# I admit it, I'm a bigot.

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-admit-it-im-a-bigot/378464>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [October 30, 2006, 7:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-admit-it-im-a-bigot/378464 "2006-10-30T19:05:24Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 18\
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**Author:** ![Sunspace](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sunspace/32/1250_2.png) [@Sunspace](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sunspace)\
**Post date:** [October 31, 2006, 3:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-admit-it-im-a-bigot/378464/21 "2006-10-31T15:31:53Z")

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My father’s side of the family was tall. My mother’s side was short.

I came out average. 🙂

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**Author:** ![Zeriel](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/58956e/32.png) [@Zeriel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zeriel)\
**Post date:** [October 31, 2006, 3:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-admit-it-im-a-bigot/378464/22 "2006-10-31T15:44:55Z")

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[QUOTE=DianaG]  
I’m don’t care that much about height, but I have a firm policy of not dating any man whose thighs are smaller than mine. 😉  
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_checks own legs_ How YOU doin’?

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**Author:** ![Wnabtokio](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/b487fb/32.png) [@Wnabtokio](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Wnabtokio)\
**Post date:** [October 31, 2006, 8:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-admit-it-im-a-bigot/378464/23 "2006-10-31T20:46:46Z")

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I’m a bigot myself, but it goes both ways. I only find people attractive in my size range. (Somewhere b/t 5’5" to 5’10"). Anything different than that, I just have a problem with. I’m not intimidated at all by men much taller than me, I just don’t find them attractive. Same with shorter guys. My boyfriend is 5’10", so he comes in just under the wire.

However, I work with a guy who is smokin’ hot. I mean, absolutely beautiful in man terms, and it’s a shame that I can’t really appreciate it b/c he’s about 5’3". (He also has a FANTASTIC body, though.) He says he has a tough time with it, so I know it’s not just me.

I’m tired of thinking I’m a bad person with every little predjudice I have. I don’t really have many racial predjudices, I never even notice when someone is handicapped, and I don’t have problems with a certain gender. Let me have my one bit of bigotry! 🙂

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**Author:** ![PoorYorick](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/ecccb3/32.png) [@PoorYorick](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/PoorYorick)\
**Post date:** [October 31, 2006, 9:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-admit-it-im-a-bigot/378464/24 "2006-10-31T21:15:18Z")

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When I was in high school, I went to a basketball game where I sat next to a girl I didn’t know. She was cute and funny, and we really hit it off. I was definitely working up the courage to ask her out. At least until we both stood up. She was about 6 inches taller than me. I remember stammering something, then slinking out of the gym.

In retrospect, I was incredibly rude, if not cruel. If she was already self conscious about being tall, this didn’t help a bit. But it wasn’t because I was turned off; on the contrary, I thought she’d find me ridiculous (I’m a touch over 5’ 8"). This is one item on my long list of things I’d do over if I could.

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**Author:** ![alice\_in\_wonderland](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/alice_in_wonderland/32/176_2.png) [@alice\_in\_wonderland](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/alice_in_wonderland)\
**Post date:** [October 31, 2006, 9:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-admit-it-im-a-bigot/378464/25 "2006-10-31T21:29:02Z")

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Well, you’re a bigot, but I suppose I’m a bigot too - I’m 5’8" and I’ve never dated a man who was shorter than 5’6".

Of course, a man who was shorter than 5’6" has never asked me out, so it’s not exactly like it’s been a huge issue.

I was at a bar once sitting on a tall stool and a fella asked me to dance - I hopped up to go with him and his nose was _literally_ right between my breasts. We were actually both a little weirded out. (But I still danced with him.)

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**Author:** ![Sonia\_Montdore](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/90ced4/32.png) [@Sonia\_Montdore](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sonia_Montdore)\
**Post date:** [October 31, 2006, 10:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-admit-it-im-a-bigot/378464/26 "2006-10-31T22:47:31Z")

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[QUOTE=OpalCat]  
I am 5’2" and dated a 6’7" man for several years. We looked funny together, but neither of us minded 🙂  
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I’ve often wondered, when there’s that much of a height difference does a couple have to avoid the missionary position lest the ultra-tall partner smother the shorter one?

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**Author:** ![Regallag\_The\_Axe](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/regallag_the_axe/32/445_2.png) [@Regallag\_The\_Axe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Regallag_The_Axe)\
**Post date:** [October 31, 2006, 11:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-admit-it-im-a-bigot/378464/27 "2006-10-31T23:08:59Z")

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Man, I was hoping that this would be an appropriate place to talk about a coworker who told me “You just can’t trust those Jews, man.”

Oh well, there are always other threads.

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**Author:** ![OpalCat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/8edcca/32.png) [@OpalCat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/OpalCat)\
**Post date:** [November 1, 2006, 12:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-admit-it-im-a-bigot/378464/28 "2006-11-01T00:09:56Z")

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[QUOTE=Sonia Montdore]  
I’ve often wondered, when there’s that much of a height difference does a couple have to avoid the missionary position lest the ultra-tall partner smother the shorter one?  
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It was never a problem, and in fact, we fit together PERFECTLY in the “spoons” position for snuggling.

The funny thing is that I’m 5’2" and the shortest guy I’ve dated is almost 6’ tall.

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**Author:** ![Rico](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rico/32/3582_2.png) [@Rico](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rico)\
**Post date:** [November 1, 2006, 12:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-admit-it-im-a-bigot/378464/29 "2006-11-01T00:21:21Z")

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I’m 6’ 7".

No, I don’t play basketball.

Do you play miniature golf?

😛

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**Author:** ![SusanStoHelit](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/7ab992/32.png) [@SusanStoHelit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SusanStoHelit)\
**Post date:** [November 1, 2006, 12:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-admit-it-im-a-bigot/378464/30 "2006-11-01T00:51:33Z")

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[QUOTE=Dinsdale]  
Well I’m 6’3" and I eat little 5’6" worms like you for breakfast!  
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You eat _worms_ for breakfast? eeew.

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**Author:** ![pool](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/pool/32/4152_2.png) [@pool](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pool)\
**Post date:** [November 1, 2006, 1:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-admit-it-im-a-bigot/378464/31 "2006-11-01T01:00:24Z")

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I’m 5’10’’ and find myself intensely attracted to small, petite females. I’m not sure exactly why.

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**Author:** ![tomndebb](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/b9e5f3/32.png) [@tomndebb](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tomndebb)\
**Post date:** [November 1, 2006, 1:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-admit-it-im-a-bigot/378464/32 "2006-11-01T01:44:07Z")

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> [@](#):
>
> Short People got no reason  
> Short People got no reason  
> Short People got no reason  
> To live
> 
> They got little hands  
> Little eyes  
> They walk around  
> Tellin’ great big lies  
> They got little noses  
> And tiny little teeth  
> They wear platform shoes  
> On their nasty little feet
> 
> Well, I don’t want no Short People  
> Don’t want no Short People  
> Don’t want no Short People  
> `Round here

R. N.

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**Author:** ![Astroboy14](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/df705f/32.png) [@Astroboy14](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Astroboy14)\
**Post date:** [November 1, 2006, 5:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-admit-it-im-a-bigot/378464/33 "2006-11-01T05:17:46Z")

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I’m 6’4"… and have a totally sweet ass!😃

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**Author:** ![Cicero](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cicero/32/3594_2.png) [@Cicero](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cicero)\
**Post date:** [November 1, 2006, 10:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-admit-it-im-a-bigot/378464/34 "2006-11-01T10:03:17Z")

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[QUOTE=teela brown]  
I think I’m in the minority. I’m a woman who has a thing for short men. I’ve always been turned off or intimidated by tall men and they’ve never appealed to me.

Now, what excuse can I come up with for loitering at a jockey club?  
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If you looked like a previous girlfriend of mine, you could hang around the stables and no one would notice.

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**Author:** ![chowder](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/977dab/32.png) [@chowder](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/chowder)\
**Post date:** [November 1, 2006, 10:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-admit-it-im-a-bigot/378464/35 "2006-11-01T10:14:45Z")

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[QUOTE=Cicero]  
If you looked like a previous girlfriend of mine, you could hang around the stables and no one would notice.  
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What???

Surely all Aussie ‘Sheilas’ are big blonde buxom wenches who play beach volleyball _all_ day.

An ugly Aussie bird??? nah!!!

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**Author:** ![Poysyn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/f4b2a3/32.png) [@Poysyn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Poysyn)\
**Post date:** [November 1, 2006, 3:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-admit-it-im-a-bigot/378464/36 "2006-11-01T15:43:20Z")

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I am 5’9" and I am also a height-ist. I have dated shorter men, but I prefer taller men (at least 6 feet).

I like it because they actually make me feel sort of petite and feminine, and I like taller men.

Hubby is 6’2". 🙂

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**Author:** ![panache45](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/panache45/32/64_2.png) [@panache45](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/panache45)\
**Post date:** [November 1, 2006, 4:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-admit-it-im-a-bigot/378464/37 "2006-11-01T16:43:33Z")

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As far as sexual attraction is concerned, I tend to be attracted to skinny guys (though I’m not), and height isn’t an issue at all. I love 'em tall and lanky, as well as little skinny guys and everyone in-between. My partner is tall and boney, which is perfect.

Other than sexual attraction, a person’s weight is totally a non-issue for me.

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**Author:** ![Cicero](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cicero/32/3594_2.png) [@Cicero](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cicero)\
**Post date:** [November 2, 2006, 3:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-admit-it-im-a-bigot/378464/38 "2006-11-02T03:57:50Z")

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[QUOTE=chowder]  
What???

Surely all Aussie ‘Sheilas’ are big blonde buxom wenches who play beach volleyball _all_ day.

An ugly Aussie bird??? nah!!!  
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She was English. I should have known better. 🙂

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