# How many females are open to the idea of 'scat fetish' in a relationship? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [November 26, 2016, 4:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-many-females-are-open-to-the-idea-of-scat-fetish-in-a-relationship/773049 "2016-11-26T16:17:50Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![astro](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/9dc877/32.png) [@astro](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/astro)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2016, 10:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-many-females-are-open-to-the-idea-of-scat-fetish-in-a-relationship/773049/21 "2016-11-26T22:56:31Z")
This compulsion definitely exists as there are prostitutes attesting to customers who would pay through the nose if they would cooperate in letting these men eat their poop. Having said this the concept is so repulsive to most people on so many levels I’m not seeing how you’re going to really get a decent girlfriend who will want a man who indulges himself in this grotesque way. The alienation percentage is going to be closer to 9.9999% than 98%. Barring prostitutes the only real solution for you is to make so much money you can afford to “keep” a woman around who will indulge you in this. Sent from my SM-G900V using Tapatalk ---
**Author:** ![Smeghead](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f1d935/32.png) [@Smeghead](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Smeghead)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2016, 11:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-many-females-are-open-to-the-idea-of-scat-fetish-in-a-relationship/773049/22 "2016-11-26T23:00:36Z")
> [@astro](#): > > The alienation percentage is going to be closer to 9.9999% than 98%. Huh. I would have guessed significantly higher than 10%… ---
**Author:** ![astro](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/9dc877/32.png) [@astro](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/astro)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2016, 11:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-many-females-are-open-to-the-idea-of-scat-fetish-in-a-relationship/773049/23 "2016-11-26T23:04:28Z")
> [@Smeghead](#): > > Huh. I would have guessed significantly higher than 10%… He has a chance after all! What’s a decimal here or there. ---
**Author:** ![Leaffan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/leaffan/32/299_2.png) [@Leaffan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Leaffan)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2016, 11:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-many-females-are-open-to-the-idea-of-scat-fetish-in-a-relationship/773049/24 "2016-11-26T23:13:54Z")
> [@astro](#): > > He has a chance after all! What’s a decimal here or there. A misplaced period is an entirely different topic. ---
**Author:** ![brainstall](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/35a633/32.png) [@brainstall](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/brainstall)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2016, 11:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-many-females-are-open-to-the-idea-of-scat-fetish-in-a-relationship/773049/25 "2016-11-26T23:21:03Z")
Not at all open. Just too yuck for me. Urolagnia… maybe. So maybe it’s weird, and I am normally very vanilla, but it became a bit of joke between one boyfriend and I to pee on each other when we showered together. Not especially sexual, but if I had a partner into it, I could probably oblige, if I liked him enough. ---
**Author:** ![Sicks\_Ate](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/258eb7/32.png) [@Sicks\_Ate](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sicks_Ate)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2016, 11:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-many-females-are-open-to-the-idea-of-scat-fetish-in-a-relationship/773049/26 "2016-11-26T23:31:14Z")
> [@Leaffan](#): > > A misplaced period is an entirely different topic. You fucking rock. ---
**Author:** ![Walken\_After\_Midnight](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/b487fb/32.png) [@Walken\_After\_Midnight](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Walken_After_Midnight)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2016, 11:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-many-females-are-open-to-the-idea-of-scat-fetish-in-a-relationship/773049/27 "2016-11-26T23:36:09Z")
> [@Leaffan](#): > > A misplaced period is an entirely different topic. There’s a joke about the asterisk symbol to be made here. ---
**Author:** ![bare](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bare/32/471_2.png) [@bare](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bare)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2016, 11:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-many-females-are-open-to-the-idea-of-scat-fetish-in-a-relationship/773049/28 "2016-11-26T23:43:13Z")
What’s that saying… Eat shit and die? On the other hand, I once had a boss who took his dog to work most days. There wasn’t a shit nasty enough that would deter that dog from relishing every last morsel. Even though he was grossed out by it, the boss still allowed his dog to lick him in the mouth right afterwards. ---
**Author:** ![MN\_Maenad](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e95f7d/32.png) [@MN\_Maenad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MN_Maenad)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2016, 11:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-many-females-are-open-to-the-idea-of-scat-fetish-in-a-relationship/773049/29 "2016-11-26T23:46:46Z")
Search the Savage Love archives - Dan Savage has answered a number of letters from people with common and uncommon fetishes looking for partners, he usually has good advice. ---
**Author:** ![Leaffan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/leaffan/32/299_2.png) [@Leaffan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Leaffan)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2016, 11:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-many-females-are-open-to-the-idea-of-scat-fetish-in-a-relationship/773049/30 "2016-11-26T23:54:05Z")
> [@brainstall](#): > > …it became a bit of joke between one boyfriend and I to pee on each other when we showered together. Not especially sexual, … Maybe not for you. My bet is that it was for him and he was looking for an opening, so to speak. ---
**Author:** ![femmejean](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/0ea827/32.png) [@femmejean](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/femmejean)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2016, 11:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-many-females-are-open-to-the-idea-of-scat-fetish-in-a-relationship/773049/31 "2016-11-26T23:55:01Z")
> [@raventhief](#): > > Is it just me, or is having a discussion nth your mom about having a scat fetish - not the usual way people have of exploring what gets them hot and bothered? Yea…I’m considered weird and unnerving by the majority of my former classmates . Parents included. And no, this was before I ever divulged info on any sexual fetishes of any kind. But OTOH, I’m open to any kind of taboo discussions with my mother. Sex, Romance, Death, Parenting, Race, etc. It’s just too bad that she might not be as open as I am. ---
**Author:** ![brainstall](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/35a633/32.png) [@brainstall](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/brainstall)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2016, 1:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-many-females-are-open-to-the-idea-of-scat-fetish-in-a-relationship/773049/32 "2016-11-27T01:06:35Z")
> [@Leaffan](#): > > Maybe not for you. My bet is that it was for him and he was looking for an opening, so to speak. Nah, just something silly that we did and giggled about in the shower. If it had been something either of us had wanted to pursue we would have talked about it like we did everything else. ---
**Author:** ![Shalmanese](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/45deac/32.png) [@Shalmanese](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shalmanese)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2016, 2:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-many-females-are-open-to-the-idea-of-scat-fetish-in-a-relationship/773049/33 "2016-11-27T02:03:56Z")
Damn, there sure are some awful judgemental people in this thread. As far as we can tell, you’re not in control of what does or does not turn you on and having or not having any specific fetish does not make you a better or worse person. Would it at all be acceptable to say “I would dump a person immediately if I found out they had cancer”? Cancer places a far greater physical and emotional strain on a relationship than any conceivable fetish and yet, because it’s not socially acceptable to make pariahs of cancer patients, we don’t make blanket condemnations. Fetishes, like everything in a relationship, are about negotiation. The vast majority of people with any specific fetish don’t require it in it’s most literal form for their only source of sexual gratification. If you have a centaur or mermaid fetish, for example, you resign yourself early in life that you will never have that literal experience. But there’s a wide spectrum with every fetish which is available for negotiation. Perhaps if you’re not comfortable with literal shit, you could use simulated shit analogues like peanut butter. If you’re not comfortable with the act itself, maybe you just describe fantasy scenarios as you’re having regular sex. If even that’s too much for you, maybe just come to an agreement where you let them masturbate in private to coproporn and you accept it as long as you never encounter it. It may turn out that there genuinely is no fertile middle ground and that you two are simply incompatible for sexual reasons and that’s a perfectly fine and reasonable position to arrive at eventually but to pre-emptively declare it as “eww ick” as if it’s some form of moral contagion is repressive and gross. And no, people into coprophilia don’t have to resort to prostitutes or be rich enough to bribe some poor woman into tolerating their “condition”, that’s an amazingly ignorant and shitty thing to say. ---
**Author:** ![voltaire](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/voltaire/32/313_2.png) [@voltaire](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/voltaire)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2016, 2:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-many-females-are-open-to-the-idea-of-scat-fetish-in-a-relationship/773049/34 "2016-11-27T02:23:40Z")
Yeah, coprophiliacs want you to _take_ a shit, not have you _talk_ your shit! ---
**Author:** ![purplehearingaid](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/7bcc69/32.png) [@purplehearingaid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/purplehearingaid)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2016, 2:30am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-many-females-are-open-to-the-idea-of-scat-fetish-in-a-relationship/773049/35 "2016-11-27T02:30:54Z")
> [@BlankSlate](#): > > Maybe you could hookup with John Mcafee. I would rather be a dog before hooking up with him! ---
**Author:** ![Mean\_Mr.Mustard](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mean_mr.mustard/32/3865_2.png) [@Mean\_Mr.Mustard](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mean_Mr.Mustard)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2016, 2:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-many-females-are-open-to-the-idea-of-scat-fetish-in-a-relationship/773049/36 "2016-11-27T02:54:45Z")
I asked a woman if she was into it once. She didn’t answer, just looked at me with a shit-eating grin. mmm ---
**Author:** ![panache45](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/panache45/32/64_2.png) [@panache45](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/panache45)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2016, 3:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-many-females-are-open-to-the-idea-of-scat-fetish-in-a-relationship/773049/37 "2016-11-27T03:01:38Z")
Thank you, **Shalmanese** , for your post, especially the part about negotiation. I wish more people realized that ALL relationships are about negotiation, and those involving fetishes are no different. ---
**Author:** ![Guinastasia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guinastasia/32/5751_2.png) [@Guinastasia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Guinastasia)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2016, 4:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-many-females-are-open-to-the-idea-of-scat-fetish-in-a-relationship/773049/38 "2016-11-27T04:29:13Z")
Why oh why do people feel the need to tell these things to complete strangers on the internet? I mean there ARE fetish websites out there, why not visit those? _shudder_ ---
**Author:** ![astro](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/9dc877/32.png) [@astro](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/astro)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2016, 4:35am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-many-females-are-open-to-the-idea-of-scat-fetish-in-a-relationship/773049/39 "2016-11-27T04:35:33Z")
> [@Shalmanese](#): > > And no, people into coprophilia don’t have to resort to prostitutes or be rich enough to bribe some poor woman into tolerating their “condition”, that’s an amazingly ignorant and shitty thing to say. We’re talking about a desire to gobble up human waste not bronies. A fierce desire to reach into the toilet and take a lip smacking bite of a turd. If you can get away with it and not scare the horses or break laws have at it, but it is a viscerally disgusting practice for most people to contemplate. Calling someone judgey and ignorant for being repelled by the notion of snacking on human shit is an interesting ethical position. ---
**Author:** ![Leaffan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/leaffan/32/299_2.png) [@Leaffan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Leaffan)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2016, 4:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-many-females-are-open-to-the-idea-of-scat-fetish-in-a-relationship/773049/40 "2016-11-27T04:47:25Z")
> [@Guinastasia](#): > > Why oh why do people feel the need to tell these things to complete strangers on the internet? I mean there ARE fetish websites out there, why not visit those? > > _shudder_ Is this considered thread shitting? [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-many-females-are-open-to-the-idea-of-scat-fetish-in-a-relationship/773049.md?page=1) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-many-females-are-open-to-the-idea-of-scat-fetish-in-a-relationship/773049.md?page=3)