# How soon does the "kids" convo come up?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-soon-does-the-kids-convo-come-up/548126>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [July 27, 2010, 12:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-soon-does-the-kids-convo-come-up/548126 "2010-07-27T00:48:30Z")\
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**Author:** ![Sleeps\_With\_Butterflies](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/bb73d2/32.png) [@Sleeps\_With\_Butterflies](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sleeps_With_Butterflies)\
**Post date:** [August 3, 2010, 2:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-soon-does-the-kids-convo-come-up/548126/41 "2010-08-03T02:37:03Z")

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I try to bring it up pretty early. I will never have children and I’d hate to waste anyone’s time if they do.

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**Author:** ![Antinor01](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ecae2f/32.png) [@Antinor01](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Antinor01)\
**Post date:** [August 3, 2010, 7:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-soon-does-the-kids-convo-come-up/548126/42 "2010-08-03T19:59:38Z")

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Being a gay couple, it wasn’t as pressing a concern. But we did have the ‘do you want kids’ chat after…hmm it must have been a couple years of being together. (we don’t)

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