OK, here is the follow up to the story.
We had the meetings today. First up was the guy who missed 50% of the class. He rambled on about how the school had promised that work schedules would be no problem and he saw no reason for me to lower his participation grade simply because he wasn’t there.
He further explained that I was a liar and told him all of his assignments were turned in and that he was going to get a good grade in the class. He went on to say that I belittled him by asking him not to speak Spanish in class, as it was an English class.
The Dean of Students then presented him with the quizzes (all of which he failed) and the final exam (which he failed) and the final essay (a very generous C- on my part) with errors in every sentence.
He has threatened to quit the school and go elsewhere. He had a long list of other complaints about me, about the school, about the other teacher who had also given him a “D” and then left the room. He did, however, shake hands before leaving.
Following the meeting with him, the Dean shook her head and said, “Well, I can see how he might have been a problem in your class.”
The second meeting went better - the student admitted she had done little or no homework and agreed that her English had not improved because of that fact. She had misunderstood the grade and thought a “D” meant that she failed the course and would have to take it over. Once she learned that she had “passed” and would not have to take the course over again, she pretty much dropped her complaint. The meeting ended with smiles and handshakes and best wishes during the school break.
Other than the complaint by the male student regarding telling them to stop speaking Spanish in class (actually, I told them to stop talking in class - I don’t recall Spanish being the problem) there was no further mention of my being anti-Hispanic. Perhaps that was blurted out in the heat of the moment to get the attention of the Dean.
At any rate, it gave me no pleasure to give them low grades, but I still think I was more than fair. Their files are now in the hands of the Dean, and she has informed me that the grades will stand as they are now. I know that this exchange has also made its way into MY file - so I guess that means if another student ever uses the race card again, it will then be two strikes against me. So, just as I predicted, no winners in this situation.