# How many members Ignore me?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-many-members-ignore-me/521146>\
**Category:** About This Message Board\
**Created:** [December 13, 2009, 10:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-many-members-ignore-me/521146 "2009-12-13T22:26:21Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 12\
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**Author:** ![Silver\_Tyger](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/fbc32d/32.png) [@Silver\_Tyger](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Silver_Tyger)\
**Post date:** [December 14, 2009, 5:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-many-members-ignore-me/521146/21 "2009-12-14T17:45:38Z")

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> [@pedescribe](#):
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> Hey! You’re still around, cool. I thought you had left.

No, just been quiet. School has a way of sucking the energy out of you.

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**Author:** ![LouisB](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/dfb087/32.png) [@LouisB](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LouisB)\
**Post date:** [December 14, 2009, 6:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-many-members-ignore-me/521146/22 "2009-12-14T18:34:18Z")

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I promise that I will never ignore you unless I dislike the OP of a thread and don’t open it all. If you post in that thread, I won’t know it but it is the OP I’m ignoring and not you.

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**Author:** ![KneadToKnow](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kneadtoknow/32/3999_2.png) [@KneadToKnow](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/KneadToKnow)\
**Post date:** [December 14, 2009, 10:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-many-members-ignore-me/521146/23 "2009-12-14T22:25:42Z")

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Ignore List-related question for the mods: is it still verboten to say or suggest that someone is on your ignore list, as it once was?

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**Author:** ![Marley23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/45deac/32.png) [@Marley23](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Marley23)\
**Post date:** [December 14, 2009, 10:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-many-members-ignore-me/521146/24 "2009-12-14T22:29:26Z")

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> [@KneadToKnow](#):
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> Ignore List-related question for the mods: is it still verboten to say or suggest that someone is on your ignore list, as it once was?

It’s allowed in the Pit and verboten in the other forums.

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**Author:** ![Ruby](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/13edae/32.png) [@Ruby](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ruby)\
**Post date:** [December 14, 2009, 10:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-many-members-ignore-me/521146/25 "2009-12-14T22:30:52Z")

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You’re a 99’er and you’re just now feeling ignored? Good for you! You have finally arrived at the Dope. 😉

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**Author:** ![KneadToKnow](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kneadtoknow/32/3999_2.png) [@KneadToKnow](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/KneadToKnow)\
**Post date:** [December 14, 2009, 11:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-many-members-ignore-me/521146/26 "2009-12-14T23:11:40Z")

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Thanks, **Marley23**.

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**Author:** ![AskNott](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/asknott/32/5790_2.png) [@AskNott](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AskNott)\
**Post date:** [December 14, 2009, 11:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-many-members-ignore-me/521146/27 "2009-12-14T23:32:44Z")

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I don’t have an ignore list, and I’ve been here a long time. Trolls get punted into the weeds here.

About a year ago, on a local forum, I put a couple of unbearable jerks on ignore. That board had no moderation whatever. It was taken down after a lawsuit, and doesn’t exist any more.

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**Author:** ![Spectre\_of\_Pithecanthropus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spectre_of_pithecanthropus/32/12343_2.png) [@Spectre\_of\_Pithecanthropus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spectre_of_Pithecanthropus)\
**Post date:** [December 15, 2009, 12:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-many-members-ignore-me/521146/28 "2009-12-15T00:10:23Z")

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> [@Wesley\_Clark](#):
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> you’re not on my ignore list. However I think PMs are blocked if you are on someone’s ignore list. So send a PM to someone requesting a response and if you don’t get one that should be a red flag.

Not necessarily. Not everyone checks their PMs on a regular basis, so somebody not answering you doesn’t always mean they despise you. I once PMed someone who noticed it months later and responded. Meanwhile, I’d forgotten about it myself and I was the one who initiated the exchange.

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**Author:** ![Zoe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/a4c791/32.png) [@Zoe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zoe)\
**Post date:** [December 15, 2009, 3:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-many-members-ignore-me/521146/29 "2009-12-15T03:37:00Z")

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> **Rhythm DVL** : I once put Spartacus on my ignore list. Almost the entire Internet disappeared. Weird.

Whose’s Spartacus?

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**Author:** ![Cesario](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ecae2f/32.png) [@Cesario](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cesario)\
**Post date:** [December 15, 2009, 3:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-many-members-ignore-me/521146/30 "2009-12-15T03:40:42Z")

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> [@Lumpy](#):
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> Well in several threads recently I’ve posted some remark, the remark goes completely unmentioned, and then someone else posts the same remark as original and then they get comments. It’s either my paranoia or my narcissism acting up.

It’s the narcissism. 😛

Happens all the time. A lot of people don’t read threads front to back, so they’ll generally only note the most recent couple posts when they show up to a thread (and maybe read the OP too), so if you aren’t there when the people interested in responding to a comment like yours are there, you’ll be passed over. The next guy was just lucky.

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**Author:** ![BigT](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bigt/32/12044_2.png) [@BigT](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BigT)\
**Post date:** [December 15, 2009, 5:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-many-members-ignore-me/521146/31 "2009-12-15T05:06:45Z")

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> [@](#):
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> Happens all the time. A lot of people don’t read threads front to back, so they’ll generally only note the most recent couple posts when they show up to a thread (and maybe read the OP too), so if you aren’t there when the people interested in responding to a comment like yours are there, you’ll be passed over. The next guy was just lucky.

You forgot to mention other aspect: a lot of people wind up responding after only skimming the thread (if even that much). It’s easy to miss a single comment.

Also, whether they’ve read your comment or not, sometimes someone else in the thread has said it better. Or, in places where there are ongoing arguments, maybe everyone agrees with you, and they’d rather argue with everyone else.

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**Author:** ![ToeJam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/dfb087/32.png) [@ToeJam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ToeJam)\
**Post date:** [December 15, 2009, 5:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-many-members-ignore-me/521146/32 "2009-12-15T05:49:50Z")

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> [@Zoe](#):
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> Whose’s Spartacus?

I’m Spartacus!

: d&r :

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