# How to make the SDMB more social? **URL:** \ **Category:** About This Message Board\ **Created:** [October 3, 2010, 6:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-make-the-sdmb-more-social/555897 "2010-10-03T06:31:31Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 5
**Author:** ![jackdavinci](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jackdavinci/32/3259_2.png) [@jackdavinci](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jackdavinci)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2010, 10:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-make-the-sdmb-more-social/555897/81 "2010-10-06T10:51:46Z")
> [@Tibbytoes](#): > > How do I route my avatar through PayPal? You can’t. Raft’s many attempts at creating a straw avatar have failed in their obvious complete lack of anything to do with resemblance to reality. ---
**Author:** ![DrFidelius](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/drfidelius/32/3447_2.png) [@DrFidelius](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DrFidelius)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2010, 11:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-make-the-sdmb-more-social/555897/82 "2010-10-06T11:32:15Z")
* * * _ **|** _|_ **|** _|_**|\_\_\_| || **_|_** | **_|_** | | | **_** |\_\_\_\_| **_** |**_\_\_| Straw avatars have been proven to be useless. That is why I built my avatar of bricks. ---
**Author:** ![jackdavinci](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jackdavinci/32/3259_2.png) [@jackdavinci](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jackdavinci)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2010, 12:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-make-the-sdmb-more-social/555897/83 "2010-10-06T12:28:25Z")
> [@DrFidelius](#): > > That is why I built my avatar of bricks. Wolf proof perhaps. But troll proof? :eek: ---
**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2010, 1:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-make-the-sdmb-more-social/555897/84 "2010-10-06T13:13:44Z")
> [@Martini\_Enfield](#): > > > [@Cat\_Whisperer](#): > > > > I don’t think many people want an influx of newbies who can’t use proper English if they try or string two thoughts together, but standing still and getting left behind on the internet isn’t a good solution for a vibrant, thriving board. And that brings up another point - we are _on the internet_. The stodgiest of us here should go back to writing letters to their local newspaper if they don’t want to use any of the benefits that this medium offers. > > Further to the “local pub” analogy I used earlier, try a “Member’s Club” analogy. You don’t got to Blades or Whites or the Colonial Club or somewhere like that and say “Hey, you know what? We should get rid of the oak panelling and the high-back leather chairs, and get a pumping sound system, play the hottest music, sell trendy cocktails, and see if we can get some celebrities to put in an appearance every now and then.” It’s not what they’re _about_. > > If you want to do that sort of thing, there are heaps of places where you can. There aren’t as many places- especially on the internet- where you can metaphorically relax in your high-backed leather chair in the metaphorical oak-panelled study and have an intelligent conversation with other people who also value being able to do the same. > > I’m not saying the introduction of avatars would be the same as turning an exclusive club into a uni bar, but there valid reasons for people here to not want change for the sake of change or because everyone else on the net is doing it. Whereas I see the addition of avatars here to be analogous to the old-school private club adding wifi for its members. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Acsenray](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/acsenray/32/4519_2.png) [@Acsenray](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Acsenray)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2010, 1:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-make-the-sdmb-more-social/555897/85 "2010-10-06T13:21:34Z")
[QUOTE=jackdavinci] While I admire those of you who can see a username and immediately imprint on it and associate it with future posts, I just can’t do that. I need to see some kind of visual cue to make that kind of instantaneous imprinting on my internal address book. It’s possible I’m some kind of unique mutated freak, but I don’t get that impression. … I think the current situation is more like a masquerade party where everyone has the same costume and mask, except for a very small, single typeface sticky badge that says “hello my name is…” And having optional avatars would be like taking the mask off so we recognized the characters in our pub and felt familiar and maybe even slightly exclusionary. As of now, it’s not really apparent when newbies show up. Or when old standbys have gone missing. [/QUOTE] You’re the one not getting it. You’re not defective. This place concentrate on ideas, not personalities. If no one is distinguishing themselves with their ideas, that’s a feature not a bug. ---
**Author:** ![MrDibble](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mrdibble/32/114_2.png) [@MrDibble](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MrDibble)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2010, 1:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-make-the-sdmb-more-social/555897/86 "2010-10-06T13:34:45Z")
> [@CarnalK](#): > > > [@MrDibble](#): > > > > Ditto. In fact that’s why I haven’t been back to Giraffe Boards in forever. > > Do you visit _any_ other message boards then? Yes. Mostly single-interest boards related to the SCA. ---
**Author:** ![MrDibble](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mrdibble/32/114_2.png) [@MrDibble](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MrDibble)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2010, 1:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-make-the-sdmb-more-social/555897/87 "2010-10-06T13:43:59Z")
> [@srzss05](#): > > > [@MrDibble](#): > > > > Ditto. In fact that’s why I haven’t been back to Giraffe Boards in forever. > > If you have an account there, you can turn them off. That’s what I do. I did. I was just replying to the idea that those boards look “clean” or “uncluttered” when they’re turned on. They don’t. Maybe if everyone was restricted to a certain \*fixed \*size. Or a limited set (that all users can add to subject to mod approval). I’m on different boards that do one or both. Those I don’t mind ---
**Author:** ![RaftPeople](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/6f9a4e/32.png) [@RaftPeople](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RaftPeople)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2010, 2:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-make-the-sdmb-more-social/555897/88 "2010-10-06T14:42:00Z")
> [@Tibbytoes](#): > > ```auto > > OOOOOOOO _______________________________________ > O O [] > O [O] [O] O [This Space Reserved for Advertisers] > O O [contact me at Avatar-Ad.com] > O o O [_______________________________________] > O _____ O > O \_/ O Hello Ladies - I am Tibbytoe's Good Time Click/Lick Avatar* > O O > OOOOOOOO > *$5 per click > > ``` > > How do I route my avatar through PayPal? Well played my friend, well played! ---
**Author:** ![RaftPeople](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/6f9a4e/32.png) [@RaftPeople](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RaftPeople)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2010, 2:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-make-the-sdmb-more-social/555897/89 "2010-10-06T14:44:22Z")
> [@jackdavinci](#): > > > [@Tibbytoes](#): > > > > How do I route my avatar through PayPal? > > You can’t. Raft’s many attempts at creating a straw avatar have failed in their obvious complete lack of anything to do with resemblance to reality. Unfortunately for me, my avatar is almost exactly what I look like. ---
**Author:** ![VinylTurnip](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/b2d939/32.png) [@VinylTurnip](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/VinylTurnip)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2010, 2:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-make-the-sdmb-more-social/555897/90 "2010-10-06T14:45:42Z")
> [@Una\_Persson](#): > > I think at some point the Straight Dope Message Board is going to have to offer avatars or else end up being passed over by more prospective posters than would be lost due to having avatars. Back when I waited tables in a five-star restaurant, my manager—despite my fervent pleas— flatly refused to reconsider our strict shirt-and-shoes requirement. I’m troubled to see repeated here the same prejudicial short-sightedness that in those days excluded Hobbits and hillbillies from both our dining clientele and our waitstaff. ---
**Author:** ![DrFidelius](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/drfidelius/32/3447_2.png) [@DrFidelius](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DrFidelius)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2010, 3:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-make-the-sdmb-more-social/555897/91 "2010-10-06T15:05:09Z")
Waitstaff? Why not hire a hobbit as a short order cook? ---
**Author:** ![RaftPeople](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/6f9a4e/32.png) [@RaftPeople](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RaftPeople)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2010, 3:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-make-the-sdmb-more-social/555897/92 "2010-10-06T15:06:57Z")
```auto OOOOOOOO _______________________________________________ O O [] O [O] [O] O [Dirt, Dingy, Yellow Teeth?] O O [Now you can have beautiful white teeth...] O o O [_______________________________________________] O O O [_____] O Hello - I am RaftPeople's Avatar! O O OOOOOOOO ``` I’m starting to get hits on the advertisers already. ---
**Author:** ![elmwood](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/elmwood/32/3060_2.png) [@elmwood](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/elmwood)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2010, 3:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-make-the-sdmb-more-social/555897/93 "2010-10-06T15:32:43Z")
> [@acsenray](#): > > This is a very weird argument. This is a discussion board. We are using all the Benefits the Internet offers for a discussion board. There are other discussion boards that are something else in addition to bEing a discussion board and the use features that facilitate those other purposes, such as Avatars which are are entirely superfluous to discussion. Do you drive one of [these](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q3V5S7NhvcA)? Just wondering. Private messages? Superfluous to discussion. Friends, favorites and the like? Superfluous to discussion. Search? Superfluous to discussion. Smileys? Superfluous to discussion. Different fonts? Superfluous to discussion. Custom titles? Superfluous to discussion. Thread subscriptions? Superfluous to discussion. ---
**Author:** ![Acsenray](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/acsenray/32/4519_2.png) [@Acsenray](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Acsenray)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2010, 3:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-make-the-sdmb-more-social/555897/94 "2010-10-06T15:45:23Z")
> [@elmwood](#): > > Do you drive one of [these](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q3V5S7NhvcA)? Just wondering. Have you been out on the streets? Nearly everyone drives one of those. Mine is called a Toyota Corolla, but that’s essentially what it is. > [@](#): > > Private messages? Superfluous to discussion. > Search? Superfluous to discussion. > Smileys? Superfluous to discussion. > Thread subscriptions? Superfluous to discussion. None of these things are superfluous in my view. They facilitate discussion. Private messages are discussion and they help prevent private tangents from mucking up public discussion. Search and thread subscriptions help people find the discussions they want to participate in thus facilitating participation in discussion. Smileys for some people aid in coloring the meaning of words. > [@](#): > > Different fonts? Superfluous to discussion. Maybe. Sometimes discussion is facilitated by a fixed-width font. And standardizing display fonts can be an important factor in facilitating the efficient exchange of information. > [@](#): > > Friends, favorites and the like? Superfluous to discussion. > Custom titles? Superfluous to discussion. Perhaps. I’d be happy for them to be eliminated. ---
**Author:** ![RaftPeople](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/6f9a4e/32.png) [@RaftPeople](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RaftPeople)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2010, 3:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-make-the-sdmb-more-social/555897/95 "2010-10-06T15:46:17Z")
> [@elmwood](#): > > Do you drive one of [these](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q3V5S7NhvcA)? Just wondering. That is pretty damn funny 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Una\_Persson](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/una_persson/32/346_2.png) [@Una\_Persson](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Una_Persson)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2010, 3:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-make-the-sdmb-more-social/555897/96 "2010-10-06T15:50:33Z")
> [@Martini\_Enfield](#): > > > [@Una\_Persson](#): > > > > There will come a time when the richness of the content and features offered by other forums will be so much greater than the SDMB that casual browsers who might contribute to the forum won’t even bother to look at it, thinking it’s a penny-ante operation run out of someone’s basement, rather than the great resource it is. I think that time is very soon, if not already here. > > The thing is that lots of people either don’t care or actively prefer it like that. Lots of people also want pay-to-post to go away, don’t like smilies, complain about sigs, etc. Lots of people also want avatars, IMG tags that work, and more features. Perhaps you can list in detail who the “pretty influential” posters are on here you mentioned earlier and exactly why they are so influential with respect to business decisions regarding the board. I’ll bet your list isn’t the same as my list; mine is exceedingly short. I’m not on the message board staff, as I keep getting told, but I work directly with **Cecil** and help him with occasional tasks for the **Straight Dope** - remember, the **Straight Dope** is the core, driving theme of this entire message board. Not to speak for him, but my understanding is **Cecil** wants the message board does stay current and attractive to new members to keep the member base at worst constant, and at best growing. I do not believe **Cecil** likes avatars very much, if at all, but I’m trying to gradually convince him of the potential merits. ---
**Author:** ![Giraffe](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/giraffe/32/129_2.png) [@Giraffe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Giraffe)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2010, 4:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-make-the-sdmb-more-social/555897/97 "2010-10-06T16:09:34Z")
> [@Una\_Persson](#): > > do not believe **Cecil** likes avatars very much, if at all, but I’m trying to gradually convince him of the potential merits. Tell him he can have a picture of a talking hamburger as his avatar. If that doesn’t work, nothing will. ---
**Author:** ![elmwood](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/elmwood/32/3060_2.png) [@elmwood](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/elmwood)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2010, 4:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-make-the-sdmb-more-social/555897/98 "2010-10-06T16:55:40Z")
> [@](#): > > If you want to do that sort of thing, there are heaps of places where you can. There aren’t as many places- especially on the internet- where you can metaphorically relax in your high-backed leather chair in the metaphorical oak-panelled study and have an intelligent conversation with other people who also value being able to do the same. The idea that the SDMB is an island of civilized, intellectual and rational discussion in the chaos that is the Internet is a myth. Sure, one might get that impression if they spend all their time in Great Debates. Outside of there, it’s just like any other general interest message board, albeit one with older demographics and somewhat fewer “lulz”. The threads on zit popping, dating advice, fan wankery, celebrity gossip, OMG KITTEHS!, and the like outnumber the threads on subjects like esoteric postmodern philosophical concepts or the deconstruction of St. Thomas Aquinas’ commentaries on Aristotle by 20:1 or more. There’s really not that much heavy-duty mental masturbation gong on here, relatively speaking. Really, the SDMB isn’t _that_ exceptional. > [@acsenray](#): > > This place concentrate on ideas, not personalities. If no one is distinguishing themselves with their ideas, that’s a feature not a bug. I must respectfully disagree. The SDMB has taken the idea of message board celebrity to a much higher level than other message boards I regularly visit. Consider users that so many seems to fawn over whenever they post, no matter how mundane the message. ---
**Author:** ![Acsenray](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/acsenray/32/4519_2.png) [@Acsenray](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Acsenray)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2010, 4:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-make-the-sdmb-more-social/555897/99 "2010-10-06T16:59:52Z")
> [@elmwood](#): > > I must respectfully disagree. The SDMB has taken the idea of message board celebrity to a much higher level than other message boards I regularly visit. Consider users that so many seems to fawn over whenever they post, no matter how mundane the message. _If_ that’s the case (and I honestly can’t remember any user being fawned over in this fashion), then they’ve earned their recognition through their verbal expression. That means memorable people are remembered, and unmemorable people aren’t, based on their contributions. ---
**Author:** ![chrisk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/6de8d8/32.png) [@chrisk](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/chrisk)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2010, 5:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-make-the-sdmb-more-social/555897/100 "2010-10-06T17:15:03Z")
> [@acsenray](#): > > > [@elmwood](#): > > > > I must respectfully disagree. The SDMB has taken the idea of message board celebrity to a much higher level than other message boards I regularly visit. Consider users that so many seems to fawn over whenever they post, no matter how mundane the message. > > _If_ that’s the case (and I honestly can’t remember any user being fawned over in this fashion), then they’ve earned their recognition through their verbal expression. That means memorable people are remembered, and unmemorable people aren’t, based on their contributions. Or they’ve ‘earned’ recognition through infamous misadventures that made them the butt of funny and not-so-funny jokes for months afterwards. Such as **Hal Briston** 😃 [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-make-the-sdmb-more-social/555897.md?page=4) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-to-make-the-sdmb-more-social/555897.md?page=6)