# How well do we know one another?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-well-do-we-know-one-another/541595>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [June 2, 2010, 2:42am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-well-do-we-know-one-another/541595 "2010-06-02T02:42:48Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Sigmagirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/c89c15/32.png) [@Sigmagirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sigmagirl)\
**Post date:** [June 2, 2010, 4:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-well-do-we-know-one-another/541595/21 "2010-06-02T16:17:20Z")

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> [@ZipperJJ](#):
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> No, not gay. But…thanks? 🙂

I was gonna say I’d better stop waving when I drive south on 271. She might misinterpret it.  
So I’ll keep waving.

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**Author:** ![Ellen\_Cherry](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ellen_cherry/32/3600_2.png) [@Ellen\_Cherry](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ellen_Cherry)\
**Post date:** [June 2, 2010, 4:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-well-do-we-know-one-another/541595/22 "2010-06-02T16:17:46Z")

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Teeny typo in thread title tidied.

**Ellen**

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**Author:** ![Alice\_The\_Goon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ed8c4c/32.png) [@Alice\_The\_Goon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Alice_The_Goon)\
**Post date:** [June 2, 2010, 4:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-well-do-we-know-one-another/541595/23 "2010-06-02T16:38:44Z")

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Do you ever wonder what your death thread will say? Will someone please pledge to me to make sure mine gets more than one or two “Who the hell was that?” responses and then doesn’t drop like a stone to the bottom of the thread and then disappear forever like I was never here? Please? Bump it!

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**Author:** ![Johnny\_L.A](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/johnny_l.a/32/1084_2.png) [@Johnny\_L.A](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Johnny_L.A)\
**Post date:** [June 2, 2010, 4:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-well-do-we-know-one-another/541595/24 "2010-06-02T16:49:34Z")

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I’ll remember you, since I watched _Popeye_ when I was a kid. 😉

Thank you, **Ellen**. I didn’t notice it.

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**Author:** ![Philster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/13edae/32.png) [@Philster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Philster)\
**Post date:** [June 2, 2010, 5:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-well-do-we-know-one-another/541595/25 "2010-06-02T17:40:49Z")

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I’ll stay healthy, but ya probably wouldn’t miss me when I am gone. I’m not one of the SDMB inner circle. There is one… right? !😕

😉

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**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\
**Post date:** [June 2, 2010, 5:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-well-do-we-know-one-another/541595/26 "2010-06-02T17:44:52Z")

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It’s more of a doughnut.

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**Author:** ![Alice\_The\_Goon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ed8c4c/32.png) [@Alice\_The\_Goon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Alice_The_Goon)\
**Post date:** [June 2, 2010, 5:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-well-do-we-know-one-another/541595/27 "2010-06-02T17:45:49Z")

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The first rule of SDMB inner circle is that you don’t talk about SDMB inner circle.

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**Author:** ![Munch](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/munch/32/5281_2.png) [@Munch](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Munch)\
**Post date:** [June 2, 2010, 5:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-well-do-we-know-one-another/541595/28 "2010-06-02T17:59:03Z")

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> [@KneadToKnow](#):
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> If something happens to **Johnny** , who will I argue with about what constitutes being rich?

If Johnny bequeaths his vast fortunes to me, I’ll argue with you. (I’d just settle for a watch…)

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**Author:** ![Johnny\_L.A](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/johnny_l.a/32/1084_2.png) [@Johnny\_L.A](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Johnny_L.A)\
**Post date:** [June 2, 2010, 6:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-well-do-we-know-one-another/541595/29 "2010-06-02T18:17:41Z")

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> [@Cat\_Whisperer](#):
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> It’s more of a doughnut.

Bull!

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**Author:** ![Surly\_Chick](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ec9cab/32.png) [@Surly\_Chick](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Surly_Chick)\
**Post date:** [June 2, 2010, 6:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-well-do-we-know-one-another/541595/30 "2010-06-02T18:24:53Z")

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I’ll always remember you, **Johnny** , because we “watched” the Olympics’ opening ceremony together. And I’d stop to chat with you if we met on a street…

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**Author:** ![Little\_Nemo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/little_nemo/32/3120_2.png) [@Little\_Nemo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Little_Nemo)\
**Post date:** [June 2, 2010, 6:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-well-do-we-know-one-another/541595/31 "2010-06-02T18:37:34Z")

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I sometimes wish I had a tickler file so I could keep other posters straight.

FICTIONAL USERNAME:  
Posts in Cafe Society a lot. Likes reality shows. Doesn’t like CSI.  
Conservative Republican but doesn’t like Palin. Admits Iraq was a bad idea. Avoids political debates.  
Married and has pre-school age son. Refers to wife and child as Mrs Username and Littlename Junior.  
Posted about mother’s death last June.  
Works in a hospital. Not sure what job he does.  
Agreed with me about Batman being able to beat Captain America.  
Disagreed with me about estate tax policy.  
Jokes about liking ketchup on all his food.

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**Author:** ![ZipperJJ](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/zipperjj/32/211_2.png) [@ZipperJJ](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ZipperJJ)\
**Post date:** [June 2, 2010, 6:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-well-do-we-know-one-another/541595/32 "2010-06-02T18:50:37Z")

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> [@Sigmagirl](#):
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> I was gonna say I’d better stop waving when I drive south on 271. She might misinterpret it.  
> So I’ll keep waving.

I can’t see you anymore, they removed my 271 ramp and put up a wall (now you know _exactly_ where I live!)

**MPB** thanks for signing your post, now I know you’re a dude lol

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**Author:** ![Teacake](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/e9bcb4/32.png) [@Teacake](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Teacake)\
**Post date:** [June 2, 2010, 7:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-well-do-we-know-one-another/541595/33 "2010-06-02T19:09:32Z")

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I also find it awkward, being or appearing to be a fairly new recruit. I’ve been reading the boards for years and years, so a lot of people who’ve gone on ahead, or people like **Santo Rugger** , I feel like I know them and I’m sorry for their troubles; but I don’t feel like I can say so, since they don’t know me or that I’ve been kind of lurking in their life for a decade. I feel like an extra in _Cheers_…

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**Author:** ![FloatyGimpy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/floatygimpy/32/7750_2.png) [@FloatyGimpy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FloatyGimpy)\
**Post date:** [June 3, 2010, 7:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-well-do-we-know-one-another/541595/34 "2010-06-03T07:04:49Z")

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> [@Teacake](#):
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> I also find it awkward, being or appearing to be a fairly new recruit. I’ve been reading the boards for years and years, so a lot of people who’ve gone on ahead, or people like **Santo Rugger** , I feel like I know them and I’m sorry for their troubles; but I don’t feel like I can say so, since they don’t know me or that I’ve been kind of lurking in their life for a decade. I feel like an extra in _Cheers_…

I always feel terrible when I come across a post from **Santo Rugger**.

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**Author:** ![a35362](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/3da27b/32.png) [@a35362](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/a35362)\
**Post date:** [June 4, 2010, 3:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-well-do-we-know-one-another/541595/35 "2010-06-04T15:29:37Z")

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> [@Little\_Nemo](#):
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> I sometimes wish I had a tickler file so I could keep other posters straight.
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> FICTIONAL USERNAME:  
> Posts in Cafe Society a lot. Likes reality shows. Doesn’t like CSI.  
> Conservative Republican but doesn’t like Palin. Admits Iraq was a bad idea. Avoids political debates.  
> Married and has pre-school age son. Refers to wife and child as Mrs Username and Littlename Junior.  
> Posted about mother’s death last June.  
> Works in a hospital. Not sure what job he does.  
> Agreed with me about Batman being able to beat Captain America.  
> Disagreed with me about estate tax policy.  
> Jokes about liking ketchup on all his food.

We had a thread once about people who keep notes on their fellow Dopers, and I have been tempted to do the same ever since. This terrifies me, because with my civil servant’s penchant for detail I would create a new note about anything I learned about anyone; I would have huge and ever-expanding files; I would worry about trying to determine who was “important enough” to keep such data on; I would have to decide how to organize the files (probably alphabetical by name, but maybe by post count?) and how long to hang on to them… I don’t want to encourage such OCD-type behavior.

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**Author:** ![Elendil\_s\_Heir](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/7cd45c/32.png) [@Elendil\_s\_Heir](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Elendil_s_Heir)\
**Post date:** [June 4, 2010, 4:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-well-do-we-know-one-another/541595/36 "2010-06-04T16:08:23Z")

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> [@Alice\_The\_Goon](#):
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> Do you ever wonder what your death thread will say? Will someone please pledge to me to make sure mine gets more than one or two “Who the hell was that?” responses and then doesn’t drop like a stone to the bottom of the thread and then disappear forever like I was never here? Please? Bump it!

You have my word on it. But you’ll have to send me a reminder when you’re on your deathbed, OK?

And don’t worry, everyone. I have dossiers on you all.

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**Author:** ![KneadToKnow](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kneadtoknow/32/3999_2.png) [@KneadToKnow](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/KneadToKnow)\
**Post date:** [June 4, 2010, 5:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-well-do-we-know-one-another/541595/37 "2010-06-04T17:21:26Z")

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> [@Elendil\_s\_Heir](#):
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> I have dossiers on you all.

Does mine tell you what happened to my Early-Bird Chewbacca figure?

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**Author:** ![picunurse](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/7bcc69/32.png) [@picunurse](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/picunurse)\
**Post date:** [June 4, 2010, 5:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-well-do-we-know-one-another/541595/38 "2010-06-04T17:32:18Z")

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I’ve always felt that as soon as I leave a room I’m immediately forgotten. That’s in real life as well as here.

I’ve always been bad with names too. There are a few people here I remember, **Johnny L.A.** is one, but we live in the same part of the world.

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**Author:** ![BigT](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bigt/32/12044_2.png) [@BigT](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BigT)\
**Post date:** [June 4, 2010, 5:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-well-do-we-know-one-another/541595/39 "2010-06-04T17:40:10Z")

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My system is to only take note of your name if you do something good. So if I remember something bad about you, it must have been pretty bad.

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**Author:** ![Elendil\_s\_Heir](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/7cd45c/32.png) [@Elendil\_s\_Heir](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Elendil_s_Heir)\
**Post date:** [June 4, 2010, 7:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-well-do-we-know-one-another/541595/40 "2010-06-04T19:22:55Z")

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> [@KneadToKnow](#):
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> Does mine tell you what happened to my Early-Bird Chewbacca figure?

Of course. :rolleyes:

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