# How often do you give/get oral sex (honestly) **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [June 12, 2002, 3:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-often-do-you-give-get-oral-sex-honestly/113579 "2002-06-12T03:08:58Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 4
**Author:** ![Sublight](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/439d5e/32.png) [@Sublight](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sublight)\ **Post date:** [June 13, 2002, 4:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-often-do-you-give-get-oral-sex-honestly/113579/61 "2002-06-13T04:38:00Z")
She’s just not into oral sex, either giving or getting, so while we do a little of as part of foreplay, it’s been about 5 years since I’ve done either all the way. ---
**Author:** ![Gundy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/b782af/32.png) [@Gundy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gundy)\ **Post date:** [June 13, 2002, 3:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-often-do-you-give-get-oral-sex-honestly/113579/62 "2002-06-13T15:57:36Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Sengkelat \* > \*\*I have yet to meet a woman who can orgasm from penile intercourse but not from oral sex, although I am sure there are plenty of them out there. \*\* Me! But I have NO problem reaching orgasm, even multiple orgasm, by any means. The right warm breeze gets me rolling. Wow. That was highly personal, and I have no problem discussing it with a group of mostly strangers. Weird. I love this place! ---
**Author:** ![Max\_Carnage](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/max_carnage/32/12775_2.png) [@Max\_Carnage](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Max_Carnage)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2002, 4:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-often-do-you-give-get-oral-sex-honestly/113579/63 "2002-06-21T04:05:41Z")
A few more weeks of yoga class and I’ll be getting and giving it daily. ---
**Author:** ![Juniper200](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/df788c/32.png) [@Juniper200](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Juniper200)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2002, 5:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-often-do-you-give-get-oral-sex-honestly/113579/64 "2002-06-21T05:53:46Z")
When my medication lets my sex drive _exist_, I like to give fairly often. Say, 75% of the time. I’m not in a relationship now, but in past relationships, I received oral far less often than I gave. That doesn’t bother me; I don’t think I’m particularly responsive to oral sex. ---
**Author:** ![zen101](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/c68b51/32.png) [@zen101](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/zen101)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2002, 5:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-often-do-you-give-get-oral-sex-honestly/113579/65 "2002-06-21T05:59:59Z")
I get it an average of four to five times a week, I rarely give it. I also DJ at the only swingers club in my town so my average might be artificially elevated. ---
**Author:** ![furr](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/7ab992/32.png) [@furr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/furr)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2002, 7:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-often-do-you-give-get-oral-sex-honestly/113579/66 "2002-06-21T07:13:02Z")
depends on what you mean by oral sex, are we talking oral sex and only oral sex from start to messy finish… or are we talking including it in with several different types of sex in one session, but oral sex not actually being the thing that finishes it? if we are allowing for it to be part of the over all sexual session then: give – everytime we have sex (that ranges from every day to once a week, depending on a number of things) get – everytime we have sex. or if we are only talking oral sex exclusively until orgasm then: give – maybe every 3rd or 4th time we have sex. get – every now and then, my inability to achieve climax through oral, not any reason on his part. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-often-do-you-give-get-oral-sex-honestly/113579.md?page=3)