# Hugs and prayers for Purplebear......

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hugs-and-prayers-for-purplebear/67231>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [June 1, 2001, 5:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hugs-and-prayers-for-purplebear/67231 "2001-06-01T17:05:12Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Vestal\_Blue](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/5e9695/32.png) [@Vestal\_Blue](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Vestal_Blue)\
**Post date:** [June 1, 2001, 5:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hugs-and-prayers-for-purplebear/67231/1 "2001-06-01T17:05:12Z")

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Purp is having a rough go of it right now. She found out last night that her SIL’s mother passed away. The family is taking it hard. Please think of her and keep her and them in your prayers, if so inclined.  
{{{{{{{{{{{{{PB}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

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**Author:** ![Falcon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/49beb7/32.png) [@Falcon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Falcon)\
**Post date:** [June 1, 2001, 5:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hugs-and-prayers-for-purplebear/67231/2 "2001-06-01T17:17:25Z")

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Hope everything gets better, hon. {{{{purp}}}}

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**Author:** ![Flutterby](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/6f9a4e/32.png) [@Flutterby](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Flutterby)\
**Post date:** [June 1, 2001, 5:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hugs-and-prayers-for-purplebear/67231/3 "2001-06-01T17:23:59Z")

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Ohhhh _snugs PB tightly_

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**Author:** ![Arden\_Ranger](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/b487fb/32.png) [@Arden\_Ranger](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Arden_Ranger)\
**Post date:** [June 1, 2001, 5:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hugs-and-prayers-for-purplebear/67231/4 "2001-06-01T17:36:01Z")

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☹

:: sending good thoughts and healing vibes to **purp** & family ::

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**Author:** ![purrplebear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/90ced4/32.png) [@purrplebear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/purrplebear)\
**Post date:** [June 1, 2001, 8:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hugs-and-prayers-for-purplebear/67231/5 "2001-06-01T20:13:18Z")

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Thank you, my dear friend for starting this. Thanks to all of you who replied. I haven’t been on the board much lately because of all that’s been going on in our families. This is just the latest blow in a series of blows.

This is my little brother’s wife, you all know her as rosebear on here. I should also tell you that rosebear has a brain tumor, and was diagnosed with Mastoid disease, and now diabetes. She is not doing well at all, and losing her mother so suddenly (they think it was her heart) has been quite a blow. In fact, when she called to tell her twin sister here in SA, her niece (19, who was very close to her gramma) tried to slit her wrists and is also in the hospital on suicide watch.

My older brother’s wife lost her dad less than a month ago. And she has some health concerns as well, as does one of her daughters.

Mr Bear’s oldest sister suffered another stroke a couple of weeks ago, just after finding out some very bad news that will most likely result in the breakup of her marriage. She is home now, but has severe weakness on one side and her voice sounds like a very soft-spoken 10 yr old’s again.

As for the bear family, we are hanging in there. We are dealing with some challenges, but God is good and will provide as He always has. Your prayers for our family members is greatly appreciated. I’m sorry I haven’t been on here more in the last month.

{{{{{{VB}}}}}}  
{{{{{{Falcon}}}}}}  
{{{{{{Obsidian Flutterby}}}}}} love your snugs, thanks  
{{{{{{Arden Ranger}}}}}}

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**Author:** ![Spiny\_Norman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9de0a6/32.png) [@Spiny\_Norman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spiny_Norman)\
**Post date:** [June 1, 2001, 8:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hugs-and-prayers-for-purplebear/67231/6 "2001-06-01T20:45:19Z")

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Damn, purple, so sad to hear that.

Hang in there, this too will pass.

::Hugs and wishes for better times for purplebear & family::

S. Norman

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**Author:** ![Lord\_Jim](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/ecccb3/32.png) [@Lord\_Jim](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lord_Jim)\
**Post date:** [June 1, 2001, 8:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hugs-and-prayers-for-purplebear/67231/7 "2001-06-01T20:57:49Z")

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Let me add my best wishes for you and your family, **Purplebear**.

We all know what a truly caring person you are and how deeply this must be hurting you. Hang in there girl, we’re all rooting for you to get through all your crisis.

Jim

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**Author:** ![Serendipity](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f17d59/32.png) [@Serendipity](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Serendipity)\
**Post date:** [June 1, 2001, 9:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hugs-and-prayers-for-purplebear/67231/8 "2001-06-01T21:05:28Z")

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I hope things start to look brighter soon, **Purplebear**. I’ll keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

(((((((((((purplebear)))))))))))))

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**Author:** ![iampunha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/74df32/32.png) [@iampunha](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/iampunha)\
**Post date:** [June 1, 2001, 9:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hugs-and-prayers-for-purplebear/67231/9 "2001-06-01T21:06:00Z")

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{{{{{Karyn}}}}}

Good luck to you. And don’t be afraid to use the resources of the teemings millions. We’re here for you, whether in this thread or not.

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**Author:** ![Scotticher](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e9c0ed/32.png) [@Scotticher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Scotticher)\
**Post date:** [June 1, 2001, 9:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hugs-and-prayers-for-purplebear/67231/10 "2001-06-01T21:08:43Z")

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Dearest **purplebear** -

I am so sorry that all this is happening to you and the people you love. I can never understand why bad things seem to happen in bunches.

Keep your loving heart shining, hon. You are a wonderful woman, and I am sure that you are a source of great comfort to your loved ones.

My heart and my prayers are with you.

(((((purp))))

Much Love,

Cheri

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**Author:** ![Ad\_Noctum](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/b19c9b/32.png) [@Ad\_Noctum](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ad_Noctum)\
**Post date:** [June 1, 2001, 9:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hugs-and-prayers-for-purplebear/67231/11 "2001-06-01T21:09:56Z")

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just know, Karyn, that anytime I’m online, you can give me a holler. You are, and always will be surrounded by friends here. I think the best thing to do now is to celebrate her life, not mourn her death. just always remember her.

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**Author:** ![Runadoc](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/6a8cbe/32.png) [@Runadoc](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Runadoc)\
**Post date:** [June 1, 2001, 11:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hugs-and-prayers-for-purplebear/67231/12 "2001-06-01T23:18:41Z")

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My thoughts and prayers are with you and yours Purplebear. And even though I don’t know you very well please accept a sincere: {{{Purplebear}}}

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**Author:** ![Persephone](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/ecc23a/32.png) [@Persephone](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Persephone)\
**Post date:** [June 1, 2001, 11:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hugs-and-prayers-for-purplebear/67231/13 "2001-06-01T23:23:33Z")

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(((((purplebear)))))

Hugs and warms wishes from me and my family.

Much love, Cristi

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**Author:** ![casdave](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/c6cbf5/32.png) [@casdave](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/casdave)\
**Post date:** [June 1, 2001, 11:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hugs-and-prayers-for-purplebear/67231/14 "2001-06-01T23:23:54Z")

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When it all comes down to basics its sad but we are all but tenants, the only thing we ever truly have are each other, you will never be short of friends **Purplebear**

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**Author:** ![rocking\_chair](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rocking_chair/32/2918_2.png) [@rocking\_chair](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/rocking_chair)\
**Post date:** [June 1, 2001, 11:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hugs-and-prayers-for-purplebear/67231/15 "2001-06-01T23:38:29Z")

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goodness, purplebear, i’m so sorry. lot’s of prayers heading your way.

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**Author:** ![Jeannie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/e480ec/32.png) [@Jeannie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jeannie)\
**Post date:** [June 2, 2001, 12:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hugs-and-prayers-for-purplebear/67231/16 "2001-06-02T00:01:29Z")

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{{{{{purplebear & family}}}}}

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**Author:** ![MysterEcks](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f475e1/32.png) [@MysterEcks](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MysterEcks)\
**Post date:** [June 2, 2001, 5:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hugs-and-prayers-for-purplebear/67231/17 "2001-06-02T05:01:53Z")

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I’m very sorry to hear about all the bad stuff, **purplebear**. You and your family have my best wishes to get through them as well and intact as possible.

{{{{{{purplebear and family}}}}}}

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**Author:** ![Geobabe](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/geobabe/32/3908_2.png) [@Geobabe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Geobabe)\
**Post date:** [June 2, 2001, 5:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hugs-and-prayers-for-purplebear/67231/18 "2001-06-02T05:15:06Z")

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So sorry to hear of your troubles, dear one. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.  
{{{{{purplebear}}}}}  
{{{{{bear family}}}}}

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**Author:** ![Quasimodem](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/q/e274bd/32.png) [@Quasimodem](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Quasimodem)\
**Post date:** [June 2, 2001, 9:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hugs-and-prayers-for-purplebear/67231/19 "2001-06-02T09:48:36Z")

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… but not new to tragedy and the sorrows which accompany it. I see it on an almost daily basis on my job, but since I have started posting here, I have learned that my compassion should not end at the hospital door, and that there are people who need to be “touched” and nurtured even though I do not know them in a job-capacity. In that spirit, I offer my condolences and my thoughts and prayers to you and yours, purple bear. May we all be a source of strength to you.

Humbly,  
Quasimodem

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**Author:** ![poohpah\_chalupa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/91b2a8/32.png) [@poohpah\_chalupa](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/poohpah_chalupa)\
**Post date:** [June 2, 2001, 12:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hugs-and-prayers-for-purplebear/67231/20 "2001-06-02T12:29:46Z")

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wow.  
all our love and prayers are with you, **purplebear** …wishing you courage and strength to help you and yours through these difficult times.

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