheists/654563/3 "2013-04-01T19:27:27Z")

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Why are people that think different from me in possession of negative qualities? Kind of a crappy premise to begin with if you’re looking for honest discussion.

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### Author: ![Czarcasm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/czarcasm/32/4050_2.png) [@Czarcasm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Czarcasm)
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Would a thread titled “Are there any African-Americans who aren’t really lazy?” been allowed to stand as is, even if the OP starts with “I don’t know very many African-Americans but…”?

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### Author: ![Morgenstern](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Morgenstern](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Morgenstern)
#### Post date: [April 1, 2013, 7:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-is-this-op-not-trolling-imho-thread-about-atheists/654563/5 "2013-04-01T19:43:24Z")

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> [@Czarcasm](#):
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> Would a thread titled “Are there any African-Americans who aren’t really lazy?” been allowed to stand as is, even if the OP starts with “I don’t know very many African-Americans but…”?

Not even a fair comparison there **Czarcasm**.

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### Author: ![WordMan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/e8c25b/32.png) [@WordMan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/WordMan)
#### Post date: [April 1, 2013, 7:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-is-this-op-not-trolling-imho-thread-about-atheists/654563/6 "2013-04-01T19:43:41Z")

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Oops; forgot link to the thread I am commenting on/asking about: [Are there atheists who are not really arrogant? - The BBQ Pit - Straight Dope Message Board](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=686832)

ETA: **Morganstern** - why not?

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### Author: ![Czarcasm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/czarcasm/32/4050_2.png) [@Czarcasm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Czarcasm)
#### Post date: [April 1, 2013, 7:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-is-this-op-not-trolling-imho-thread-about-atheists/654563/7 "2013-04-01T19:47:44Z")

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> [@Morgenstern](#):
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> Not even a fair comparison there **Czarcasm**.

O.K.-How about “Are there Christians who are not really fanatics?”?

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### Author: ![Morgenstern](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Morgenstern](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Morgenstern)
#### Post date: [April 1, 2013, 7:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-is-this-op-not-trolling-imho-thread-about-atheists/654563/8 "2013-04-01T19:49:42Z")

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Much closer.

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### Author: ![Der\_Trihs](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/der_trihs/32/233_2.png) [@Der\_Trihs](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Der_Trihs)
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> [@WordMan](#):
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> How is that OP not trolling?

Because there’s genuine belief behind it, perhaps. Believers do pretty much universally seem to think that _just being_ an atheist is arrogance.

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### Author: ![WordMan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/e8c25b/32.png) [@WordMan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/WordMan)
#### Post date: [April 1, 2013, 9:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-is-this-op-not-trolling-imho-thread-about-atheists/654563/10 "2013-04-01T21:56:47Z")

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> [@Der\_Trihs](#):
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> Because there’s genuine belief behind it, perhaps.

Still jerk-ish, genuinely believed or trolled for effect.

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### Author: ![Trinopus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/2bfe46/32.png) [@Trinopus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Trinopus)
#### Post date: [April 1, 2013, 11:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-is-this-op-not-trolling-imho-thread-about-atheists/654563/11 "2013-04-01T23:24:10Z")

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I didn’t see it as trolling; rather, it seemed to be indicative of ignorance, or maybe just selective perception. It isn’t comparable to a racist question, because most of us are entirely free to change our religious beliefs…but not our race. It’s like asking if there are any Shriners who aren’t arrogant…or politicians…or mountain bicyclists…

It’s an inelegant question, but not much worse.

Also, reading the responses, nobody seems to have been outraged by it. We’ve simply answered it, openly and honestly and fairly.

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### Author: ![Sudden\_Kestrel](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ecd19e/32.png) [@Sudden\_Kestrel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sudden_Kestrel)
#### Post date: [April 1, 2013, 11:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-is-this-op-not-trolling-imho-thread-about-atheists/654563/12 "2013-04-01T23:40:06Z")

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I didn’t think of it as trolling, really. My reaction was basically :dubious:, and I didn’t waste time responding to what was IMHO not a sincere request for information, but I didn’t find the post particularly offensive.

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### Author: ![Der\_Trihs](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/der_trihs/32/233_2.png) [@Der\_Trihs](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Der_Trihs)
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> [@Trinopus](#):
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> Also, reading the responses, nobody seems to have been outraged by it.

More a matter of “well, it’s not like you can _expect_ anything better from a believer”; the thread title is clearly insulting, but that’s the norm for believers.

I’m one of the loudest critics of religion on the board, and I wouldn’t post a thread with a title like _“Are There Any Religious People Who Aren’t Gibbering Lunatics?”_ And I’d expect it to be closed immediately if I did.

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### Author: ![WordMan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/e8c25b/32.png) [@WordMan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/WordMan)
#### Post date: [April 2, 2013, 12:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-is-this-op-not-trolling-imho-thread-about-atheists/654563/14 "2013-04-02T00:08:16Z")

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> [@Trinopus](#):
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> It’s an inelegant question, but not much worse.
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> Also, reading the responses, nobody seems to have been outraged by it. We’ve simply answered it, openly and honestly and fairly.

Yep, as I mention in this OP. it’s still jerkish, and writing it off as “something to expect of believers” doesn’t feel much better.

It’s a twit move - not worth much of a kerfuffle, but I still wanted to call it out.

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### Author: ![Troppus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/a587f6/32.png) [@Troppus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Troppus)
#### Post date: [April 2, 2013, 12:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-is-this-op-not-trolling-imho-thread-about-atheists/654563/15 "2013-04-02T00:13:18Z")

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A thread entitled “Are there any Christians who aren’t smug and self-righteous? If so, I haven’t met any” would get dumped in the Pit before the first response.

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### Author: ![Loach](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/loach/32/350_2.png) [@Loach](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Loach)
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> [@Der\_Trihs](#):
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> More a matter of “well, it’s not like you can _expect_ anything better from a believer”; the thread title is clearly insulting, but that’s the norm for believers.
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> I’m one of the loudest critics of religion on the board, and I wouldn’t post a thread with a title like _“Are There Any Religious People Who Aren’t Gibbering Lunatics?”_ And I’d expect it to be closed immediately if I did.

And how is the post any better?

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### Author: ![Johnny\_Bravo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/johnny_bravo/32/493_2.png) [@Johnny\_Bravo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Johnny_Bravo)
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> [@Der\_Trihs](#):
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> More a matter of “well, it’s not like you can _expect_ anything better from a believer”; the thread title is clearly insulting, but that’s the norm for believers.

:rolleyes:

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### Author: ![Trinopus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/2bfe46/32.png) [@Trinopus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Trinopus)
#### Post date: [April 2, 2013, 3:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-is-this-op-not-trolling-imho-thread-about-atheists/654563/18 "2013-04-02T03:07:33Z")

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There is the intrinsic imbalance between a (large!) majority and a minority. Someone can more easily be forgiven for being ignorant about atheists than being ignorant about believers. As was noted in the thread, someone might have met many atheists…and never even known it…but it’s all but impossible to live in the U.S. and never have met a believer.

(Atheists don’t tend to wear jewelry with symbols indicating their lack of belief.)

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### Author: ![Der\_Trihs](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/der_trihs/32/233_2.png) [@Der\_Trihs](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Der_Trihs)
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> [@Loach](#):
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> And how is the post any better?

It’s a _response_ to an insulting thread title, not _an_ insulting thread title. It’s a response, not an instigation.

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### Author: ![Measure\_for\_Measure](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/measure_for_measure/32/557_2.png) [@Measure\_for\_Measure](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Measure_for_Measure)
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I’ll observe that ignorance was fought in that thread.

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