How much alcohol intake for delirium tremens to come into play? (upon withdrawal)

Thanks for the correction. But if it’s an error to say that they’re synonymous, then Wikipedia isn’t the only one at fault. A quick search of Google Books shows a very great number of authoritative-looking medical texts (including at least one from the World Health Organisation) that explicitly define “the shakes” as a nickname for DT in general or for a mild/early phase of it.

As others mentioned, I think genetics plays a huge role. When I was in my early 20s, and weighed no more than 170 pounds, I drank a lot. I was also somehow one of those people who doesn’t “appear intoxicated” - I mostly drank with an older crowd (10+ years older than me), and I had more than one person tell me that I was the first person they’d ever met who behaved exactly the same way drunk and sober. I had two different bartenders, both much older than me and with decades of experience as bartenders, thank me for always cutting myself off, because they could never tell when I was drunk. The one and only time in my 20s that I was ever “cut off” by a bartender was when a particularly bitchy female bartender (her sarcastic nickname amongst the customers was “Sweetness”) refused to serve me on the grounds that I’d already “had enough”. Except I had just gotten off work after a long shift, and was ordering my very first drink of the day. I asked one of the other bartenders what was up, and he just shrugged and poured me a beer.

I’ve never experienced alcohol withdrawal symptoms in my life. When I was drinking my heaviest, I could still decide one day that I wasn’t going to drink (usually that decision was based upon “I have no money”), and I suffered no ill effects by not drinking. When, in my late 20s, circumstances led to my deciding it was time to stop drinking, I stopped cold turkey - no AA or any other recovery program, and suffered no ill effects. This was after years of drinking, at minimum, a half case (twelve 12-ounce cans) of beer every single day.

My wife, OTOH … one or two drinks and she’d be out of her mind, and she would go on a bender that would last for days, and would only end when she wound up in the hospital, followed by a stay in detox and a regimen of whatever drug that is that ameliorates alcohol withdrawal symptoms. She only came to the decision to quit drinking when one hospital stay revealed a genuine physical problem, and the doctors emphasized that, if she kept drinking, she was going to die. (She’s been sober for over a year now, and has reestablished relationships with her adult children and her parents, all of whom wanted nothing to do with her at the time I married her).

If you were drinking to become intoxicated, and not becoming intoxicated, what was the motive? Why not just drink water? It’s alot cheaper