# How long is it since you had sex? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [March 30, 2003, 11:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-is-it-since-you-had-sex/165204 "2003-03-30T11:44:04Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Honeydew\_1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/e19b73/32.png) [@Honeydew\_1](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Honeydew_1)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2003, 11:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-is-it-since-you-had-sex/165204/1 "2003-03-30T11:44:04Z")
For me, its been 17 months now :eek:. My bf (the Rhino in the name lol) and I are long distance; for various reasons (finances and a major car accident last Summer), we haven’t been able to get together ☹ (but still spend an inordinate amount of time of the phone and computer 😃 )… I miss him horribly ☹ . He is the love of my life and I so want him here - ok yes to shag his brains out til he has to go home in a splint :D, but also just to have him here ya know? Anyways, how long has it been for you? Why? And how do you cope? (All these oral sex threads are making me think this way !!!):eek: 😃 ---
**Author:** ![King\_Friday](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/43a26b/32.png) [@King\_Friday](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/King_Friday)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2003, 12:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-is-it-since-you-had-sex/165204/2 "2003-03-30T12:00:07Z")
About 34 hours since the sex ended and, unfoutunatly for her, about 34 hours and 3 minutes since it started. ---
**Author:** ![phraser](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/a88e4f/32.png) [@phraser](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/phraser)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2003, 12:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-is-it-since-you-had-sex/165204/3 "2003-03-30T12:53:20Z")
it’s been since… january? mid january. I’m a long distance person too… how I deal with it? it’s all i’ve really known! My previous partner was also interstate, as was the one before that. It’s hard… lots of phone sex, cybersex, dirty weekends, and just plain talking. Also, making up for lost time when we do see each other. ---
**Author:** ![Booker57](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/b9e5f3/32.png) [@Booker57](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Booker57)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2003, 1:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-is-it-since-you-had-sex/165204/4 "2003-03-30T13:10:10Z")
New Years Eve 1998. You did mean with another person correct? ---
**Author:** ![Why\_A\_Duck](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/13edae/32.png) [@Why\_A\_Duck](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Why_A_Duck)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2003, 1:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-is-it-since-you-had-sex/165204/5 "2003-03-30T13:13:57Z")
…about three hours. 🙂 (sorry, had to brag) ---
**Author:** ![Maxxxie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f14d63/32.png) [@Maxxxie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Maxxxie)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2003, 1:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-is-it-since-you-had-sex/165204/6 "2003-03-30T13:22:33Z")
6 weeks and 2 days. Yes, it was a valentine’s day shag :rolleyes:. Prior to that it had been 3 months and a few days. Not that I’m counting. 😃 Max. ---
**Author:** ![Honeydew\_1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/e19b73/32.png) [@Honeydew\_1](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Honeydew_1)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2003, 1:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-is-it-since-you-had-sex/165204/7 "2003-03-30T13:26:34Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Booker57 \* > \*\*You did mean with another person correct? \*\* I did lol… I have a feeling this thread is either gonna make me feel ok about waiting for him or totally crap lol… ---
**Author:** ![Fern\_Forest](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/71c47a/32.png) [@Fern\_Forest](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Fern_Forest)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2003, 1:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-is-it-since-you-had-sex/165204/8 "2003-03-30T13:33:17Z")
Sigh. It’ll be 6 years this august. That will be almost 20% of my life. ---
**Author:** ![roadrunner70](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/e19b73/32.png) [@roadrunner70](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/roadrunner70)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2003, 2:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-is-it-since-you-had-sex/165204/9 "2003-03-30T14:11:40Z")
If I smoked, I’d be having a cig right now. ---
**Author:** ![green\_dragon\_1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/13edae/32.png) [@green\_dragon\_1](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/green_dragon_1)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2003, 2:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-is-it-since-you-had-sex/165204/10 "2003-03-30T14:15:30Z")
about 24 hours i believe ---
**Author:** ![Davebear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/bcef8e/32.png) [@Davebear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Davebear)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2003, 2:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-is-it-since-you-had-sex/165204/11 "2003-03-30T14:19:01Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Rhino’sHoney \* > \*\*(All these oral sex threads are making me think this way !!!):eek: 😃 \*\* Sorry about that. :rolleyes: ---
**Author:** ![Early\_Out](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/6f9a4e/32.png) [@Early\_Out](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Early_Out)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2003, 2:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-is-it-since-you-had-sex/165204/12 "2003-03-30T14:50:09Z")
What is this “sex” thing of which you speak? ---
**Author:** ![Yorikke](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/yorikke/32/4335_2.png) [@Yorikke](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Yorikke)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2003, 4:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-is-it-since-you-had-sex/165204/13 "2003-03-30T16:56:41Z")
Day before yesterday. Gonna do it today, too. 8 years ago, I never thought I’d be able to make such statements… hrh ---
**Author:** ![roadrunner70](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/e19b73/32.png) [@roadrunner70](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/roadrunner70)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2003, 5:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-is-it-since-you-had-sex/165204/14 "2003-03-30T17:01:51Z")
I must be in a mood today… :::not smoking another cig::: 🆒 ---
**Author:** ![Honeydew\_1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/e19b73/32.png) [@Honeydew\_1](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Honeydew_1)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2003, 5:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-is-it-since-you-had-sex/165204/15 "2003-03-30T17:18:27Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by roadrunner70 \* > \*\*I must be in a mood today… :::not smoking another cig::: > 🆒 \*\* LOL this becoming your personal tally Roadrunner? C’mere til I slap ya lol 😛 ---
**Author:** ![Boyo\_Jim](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/87869e/32.png) [@Boyo\_Jim](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Boyo_Jim)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2003, 5:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-is-it-since-you-had-sex/165204/16 "2003-03-30T17:27:27Z")
I wish I had sex as often as someone posts this question on these boards. ---
**Author:** ![FaerieBeth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/e95f7d/32.png) [@FaerieBeth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FaerieBeth)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2003, 5:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-is-it-since-you-had-sex/165204/17 "2003-03-30T17:27:45Z")
Two hours since…but the total for the weekend (since Friday @ 3:30) has been seven times. 😃 FaerieBeth ---
**Author:** ![Enderw24](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/ba9def/32.png) [@Enderw24](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Enderw24)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2003, 5:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-is-it-since-you-had-sex/165204/18 "2003-03-30T17:33:53Z")
I’m not sure I understand what the OP is getting at. Perhaps if she would convey her emotions through some form of pictograph, I could better comprehend her meaning. ---
**Author:** ![Mephisto](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/48db29/32.png) [@Mephisto](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mephisto)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2003, 5:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-is-it-since-you-had-sex/165204/19 "2003-03-30T17:44:38Z")
A couple days, I guess. I probably would have already had sex today, but the kid won’t go to sleep. Ah, the joy of parenthood . . . I wonder if Grandma wants to see the little bundle of joy today . . . ? ---
**Author:** ![Lodrain](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/c4cdca/32.png) [@Lodrain](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lodrain)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2003, 5:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-is-it-since-you-had-sex/165204/20 "2003-03-30T17:55:15Z")
Seventeen years, one month and one day. [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-long-is-it-since-you-had-sex/165204.md?page=2)