Yes.
Yep.
I was being pedantic and thinking like a molecular biologist: “superficial” is anything that you can see without high-power microscopes, molecular staining techniques, or a DNA sequencer.
Still, even if the horseshoe crab is the closest living relative of the trilobites, their most recent common ancestor is somewhere prior to 540 million years ago. If we could somehow obtain a trilobite genome, I’d bet that it wouldn’t share many more genes with the horseshoe crab than with other chelicarates.