# How will you spend the evening of Valentine's Day?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-will-you-spend-the-evening-of-valentines-day/779656>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [February 12, 2017, 5:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-will-you-spend-the-evening-of-valentines-day/779656 "2017-02-12T17:29:38Z")\
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**Author:** ![LouisB](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/dfb087/32.png) [@LouisB](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LouisB)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2017, 8:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-will-you-spend-the-evening-of-valentines-day/779656/21 "2017-02-13T08:34:20Z")

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> [@cmkeller](#):
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> lavenderviolet and Iggy, thanks for the good wishes. I feel extremely fortunate that a willing matching donor was found for me, and I am thrilled to be spending the day receiving this most precious gift.

I too wish you well.  
As for my Valentine evening, **Robot Arm** described it perfectly in post #10.

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**Author:** ![Baker](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/bb73d2/32.png) [@Baker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Baker)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2017, 10:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-will-you-spend-the-evening-of-valentines-day/779656/22 "2017-02-13T10:05:40Z")

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I’ll be studying Biblical Greek. It’s getting harder and now I have to put in more work for the weekly class on Wednesday.

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**Author:** ![pullin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/c57346/32.png) [@pullin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pullin)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2017, 11:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-will-you-spend-the-evening-of-valentines-day/779656/23 "2017-02-13T11:08:52Z")

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> [@cmkeller](#):
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> lavenderviolet and Iggy, thanks for the good wishes. I feel extremely fortunate that a willing matching donor was found for me, and I am thrilled to be spending the day receiving this most precious gift.

We didn’t have plans, having exchanged small gifts yesterday (while the adult kids were here). But now we’ll be toasting **cmkeller** and **Broomstick** and wishing them the best of luck

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**Author:** ![kayaker](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kayaker/32/441_2.png) [@kayaker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kayaker)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2017, 11:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-will-you-spend-the-evening-of-valentines-day/779656/24 "2017-02-13T11:57:05Z")

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Once again we will be enjoying an anti-valentines dinner at Mad Mex.

It is a one price dinner (with obligatory separate checks) for exes or potential exes. The music is a big part of the fun; a playlist of great breaking-up tunes. We play along and toss funny insults back and forth under our breath whenever the server stops at our table.

Obligatory make-up sex after dinner.

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**Author:** ![scareyfaerie](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/scareyfaerie/32/3135_2.png) [@scareyfaerie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/scareyfaerie)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2017, 12:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-will-you-spend-the-evening-of-valentines-day/779656/25 "2017-02-13T12:39:36Z")

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I’ll be enjoying a 1.5hr gym session with my personal trainer.

Best of luck, **cmkeller**!

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**Author:** ![ThelmaLou](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/thelmalou/32/390_2.png) [@ThelmaLou](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ThelmaLou)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2017, 12:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-will-you-spend-the-evening-of-valentines-day/779656/26 "2017-02-13T12:47:31Z")

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> [@cmkeller](#):
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> I’ll be in the hospital recovering from a kidney transplant, G-d willing.

All the best to you! When my husband was on dialysis (before his wonderfully successful transplant) the clinic gave out kidney-shaped stickers to wear that said, [“I love you with all my kidney!”](https://www.kidney.ca/image/I-love-you-kidney.gif) Who needs Valentine’s hearts? 🙂

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**Author:** ![jz78817](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jz78817/32/1028_2.png) [@jz78817](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jz78817)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2017, 1:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-will-you-spend-the-evening-of-valentines-day/779656/27 "2017-02-13T13:04:03Z")

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Same as any other evening, make dinner, faff around online for a bit, then turn in.

> [@ThelmaLou](#):
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> Well, this is a pretty high-flying party crowd. :rolleyes:

Some of us are single…

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**Author:** ![The\_Stainless\_Steel\_Rat](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/the_stainless_steel_rat/32/5727_2.png) [@The\_Stainless\_Steel\_Rat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_Stainless_Steel_Rat)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2017, 2:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-will-you-spend-the-evening-of-valentines-day/779656/28 "2017-02-13T14:42:44Z")

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The same thing I do every night, Thelma - try to take over the world.

Actually, nothing out of the normal.

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**Author:** ![Count\_Blucher](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/c5a1d2/32.png) [@Count\_Blucher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Count_Blucher)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2017, 2:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-will-you-spend-the-evening-of-valentines-day/779656/29 "2017-02-13T14:48:18Z")

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Reservation Off The Grid: a restaurant she likes… made via a connection at our kid’s school & paid for in advance in cash. Its WAY the fuck west of me & temps outside will be WELL BELOW FREEZING that day. I even had the reservation made under a different name so she can’t track it.  
If the food weren’t so good, you’d have to be STUPID to go there this time of year.

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**Author:** ![elbows](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/b3f665/32.png) [@elbows](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/elbows)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2017, 2:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-will-you-spend-the-evening-of-valentines-day/779656/30 "2017-02-13T14:50:28Z")

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When I visited a week ago, my dentist tried to schedule $600 worth of dental work. I glared and said, “On Valentines Day?”😃

Successfully having it rescheduled! 😃

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**Author:** ![One\_And\_Only\_Wanderers](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/838e76/32.png) [@One\_And\_Only\_Wanderers](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/One_And_Only_Wanderers)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2017, 3:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-will-you-spend-the-evening-of-valentines-day/779656/31 "2017-02-13T15:00:18Z")

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My Football team has a home game. So I’ll be attending that. Went out for a meal with the missus on the weekend just gone.

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**Author:** ![Chronos](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/chronos/32/134_2.png) [@Chronos](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chronos)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2017, 3:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-will-you-spend-the-evening-of-valentines-day/779656/32 "2017-02-13T15:16:08Z")

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I suppose I might be helping my mother make pierogis for the church fish fries, but more likely, I’ll just be chilling at home alone.

EDIT: Wait, I just double-checked my calendar; I forgot that it was tomorrow already. I have a medical check-up scheduled. Nothing specific, just that I’m almost 40, and figure I’d better get it done before my insurance gets cut off for some stupid reason.

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**Author:** ![ThelmaLou](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/thelmalou/32/390_2.png) [@ThelmaLou](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ThelmaLou)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2017, 3:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-will-you-spend-the-evening-of-valentines-day/779656/33 "2017-02-13T15:27:37Z")

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> [@The\_Stainless\_Steel\_Rat](#):
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> The same thing I do every night, Thelma - try to take over the world.
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> Actually, nothing out of the normal.

Well, keep us posted on how that’s going. Frankly, I think the world **needs** taking over.

> [@Count\_Blucher](#):
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> Reservation Off The Grid: a restaurant she likes… made via a connection at our kid’s school & paid for in advance in cash. Its WAY the fuck west of me & temps outside will be WELL BELOW FREEZING that day. I even had the reservation made under a different name so she can’t track it.  
> If the food weren’t so good, you’d have to be STUPID to go there this time of year.

Interesting. Some details about the food, please. What’s good there? What are you going to order?

And while you’re eating it, do **NOT** think of me at home alone drinking a gallon of colonoscopy prep solution. 🙂

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**Author:** ![FairyChatMom](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/fairychatmom/32/21906_2.png) [@FairyChatMom](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FairyChatMom)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2017, 3:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-will-you-spend-the-evening-of-valentines-day/779656/34 "2017-02-13T15:32:17Z")

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My husband will be attending a training class in DC that day - it runs till 5, and by the time he catches the Metro to the end of the Green line, then drives home, it’ll be after 7. He should be exhausted, and since he has day 2 of the training the next day, he’ll be crashing early. I get up at 5 for work, so by 8 or so, I’m close to wasted. Hence, it will be a V-Day like the last 33 we’ve had together - just another day.

We pretty much ignore its existence. Ah, love… 😃

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**Author:** ![Chronos](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/chronos/32/134_2.png) [@Chronos](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chronos)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2017, 3:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-will-you-spend-the-evening-of-valentines-day/779656/35 "2017-02-13T15:46:26Z")

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Y’know, on thinking about it, it’s interesting how many of us have medical things going on. I wonder if that’s maybe the reason I was able to get an appointment so quickly, and at a time so convenient for me (i.e., not during working hours)?

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**Author:** ![Jophiel](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jophiel/32/66_2.png) [@Jophiel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jophiel)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2017, 3:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-will-you-spend-the-evening-of-valentines-day/779656/36 "2017-02-13T15:49:54Z")

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> [@Iggy](#):
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> I get a pass on Valentine’s Day since my Colombiana **Mrs Iggy** doesn’t celebrate it.

About the same. **Mrs Jophiel** is Peruvian and wasn’t raised with a cultural expectation of Valentine’s Day so it’s all very amusing to her. She appreciates a card or supermarket bouquet for the thought but doesn’t look to make a big deal out of it. Fortunately for me, she doesn’t have any alternate Latin American holidays she replaces it with either.

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**Author:** ![FairyChatMom](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/fairychatmom/32/21906_2.png) [@FairyChatMom](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FairyChatMom)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2017, 4:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-will-you-spend-the-evening-of-valentines-day/779656/37 "2017-02-13T16:02:35Z")

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Who’s expecting diamonds or lesser jewelry? Jared would have me believe that everybody’s getting some! 😃

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**Author:** ![ZPG\_Zealot](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/e47c2d/32.png) [@ZPG\_Zealot](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ZPG_Zealot)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2017, 4:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-will-you-spend-the-evening-of-valentines-day/779656/38 "2017-02-13T16:27:05Z")

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> [@FairyChatMom](#):
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> Who’s expecting diamonds or lesser jewelry? Jared would have me believe that everybody’s getting some! 😃

DH always buys me a heart shaped charm for Valentine’s Day, but I like charms and have a lovely collection. We usually go to the movies because restaurants can quickly become the seventh ring of hell on Valentine’s Day.

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**Author:** ![panache45](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/panache45/32/64_2.png) [@panache45](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/panache45)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2017, 5:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-will-you-spend-the-evening-of-valentines-day/779656/39 "2017-02-13T17:06:43Z")

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> [@jz78817](#):
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> Same as any other evening, make dinner, faff around online for a bit, then turn in.
> 
> Some of us are single…

You know, there are ways…

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**Author:** ![Lowdown](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/c57346/32.png) [@Lowdown](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lowdown)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2017, 5:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/how-will-you-spend-the-evening-of-valentines-day/779656/40 "2017-02-13T17:07:43Z")

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I’ll be raiding Heroic Nighthold. (I’ll be playing video games.)

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