# How to be hideous: the right wing tries to discredit the Parkland school shooting survivors

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**Created:** [February 20, 2018, 5:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-be-hideous-the-right-wing-tries-to-discredit-the-parkland-school-shooting-survivors/809209 "2018-02-20T17:07:07Z")\
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**Author:** ![Superdude](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/superdude/32/13450_2.png) [@Superdude](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Superdude)\
**Post date:** [February 21, 2018, 6:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-be-hideous-the-right-wing-tries-to-discredit-the-parkland-school-shooting-survivors/809209/41 "2018-02-21T06:13:16Z")

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> [@SteveG1](#):
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> Yes. I meant it in a more "“in your face” type of way.
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> “Angry gets shit done” - Anansi, American Gods
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> The time for patience is over. The time to wait for the politicians (who are bought and paid for) is over. Time to clean house. Time to also get rid of the cowards who are just NOW severing their ties (or just pretending to) for purely poltical reasons.  
> And those “lawmakers” who say “thoughts and prayers” can quit their job of doing nothing and go to church instead.

Reminds me of this clip from “Full Frontal with Samantha Bee” from 2016. After a mass shooting. In Florida.

[![](https://img.youtube.com/vi/t88X1pYQu-I/maxresdefault.jpg "Sam Has Had Enough Of The Thoughts and Prayers for Gun Violence | Full Frontal with Samantha Bee") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t88X1pYQu-I)

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**Author:** ![EddyTeddyFreddy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/eddyteddyfreddy/32/18796_2.png) [@EddyTeddyFreddy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/EddyTeddyFreddy)\
**Post date:** [February 21, 2018, 6:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-be-hideous-the-right-wing-tries-to-discredit-the-parkland-school-shooting-survivors/809209/42 "2018-02-21T06:24:55Z")

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> [@El\_Kabong](#):
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> Some yoyo said his name three times, and now we’re stuck with him forever.

Sigh. You joke, but…

I’m responsible for **Starving Artist** ’s continued existence here. I’m the yoyo.

Yes. It happened thus: Way back when he first joined the Dope, he came in charging full-tilt with all the blinkered nonsense we’ve come to know and loathe. He was in a fair way to flaming out via banhammer, but, fairly new Doper and softie (softheaded naif) that I was then, I thought, “Gee, he just doesn’t understand the culture here. Let me try to help him.”

So, amidst the threadful of seasoned Dopers reaming his ass out, egging on his shrill aggression toward bannation, I offered kind words, gentle explanation and instruction in How Things Are Done (and Not Done) here, and talked him down to the point he survived his entry.

And here we are.

I am the yoyo. ☹ I meant well. :smack:

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**Author:** ![raventhief](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/raventhief/32/4_2.png) [@raventhief](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/raventhief)\
**Post date:** [February 21, 2018, 6:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-be-hideous-the-right-wing-tries-to-discredit-the-parkland-school-shooting-survivors/809209/43 "2018-02-21T06:31:38Z")

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> [@EddyTeddyFreddy](#):
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> Sigh. You joke, but…
> 
> I’m responsible for **Starving Artist** ’s continued existence here. I’m the yoyo.
> 
> Yes. It happened thus: Way back when he first joined the Dope, he came in charging full-tilt with all the blinkered nonsense we’ve come to know and loathe. He was in a fair way to flaming out via banhammer, but, fairly new Doper and softie (softheaded naif) that I was then, I thought, “Gee, he just doesn’t understand the culture here. Let me try to help him.”
> 
> So, amidst the threadful of seasoned Dopers reaming his ass out, egging on his shrill aggression toward bannation, I offered kind words, gentle explanation and instruction in How Things Are Done (and Not Done) here, and talked him down to the point he survived his entry.
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> And here we are.
> 
> I am the yoyo. ☹ I meant well. :smack:

I’m… I’m not sure I can forgive you.

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**Author:** ![EddyTeddyFreddy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/eddyteddyfreddy/32/18796_2.png) [@EddyTeddyFreddy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/EddyTeddyFreddy)\
**Post date:** [February 21, 2018, 6:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-be-hideous-the-right-wing-tries-to-discredit-the-parkland-school-shooting-survivors/809209/44 "2018-02-21T06:45:19Z")

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> [@raventhief](#):
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> I’m… I’m not sure I can forgive you.

I’m not sure I can forgive myself. ☹

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**Author:** ![RTFirefly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/c77e96/32.png) [@RTFirefly](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RTFirefly)\
**Post date:** [February 21, 2018, 8:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-be-hideous-the-right-wing-tries-to-discredit-the-parkland-school-shooting-survivors/809209/45 "2018-02-21T08:26:53Z")

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> [@Horatius](#):
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> Why does that surprise you? These guys really _do_ try to brainwash their kids with things like homeschooling and Bible Camps, and teach them that they’re in training to be warriors for God and similar sorts of rot. So why wouldn’t they believe that the other side does the same thing?

Surprised? Hardly. Just disgusted, and thinking this particular bad behavior deserved to be documented.

Here’s another one that didn’t surprise me: as **jayjay** mentioned, that right-wing hack Dinesh D’Souza took his turn in trying to dis the kids. After a bunch of Stoneman Douglas students made the trek from South Florida to Tallahassee only to watch the GOP-controlled legislature refuse to hear a bill banning assault weapons, D’Souza tweeted, “Worst news since their parents told them to get summer jobs.”

One of the students [tweeted back](https://twitter.com/sarahchad_/status/966121737590108160), “Actually for me the worst news I got was that 17 people died in my school.”

The supposed adult treats it as a game, and the high school kid has to remind him that that wasn’t a game last week, that people fucking _died_ out there, fuck your ‘summer jobs’ wisecrack, idiot.

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**Author:** ![Monty](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/monty/32/47_2.png) [@Monty](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Monty)\
**Post date:** [February 21, 2018, 11:30am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-be-hideous-the-right-wing-tries-to-discredit-the-parkland-school-shooting-survivors/809209/46 "2018-02-21T11:30:49Z")

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[Florida state rep fires his moron aide](https://www.yahoo.com/news/florida-republican-apos-aide-fired-012512492.html). The aide is a conspiracy nutter.

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**Author:** ![Gyrate](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gyrate/32/3588_2.png) [@Gyrate](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gyrate)\
**Post date:** [February 21, 2018, 12:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-be-hideous-the-right-wing-tries-to-discredit-the-parkland-school-shooting-survivors/809209/47 "2018-02-21T12:43:46Z")

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Hey, remember that time the mother of a US soldier killed in action in Africa dared to say bad things about Our Beloved Leader after he eventually managed to call her to offer half-hearted condolences and forgot her son’s name? And remember when the right-wing came out in force to vilify her? And remember Trump insulting the Khans?

There is no depth to which the current right-wing will not stoop, even unto slandering victims and the families of victims.

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**Author:** ![BobLibDem](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/boblibdem/32/3149_2.png) [@BobLibDem](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BobLibDem)\
**Post date:** [February 21, 2018, 12:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-be-hideous-the-right-wing-tries-to-discredit-the-parkland-school-shooting-survivors/809209/48 "2018-02-21T12:56:39Z")

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According to the right wing, teens are old enough to date Roy Moore but not old enough to contribute to political discourse. Once again, the right wing is aligning itself on the wrong side of history. Apparently condoning sexual assault (if it’s someone on their side), being against SSM, and celebrating murder of minority teens by police wasn’t creating enough of a stench. Yes, we must accept the deaths of dozens of kids every year because no further regulation of guns can be considered. Fuck them all.

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**Author:** ![RTFirefly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/c77e96/32.png) [@RTFirefly](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RTFirefly)\
**Post date:** [February 21, 2018, 2:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-be-hideous-the-right-wing-tries-to-discredit-the-parkland-school-shooting-survivors/809209/49 "2018-02-21T14:03:46Z")

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> [@Monty](#):
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> [Florida state rep fires his moron aide](https://www.yahoo.com/news/florida-republican-apos-aide-fired-012512492.html). The aide is a conspiracy nutter.

“I meant no disrespect,” he says.

Yeah, that’s why he liked a tweet saying, “wow im sold please take my guns brown bald lesbian girl” over pics of Emma Gonzalez. Totally respectful!

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**Author:** ![RTFirefly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/c77e96/32.png) [@RTFirefly](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RTFirefly)\
**Post date:** [February 21, 2018, 3:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-be-hideous-the-right-wing-tries-to-discredit-the-parkland-school-shooting-survivors/809209/50 "2018-02-21T15:11:53Z")

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> [@Tucker Carlson](#):
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> [They are using these kids](https://www.mediamatters.org/video/2018/02/20/tucker-carlson-complains-about-moral-blackmail-student-survivors-speaking-out-about-gun-violence/219440) in a kind of moral blackmail, where you are not allowed to disagree or you are attacking the child – which is, of course – I can speak for myself, the last thing that I would ever do as a father of four.

Shorter Tucker: “I’m not attacking them, I’m just saying they’re pawns rather than acting on their own.”

Not seeing much daylight between those things, Tucker.

Not to mention, disagreeing with them is OK. What’s not OK is what you and your kindred spirits are doing: refusing to take them at their word about who they are and why they’re speaking out.

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**Author:** ![DrFidelius](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/drfidelius/32/3447_2.png) [@DrFidelius](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DrFidelius)\
**Post date:** [February 21, 2018, 3:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-be-hideous-the-right-wing-tries-to-discredit-the-parkland-school-shooting-survivors/809209/51 "2018-02-21T15:44:40Z")

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If you cannot argue against the message you must discredit the messenger.

I see a lot of this from folks who never had an idea or a cause of their own and cannot imagine anyone doing any action without being prompted or paid to do so.

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**Author:** ![RTFirefly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/c77e96/32.png) [@RTFirefly](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RTFirefly)\
**Post date:** [February 21, 2018, 3:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-be-hideous-the-right-wing-tries-to-discredit-the-parkland-school-shooting-survivors/809209/52 "2018-02-21T15:46:46Z")

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And a swell [conversation between two Faux News ‘personalities’](https://www.mediamatters.org/video/2018/02/20/mollie-hemingway-survivors-florida-school-shooting-are-traumatized-children-who-are-being-used-gun/219439):

> [@](#):
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> MARTHA MACCALLUM (HOST): You know, one of the sort-of more difficult conversations that has been happening around this, is the suggestion that some of these students’ grief has been co-opted by groups who want to use this horrific situation to push their own way of thinking about guns. Mollie, what do you think of that?
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> MOLLIE HEMINGWAY: Yeah, there’s been some unfortunate media handling of these traumatized children. They’ve used them as ways to enact what they always like to do, which is a gun control agenda. These children aren’t forcing their ways on to CNN, town halls, or the cover of People magazine, media are choosing them to put there, and use them again as this means by which – to shut down debate, and keep people from being able to have a conversation about gun control.

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**Author:** ![VinylTurnip](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/b2d939/32.png) [@VinylTurnip](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/VinylTurnip)\
**Post date:** [February 21, 2018, 3:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-be-hideous-the-right-wing-tries-to-discredit-the-parkland-school-shooting-survivors/809209/53 "2018-02-21T15:53:47Z")

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> [@El\_Kabong](#):
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> Some yoyo said his name three times, and now we’re stuck with him forever.

I’d share a toothbrush with Betelgeuse if it meant sending _[name redacted]_ to some other netherworld…

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**Author:** ![Max\_Torque](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e9bcb4/32.png) [@Max\_Torque](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Max_Torque)\
**Post date:** [February 21, 2018, 4:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-be-hideous-the-right-wing-tries-to-discredit-the-parkland-school-shooting-survivors/809209/54 "2018-02-21T16:03:55Z")

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Jesus, these pundits. How about you step aside and let the people _who have actually been shot at_ decide how best to proceed?

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**Author:** ![Gyrate](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gyrate/32/3588_2.png) [@Gyrate](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gyrate)\
**Post date:** [February 21, 2018, 4:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-be-hideous-the-right-wing-tries-to-discredit-the-parkland-school-shooting-survivors/809209/55 "2018-02-21T16:35:23Z")

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> [@RTFirefly](#):
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> And a swell [conversation between two Faux News ‘personalities’](https://www.mediamatters.org/video/2018/02/20/mollie-hemingway-survivors-florida-school-shooting-are-traumatized-children-who-are-being-used-gun/219439):
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> > [@](#):
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> > MARTHA MACCALLUM (HOST): You know, one of the sort-of more difficult conversations that has been happening around this, is the suggestion that some of these students’ grief has been co-opted by groups who want to use this horrific situation to push their own way of thinking about guns. Mollie, what do you think of that?
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> > MOLLIE HEMINGWAY: Yeah, there’s been some unfortunate media handling of these traumatized children. They’ve used them as ways to enact what they always like to do, which is a gun control agenda. These children aren’t forcing their ways on to CNN, town halls, or the cover of People magazine, media are choosing them to put there, and use them again as this means by which – **to shut down debate, and keep people from being able to have a conversation about gun control**.

(bolding mine)

So the media are shutting down debate and keeping people from being able to have a conversation about gun control by giving people with views on gun control access to media coverage and town hall meetings? Yes, that makes sense.

Next up: war news from the Eastasian front.

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**Author:** ![Jackmannii](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jackmannii/32/311_2.png) [@Jackmannii](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jackmannii)\
**Post date:** [February 21, 2018, 4:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-be-hideous-the-right-wing-tries-to-discredit-the-parkland-school-shooting-survivors/809209/56 "2018-02-21T16:45:47Z")

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How about the right wing saying this about Trump? “From Asia to Europe, he has squandered America’s influence and moral authority.”

The right wing today also declared Trump “a clear and present danger” to America and said that if he won’t take the strongest possible action against Russia to protect our free elections, the 25th Amendment should be invoked so that VP Pence can take over, since Trump would be “unable to discharge the powers and duties of his office.”

True, these statements are from one op-ed writer for the Wall St. Journal (William Galston), but since the OP defined the right wing by invoking a single writer for the National Review, we must also acknowledge the right wing is calling for drastic action against Trump.

\*I’d link to today’s Galston op-ed but it’s behind a paywall.

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**Author:** ![andros](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/e480ec/32.png) [@andros](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/andros)\
**Post date:** [February 21, 2018, 5:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-be-hideous-the-right-wing-tries-to-discredit-the-parkland-school-shooting-survivors/809209/57 "2018-02-21T17:06:37Z")

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> [@Jackmannii](#):
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> …since the OP defined the right wing by invoking a single writer for the National Review…

Well, \*two \*different writers are cited in the OP. And additional bile-spewing from _some_ on the so-called right can be found cited in posts 7, 12,17, 35, 50, and 52.

I hear your point, and I get your annoyance, but you can’t sustain an argument that more of the right-wing bloviating heads are pro-Trump than anti. And IMO you can’t sustain an argument that more are supportive of the Parkland kids than not.

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**Author:** ![SteveG1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/bb73d2/32.png) [@SteveG1](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SteveG1)\
**Post date:** [February 21, 2018, 6:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-be-hideous-the-right-wing-tries-to-discredit-the-parkland-school-shooting-survivors/809209/58 "2018-02-21T18:39:34Z")

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> [@El\_Kabong](#):
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> Some yoyo said his name three times, and now we’re stuck with him forever.

By that procedure, I’d rather have Beetlejuice, Bloody Mary AND Candyman.

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**Author:** ![Jackmannii](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jackmannii/32/311_2.png) [@Jackmannii](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jackmannii)\
**Post date:** [February 21, 2018, 6:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-be-hideous-the-right-wing-tries-to-discredit-the-parkland-school-shooting-survivors/809209/59 "2018-02-21T18:52:04Z")

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> [@andros](#):
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> Well, \*two \*different writers are cited in the OP.

True. I didn’t see the reference to the incredibly obscure second individual.

> [@](#):
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> I hear your point, and I get your annoyance, but you can’t sustain an argument that more of the right-wing bloviating heads are pro-Trump than anti.

Nor was I making such an argument.

It just gets tiresome as hell to see Dopers on the Left or Right dredge up (and often mischaracterize) an article or Facebook/Twitter comment by someone as “evidence” that They are all like that.

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**Author:** ![andros](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/e480ec/32.png) [@andros](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/andros)\
**Post date:** [February 21, 2018, 7:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-be-hideous-the-right-wing-tries-to-discredit-the-parkland-school-shooting-survivors/809209/60 "2018-02-21T19:18:36Z")

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> [@Jackmannii](#):
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> It just gets tiresome as hell to see Dopers on the Left or Right dredge up (and often mischaracterize) an article or Facebook/Twitter comment by someone as “evidence” that They are all like that.

:shrug: Ok. I certainly don’t think **RTF** was suggesting anything of the sort, but YMOV.

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