# How long do virgin (guys) last during sex? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [June 3, 2004, 6:30am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-do-virgin-guys-last-during-sex/248409 "2004-06-03T06:30:32Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![Ambivalid](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/a5b964/32.png) [@Ambivalid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ambivalid)\ **Post date:** [April 1, 2013, 1:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-do-virgin-guys-last-during-sex/248409/41 "2013-04-01T01:25:37Z")
> [@Ms.Pumpkin](#): > > If you supply the virgins, I’m willing to do the research. You cool with ‘born-again’ versions? 🆒 ---
**Author:** ![Ms.Pumpkin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/a87d85/32.png) [@Ms.Pumpkin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ms.Pumpkin)\ **Post date:** [April 1, 2013, 1:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-do-virgin-guys-last-during-sex/248409/42 "2013-04-01T01:37:01Z")
> [@Ambivalid](#): > > You cool with ‘born-again’ versions? 🆒 Sorry, anyone but the truly pure might skew my oh-so-scientific data. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![SenorBeef](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/senorbeef/32/2220_2.png) [@SenorBeef](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SenorBeef)\ **Post date:** [April 1, 2013, 2:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-do-virgin-guys-last-during-sex/248409/43 "2013-04-01T02:50:21Z")
> [@Ms.Pumpkin](#): > > If you supply the virgins, I’m willing to do the research. Well you’ve come to the right place! ---
**Author:** ![Wesley\_Clark](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/wesley_clark/32/20581_2.png) [@Wesley\_Clark](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Wesley_Clark)\ **Post date:** [April 1, 2013, 12:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-do-virgin-guys-last-during-sex/248409/44 "2013-04-01T12:39:15Z")
> [@Dunderman](#): > > Forever. I didn’t come my first time. same here. we went for hours and I didn’t come. supposedly a person who is accustomed to Porn and masturbation can have trouble adjusting to a real person. ---
**Author:** ![Prof.Pepperwinkle](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/prof.pepperwinkle/32/13627_2.png) [@Prof.Pepperwinkle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Prof.Pepperwinkle)\ **Post date:** [April 1, 2013, 1:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-do-virgin-guys-last-during-sex/248409/45 "2013-04-01T13:28:06Z")
I lasted only about 8-to-10 minutes. She wasn’t impressed. ---
**Author:** ![corkboard](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/e9bcb4/32.png) [@corkboard](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/corkboard)\ **Post date:** [April 1, 2013, 1:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-do-virgin-guys-last-during-sex/248409/46 "2013-04-01T13:50:05Z")
First time was in high school with a girl who hopped into my friend’s car when we were out driving around one night. Never even learned her name. She blew the two of them and she and I had sex, although I didn’t cum. It probably had something to do with the fact that (i) I was used to masturbating, and while she felt great, she didn’t feel ‘right’; (ii) we were laying across the backseat of a car; (iii) which was being driven at the time; and (iv) my friends were in the front seat, giggling. My second time, I erupted about two minutes after sliding in. Conditions were optimal- in college, just the two of us in her apartment, after months of flirting, and she was _hot_. Third time was with the same girl a few minutes later, and I lasted long enough for her to cum a couple times. The next morning was more of the same. ---
**Author:** ![DSeid](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dseid/32/20194_2.png) [@DSeid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DSeid)\ **Post date:** [April 1, 2013, 9:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-do-virgin-guys-last-during-sex/248409/47 "2013-04-01T21:15:10Z")
Oh c’mon it has to be said. A zombie virgin isn’t really lasting that long; it’s just rigor mortis. It wasn’t that he got off too soon, it’s that it fell off first. The girl did complain of crotch rot some though … ---
**Author:** ![Mr.Slant](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c57346/32.png) [@Mr.Slant](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mr.Slant)\ **Post date:** [April 1, 2013, 11:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-do-virgin-guys-last-during-sex/248409/48 "2013-04-01T23:50:04Z")
> [@DSeid](#): > > Oh c’mon it has to be said. A zombie virgin isn’t really lasting that long; it’s just rigor mortis.. Like I said, 45 minutes… ---
**Author:** ![KneadToKnow](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kneadtoknow/32/3999_2.png) [@KneadToKnow](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/KneadToKnow)\ **Post date:** [April 2, 2013, 1:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-do-virgin-guys-last-during-sex/248409/49 "2013-04-02T01:26:32Z")
> [@Dunderman](#): > > Forever. I didn’t come my first time. > [@Booker57](#): > > Thank you for that, thought I was the only one. Was your lady as impressed as mine? I didn’t come my first or second time, both with the same girl. Between my stamina and my oral skills she later broke up with me on the grounds that I’d lied to her about being a virgin. ---
**Author:** ![the\_diego](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/7bcc69/32.png) [@the\_diego](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/the_diego)\ **Post date:** [April 2, 2013, 7:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-do-virgin-guys-last-during-sex/248409/50 "2013-04-02T07:53:55Z")
A very long time, enough for Mrs. Robinson to brag how she went one night with a virgin. Thank goodness I never encountered another woman like that again (but thankful that I knew her so.) ---
**Author:** ![Drunky\_Smurf](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/drunky_smurf/32/449_2.png) [@Drunky\_Smurf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Drunky_Smurf)\ **Post date:** [April 2, 2013, 7:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-do-virgin-guys-last-during-sex/248409/51 "2013-04-02T19:58:44Z")
Back in my hobo\* banging days, and the beginnings of my sex life, I actively tried hard not to cum as I didn’t want to have any hobo babies running around and hopping trains trying to find me and make me pay for their school learnin. \*They were lady hobos. ---
**Author:** ![virginboy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/45deac/32.png) [@virginboy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/virginboy)\ **Post date:** [December 14, 2013, 11:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-do-virgin-guys-last-during-sex/248409/52 "2013-12-14T11:56:54Z")
> [@Ms.Pumpkin](#): > > If you supply the virgins, I’m willing to do the research. Ms pumpkin … I am really a virgin Pls reply ---
**Author:** ![Doggo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/87869e/32.png) [@Doggo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Doggo)\ **Post date:** [December 14, 2013, 11:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-do-virgin-guys-last-during-sex/248409/53 "2013-12-14T11:59:40Z")
> [@Dunderman](#): > > Forever. I didn’t come my first time. Likewise. The lady of the moment told me to get drunk the next time. ---
**Author:** ![Chefguy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/chefguy/32/138_2.png) [@Chefguy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chefguy)\ **Post date:** [December 14, 2013, 2:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-do-virgin-guys-last-during-sex/248409/54 "2013-12-14T14:31:00Z")
> [@Hawkeye73](#): > > Ask any woman how long a “virgin” has last on their first time. 99.9% of all women will tell you about the same thing > > 1. He came upon penetration > > OR for the real Stallions amongst us ~ > > 1. She got “two or three good pumps, a couple big grunts and a 10 second quiver” Or as we used to say in the Navy, after returning from a long deployment: “Two rim shots and an air burst.” ---
**Author:** ![drastic\_quench](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e36b37/32.png) [@drastic\_quench](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/drastic_quench)\ **Post date:** [December 14, 2013, 4:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-do-virgin-guys-last-during-sex/248409/55 "2013-12-14T16:19:22Z")
I didn’t my first time. We stopped after 45 minutes. I managed to the second time a week later. I think I was just used to jerking off. ---
**Author:** ![drewtwo99](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/d07c76/32.png) [@drewtwo99](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/drewtwo99)\ **Post date:** [December 14, 2013, 5:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-do-virgin-guys-last-during-sex/248409/56 "2013-12-14T17:02:26Z")
> [@Miller](#): > > Either that, or I’m gay. I know Miller considers himself Bi now but this is a somewhat prophetic post from the past 😃 ---
**Author:** ![11811](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/1/9d8465/32.png) [@11811](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/11811)\ **Post date:** [December 14, 2013, 5:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-do-virgin-guys-last-during-sex/248409/57 "2013-12-14T17:43:24Z")
> [@Clancy](#): > > If you are a guy, how long did your “first time” last. > > If you are a girl, how long do virgins last in bed. And does this disappoint you? I had no sports statistics to fall back on, so I tried to remember all the past members of Deep Purple. My first time was excellent. Later I realized I’d forgotten Tommy Bolin. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![DigitalC](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ebca7d/32.png) [@DigitalC](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DigitalC)\ **Post date:** [December 14, 2013, 6:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-do-virgin-guys-last-during-sex/248409/58 "2013-12-14T18:26:56Z")
I wasn’t so bad, probably 8-10 mins. I hear too much masturbation leads to lesser sensitivity during actual sex, so that might be a reason why. ---
**Author:** ![Wesley\_Clark](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/wesley_clark/32/20581_2.png) [@Wesley\_Clark](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Wesley_Clark)\ **Post date:** [December 14, 2013, 6:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-do-virgin-guys-last-during-sex/248409/59 "2013-12-14T18:27:02Z")
> [@Dunderman](#): > > Forever. I didn’t come my first time. Same here. I could go all night without coming. After she left I jerked off and was empty in 5 minutes. She liked my stamina at first, but soon got upset because she felt there was something about her that was preventing me from finishing. Do guys who have lost their virginity, then go through a long (many year) dry spell filled only with masturbation who then go back to sex have this issue come up or is it just virgin guys? ---
**Author:** ![Wesley\_Clark](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/wesley_clark/32/20581_2.png) [@Wesley\_Clark](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Wesley_Clark)\ **Post date:** [December 14, 2013, 6:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-do-virgin-guys-last-during-sex/248409/60 "2013-12-14T18:32:45Z")
Shit apparently this is a zombie thread and I replied months ago already. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-do-virgin-guys-last-during-sex/248409.md?page=2) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-do-virgin-guys-last-during-sex/248409.md?page=4)