# I am an ugly WOMAN, and I hate it

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**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Created:** [March 9, 2012, 9:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-am-an-ugly-woman-and-i-hate-it/615329 "2012-03-09T21:38:48Z")\
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**Author:** ![AClockworkMelon](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/aclockworkmelon/32/10803_2.png) [@AClockworkMelon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AClockworkMelon)\
**Post date:** [March 30, 2012, 5:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-am-an-ugly-woman-and-i-hate-it/615329/241 "2012-03-30T17:25:27Z")

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> [@elfkin477](#):
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> Oh? Always?
> 
> Which Kate do you prefer?  
> [age 20](http://www.movieactors.com/freezeframes5/muchado984.jpeg)  
> [age 30](http://i12.photobucket.com/albums/a225/swebarb/Upper%20Deck%20The%20Cup/PS3%201080P%20wallpapers/underworld39zv.jpg)

… the younger one? Is this a trick question?

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**Author:** ![Boyo\_Jim](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/87869e/32.png) [@Boyo\_Jim](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Boyo_Jim)\
**Post date:** [March 30, 2012, 5:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-am-an-ugly-woman-and-i-hate-it/615329/242 "2012-03-30T17:40:50Z")

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> [@elfkin477](#):
>
> Oh? Always?
> 
> Which Kate do you prefer?  
> [age 20](http://www.movieactors.com/freezeframes5/muchado984.jpeg)  
> [age 30](http://i12.photobucket.com/albums/a225/swebarb/Upper%20Deck%20The%20Cup/PS3%201080P%20wallpapers/underworld39zv.jpg)

How long did you have to hunt to find the least possible attractive picture of the 30 year old Kate?

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**Author:** ![DiosaBellissima](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/a8b319/32.png) [@DiosaBellissima](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DiosaBellissima)\
**Post date:** [March 30, 2012, 6:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-am-an-ugly-woman-and-i-hate-it/615329/243 "2012-03-30T18:01:23Z")

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> [@zweisamkeit](#):
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> Truly, the OP just doesn’t get it. Waaah, waaah. It’s not like [chicks are photographed all hypersexualized when equivalent guys aren’t](http://thesocietypages.org/socimages/2012/03/05/gratuitous-objectification-in-gqs-comedy-issue/). I bet she has a problem with how often discussions about female  
> [athletes](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=601384)  
> [Ph.D holders](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=519193)  
> [politicians](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=634387)  
> and so on often focus solely on their attractiveness instead of their accomplishments. Or how often guys will [barge in](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showpost.php?p=10946073&postcount=27) with [really lame “jokes”](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/report.php?p=8490898) about [helping with a breast exam](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showpost.php?p=5127860&postcount=8) or needing [photos of boobs](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/report.php?p=13638580), even in serious discussion threads. I mean, why would she think that many people still value a woman’s attractiveness more than other traits?
> 
> I salute you for pointing out who the _real_ sufferers are. I will [play this in your honor](http://bit.ly/y9dS7k).

I just want to throw in a nice AMEN to this whole post.

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**Author:** ![LoonyMoon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/34f0e0/32.png) [@LoonyMoon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LoonyMoon)\
**Post date:** [March 31, 2012, 1:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-am-an-ugly-woman-and-i-hate-it/615329/244 "2012-03-31T13:37:06Z")

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As you wouldn’t judge someone else by their looks alone, please don’t judge yourself! I don’t know you personally, but it’s clear that you are far more than mere facial structure, hairdo, etc.

I don’t mean to make light of your post, but please don’t define yourself by a word like ‘ugly.’

You are you, the one and only you; irreplaceable, valuable, and unique.

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**Author:** ![Cheshire\_Human](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/5f8ce5/32.png) [@Cheshire\_Human](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cheshire_Human)\
**Post date:** [March 31, 2012, 3:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-am-an-ugly-woman-and-i-hate-it/615329/245 "2012-03-31T15:23:23Z")

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> [@LoonyMoon](#):
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> As you wouldn’t judge someone else by their looks alone, please don’t judge yourself! I don’t know you personally, but it’s clear that you are far more than mere facial structure, hairdo, etc.
> 
> I don’t mean to make light of your post, but please don’t define yourself by a word like ‘ugly.’
> 
> You are you, the one and only you; irreplaceable, valuable, and unique.

Well, the user name is certainly appropriate. :rolleyes:

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**Author:** ![pikey\_pete](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/8edcca/32.png) [@pikey\_pete](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pikey_pete)\
**Post date:** [April 1, 2012, 2:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-am-an-ugly-woman-and-i-hate-it/615329/246 "2012-04-01T02:14:52Z")

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> [@Can\_t\_Recall](#):
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> Yeah it’s just we’re quite close and they treat me as “one of the guys” which I also think is because they see me as plain or unattractive, as I have never in my life seen any guy (not even my friends) treat hot girls as one of the guys…

i’m a man who makes a living off my camera. I’m quite straight. I treat really hot women like shit constantly. I make them one of the guys so they have fewer defenses when I treat them like shit. Why? because I’ve been immunized against exterior beauty. So what if a woman is ‘hot.’ American media’s portrayal of what is ‘hot’ means that all the ‘hot’ chicks are trying to look the same way. So BRAVO if you’re hot. there are 12 more just like you who are going to walk by in the next half hour. doesn’t mean I treat ugly people any better or any worse. Pretty much, I don’t care how you look. God help you if you come to me willfully ignorant though. That is when I go into hyper asshole mode. Trust me, my significant other is short, has ‘mom boobs _complete with real stretchmarks_,’ is more muscular than most guys who aren’t muscle bound gym rats would care for, has super fine hair, and she is the most beautiful woman in the world to me. I love the way she looks. What is more important though, is that she is smart (going to grad school for applied medical anthropology,) she’s a great mom, she’s fun, and we agree on all the important interpersonal issues (spirituality, child rearing, need vs. want, etc.) Hot don’t last forever, but stupid does. I think the OP’s real problem is that she is hanging out with her peers…college aged guys. I remember when I was in college. I thought with my eyes and my dick when I wasn’t in class. I wasn’t looking for the love of my life and a long term relationship. I was looking to get my dick wet. I could care less what was on the inside, in fact, I wanted you to be shallow, vain, bitchy and arrogant…so I could have an excuse to get rid of you once I had gotten my dick wet. In short, OP…just give it a few years, or find a guy in his early 30’s.

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**Author:** ![pikey\_pete](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/8edcca/32.png) [@pikey\_pete](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pikey_pete)\
**Post date:** [April 1, 2012, 2:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-am-an-ugly-woman-and-i-hate-it/615329/247 "2012-04-01T02:19:29Z")

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> [@Boo\_Boo\_Foo](#):
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> To the original poster who started this thread?
> 
> You’re an ugly woman? And you hate it?
> 
> Something worth considering… Mother Theresa was no oil painting but she was a damn lot closer to sainthood than Princess Diana - both of whom died in the same week in case you don’t recall.
> 
> Dunno 'bout you, but I always had shitloads more admiration for Mother Theresa than I did for almost every other woman on the planet - except for my Mom of course.

also, I’d much rather die like Mother T…old and in bed, with no one asking things like 'You know what Princess Di and Pink Floyd have in common?..the Wall."

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**Author:** ![Beable\_von\_Polasm](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/dec6dc/32.png) [@Beable\_von\_Polasm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beable_von_Polasm)\
**Post date:** [April 2, 2012, 8:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-am-an-ugly-woman-and-i-hate-it/615329/248 "2012-04-02T20:07:03Z")

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> [@Ken001](#):
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> The homily “for every Jack there is a Jill” is true in my experience. Guys are just as uncertain as girls and given time can see beyond the superficial.
> 
> Relationships commonly occur in situations where people are brought together. Work. University. Clubs. Church. Being in a group and at college already puts you ahead of other girls.
> 
> Personality and intelligence count for a lot. I’d have to say being feminine helps.
> 
> From an evolutionary psychology perspective humans are attracted to those whom they subconsciously assess as good providers and good breeding stock. We are wired to make quick judgements but in an age of artifice we can also be easily tricked.

Jack and Jill went up the hill  
To fetch a pail of water  
Silly Jill forgot her pill  
And now they have a daughter!

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**Author:** ![Sleeps\_With\_Butterflies](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/bb73d2/32.png) [@Sleeps\_With\_Butterflies](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sleeps_With_Butterflies)\
**Post date:** [April 2, 2012, 8:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-am-an-ugly-woman-and-i-hate-it/615329/249 "2012-04-02T20:59:33Z")

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> [@pikey\_pete](#):
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> i’m a man who makes a living off my camera. I’m quite straight. \*\* I treat really hot women like shit constantly\*\*. I make them one of the guys so they have fewer defenses when I treat them like shit. Why? because I’ve been immunized against exterior beauty. So what if a woman is ‘hot.’ American media’s portrayal of what is ‘hot’ means that all the ‘hot’ chicks are trying to look the same way. So BRAVO if you’re hot. there are 12 more just like you who are going to walk by in the next half hour. **doesn’t mean I treat ugly people any better or any worse. Pretty much, I don’t care how you look.** God help you if you come to me willfully ignorant though. That is when I go into hyper asshole mode. Trust me, my significant other is short, has ‘mom boobs _complete with real stretchmarks_,’ is more muscular than most guys who aren’t muscle bound gym rats would care for, has super fine hair, and she is the most beautiful woman in the world to me. I love the way she looks. What is more important though, is that she is smart (going to grad school for applied medical anthropology,) she’s a great mom, she’s fun, and we agree on all the important interpersonal issues (spirituality, child rearing, need vs. want, etc.) Hot don’t last forever, but stupid does. I think the OP’s real problem is that she is hanging out with her peers…college aged guys. I remember when I was in college. I thought with my eyes and my dick when I wasn’t in class. I wasn’t looking for the love of my life and a long term relationship. I was looking to get my dick wet. I could care less what was on the inside, in fact, I wanted you to be shallow, vain, bitchy and arrogant…so I could have an excuse to get rid of you once I had gotten my dick wet. In short, OP…just give it a few years, or find a guy in his early 30’s.

This is one big mess of a response but I’m wondering if you could clarify the bolded parts? You treat “hot women” like shit constantly but that’s not better or worse than how you treat ugly people yet you don’t care how people look? Besides sounding like an oh-so-awesome-guy (sarcasm) you seem awfully confused and more than a little contradictory.

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**Author:** ![drewtwo99](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/d07c76/32.png) [@drewtwo99](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/drewtwo99)\
**Post date:** [April 2, 2012, 9:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-am-an-ugly-woman-and-i-hate-it/615329/250 "2012-04-02T21:12:24Z")

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> [@Boyo\_Jim](#):
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> How long did you have to hunt to find the least possible attractive picture of the 30 year old Kate?

I’m a gay man so my opinion probably doesn’t count for much, but that pic of her at 30 is WAY hotter than the one at 20. If that’s the least possible attractive picture of her at 30, just must be smokin’

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**Author:** ![Boyo\_Jim](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/87869e/32.png) [@Boyo\_Jim](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Boyo_Jim)\
**Post date:** [April 2, 2012, 9:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-am-an-ugly-woman-and-i-hate-it/615329/251 "2012-04-02T21:30:53Z")

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> [@drewtwo99](#):
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> I’m a gay man so my opinion probably doesn’t count for much, but that pic of her at 30 is WAY hotter than the one at 20. If that’s the least possible attractive picture of her at 30, just must be smokin’

[She](http://www.thecampussocialite.com/wp-content/gallery/kate-beckinsale/kate-beckinsale-13.jpg) [is](http://images2.fanpop.com/images/photos/4700000/Kate-Beckinsale-kate-beckinsale-4731743-1024-768.jpg) [smokin’](http://www.eurotv.us/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/Kate-Beckinsale.jpg).

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**Author:** ![mister\_nyx](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/df705f/32.png) [@mister\_nyx](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/mister_nyx)\
**Post date:** [April 2, 2012, 11:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-am-an-ugly-woman-and-i-hate-it/615329/252 "2012-04-02T23:35:11Z")

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> [@pikey\_pete](#):
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> i’m a man who makes a living off my camera. I’m quite straight. I treat really hot women like shit constantly. I make them one of the guys so they have fewer defenses when I treat them like shit. Why? because I’ve been immunized against exterior beauty. So what if a woman is ‘hot.’ American media’s portrayal of what is ‘hot’ means that all the ‘hot’ chicks are trying to look the same way. So BRAVO if you’re hot. there are 12 more just like you who are going to walk by in the next half hour. doesn’t mean I treat ugly people any better or any worse. Pretty much, I don’t care how you look. God help you if you come to me willfully ignorant though. That is when I go into hyper asshole mode. Trust me, my significant other is short, has ‘mom boobs _complete with real stretchmarks_,’ is more muscular than most guys who aren’t muscle bound gym rats would care for, has super fine hair, and she is the most beautiful woman in the world to me. I love the way she looks. What is more important though, is that she is smart (going to grad school for applied medical anthropology,) she’s a great mom, she’s fun, and we agree on all the important interpersonal issues (spirituality, child rearing, need vs. want, etc.) Hot don’t last forever, but stupid does. I think the OP’s real problem is that she is hanging out with her peers…college aged guys. I remember when I was in college. I thought with my eyes and my dick when I wasn’t in class. I wasn’t looking for the love of my life and a long term relationship. I was looking to get my dick wet. I could care less what was on the inside, in fact, I wanted you to be shallow, vain, bitchy and arrogant…so I could have an excuse to get rid of you once I had gotten my dick wet. In short, OP…just give it a few years, or find a guy in his early 30’s.

So you treat hot women and ugly women the same . . . like shit.

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**Author:** ![living\_in\_hell](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/3d9bf3/32.png) [@living\_in\_hell](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/living_in_hell)\
**Post date:** [April 3, 2012, 12:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-am-an-ugly-woman-and-i-hate-it/615329/253 "2012-04-03T00:12:09Z")

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I’m not sure if anyone replied to this gem:

I thought Sandra Bernhard was a lesbian? Nothing wrong with lesbians, but women in relationships with other women are way less concerned about looks than men in relationships with women (or men for that matter, since gay men tend to have more body image issues)… so maybe she’s not the best example.

Because honestly, I stopped reading the thread after I read it. Where do you get your information–Archie Bunker? Sorry to be blunt here but what a positively idiotic thing to say. There’s so many things wrong with making a statement like that, that I’m wondering if it’s actually your personality that is unattractive. I’d look into getting yourself a social skills makeover.

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**Author:** ![The\_Second\_Stone](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/bbe5ce/32.png) [@The\_Second\_Stone](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_Second_Stone)\
**Post date:** [April 3, 2012, 1:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-am-an-ugly-woman-and-i-hate-it/615329/254 "2012-04-03T01:02:47Z")

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> [@VinylTurnip](#):
>
> “My heart tells me that **Rand Rover** has some part to play yet, for good or ill, before this is over.”

He’s more machine now than man. His mind is twisted and evil.

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**Author:** ![snailboy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/97f17d/32.png) [@snailboy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/snailboy)\
**Post date:** [April 3, 2012, 8:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-am-an-ugly-woman-and-i-hate-it/615329/255 "2012-04-03T08:03:28Z")

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> [@Sleeps\_With\_Butterflies](#):
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> This is one big mess of a response but I’m wondering if you could clarify the bolded parts? You treat “hot women” like shit constantly but that’s not better or worse than how you treat ugly people yet you don’t care how people look? Besides sounding like an oh-so-awesome-guy (sarcasm) you seem awfully confused and more than a little contradictory.

I figure he just never has time to treat ugly women like anything since he’s constantly following the beautiful women around and treating them like shit.

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**Author:** ![Sunspace](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sunspace/32/1250_2.png) [@Sunspace](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sunspace)\
**Post date:** [April 3, 2012, 9:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-am-an-ugly-woman-and-i-hate-it/615329/256 "2012-04-03T09:19:46Z")

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Why treat anyone like shit?

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**Author:** ![Sleeps\_With\_Butterflies](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/bb73d2/32.png) [@Sleeps\_With\_Butterflies](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sleeps_With_Butterflies)\
**Post date:** [April 3, 2012, 4:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-am-an-ugly-woman-and-i-hate-it/615329/257 "2012-04-03T16:31:04Z")

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> [@zweisamkeit](#):
>
> Truly, the OP just doesn’t get it. Waaah, waaah. It’s not like [chicks are photographed all hypersexualized when equivalent guys aren’t](http://thesocietypages.org/socimages/2012/03/05/gratuitous-objectification-in-gqs-comedy-issue/). I bet she has a problem with how often discussions about female  
> [athletes](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=601384)  
> [Ph.D holders](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=519193)  
> [politicians](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=634387)  
> and so on often focus solely on their attractiveness instead of their accomplishments. Or how often guys will [barge in](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showpost.php?p=10946073&postcount=27) with [really lame “jokes”](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/report.php?p=8490898) about [helping with a breast exam](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showpost.php?p=5127860&postcount=8) or needing [photos of boobs](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/report.php?p=13638580), even in serious discussion threads. I mean, why would she think that many people still value a woman’s attractiveness more than other traits?
> 
> I salute you for pointing out who the _real_ sufferers are. I will [play this in your honor](http://bit.ly/y9dS7k).

I know **Diosa** already gave kudos to this post, but I have to add mine. You’re one of my favorite posters here and this post is just one of the many reasons that’s true.

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**Author:** ![Bubbles12X2](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/9de053/32.png) [@Bubbles12X2](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bubbles12X2)\
**Post date:** [March 20, 2013, 11:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-am-an-ugly-woman-and-i-hate-it/615329/258 "2013-03-20T23:59:31Z")

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Hi  
I really feel for you because I have been there. I was teased for being so ugly when I was a kid. I was also pretty smart - not so much intellectually, but I was an art prodigy so people noticed my talents, while still maintaining how ugly I was.  
I say ‘was’ because at about your age I decided to do somethng about it. I got myself a ‘style’ and a ‘look’ and I carried myself with confidence. I learned to use products and makeup and did my hair, wore great clothes etc. The boys who had dissed me in my youth were now begging to be part of my life.  
My sister in law can only be described, facially, as ‘ugly’. She has a very big nose and wide, flat hips, but trust me when I tell you that this woman is hot, totally hot! It is about the way she carries herself and the ‘femme’ presentation. It does not take beauty to be feminine and it is feminity which attracts guys. Sadly smart does not equal feminine in the minds of most men, so we smart women need to be cagey too. You will learn to love your stealthy vantage point in time.  
I say this - we do not all have big lips and the right proportions that are in fashion now, but we can all have great skin, fitness, good hair and teeth.  
I am 54 next week and I look 38 on a good day. My recent boyfriend turns 30 this year and he is hot. What I am saying is - there’s plenty to help you with your looks out there - just be willing to accept that we as women need to look good to be noticed. Our brains will attract the smarter ones of them, that’s all.  
Good luck.

> [@Can\_t\_Recall](#):
>
> I know that due to nature, the law of balance or whatever else, not everyone can be attractive, so there HAVE TO BE ugly individuals. But I just hate being on this side of the fence… in my opinion, the grass is certainly greener for beautiful individuals - especially beautiful women.
> 
> I’m plain, at best. I may not be gross looking, but I certainly don’t get noticed. I live in a very male dominated society, and for example, I participate in a group in which we discuss philosophy and stuff. We’re all in our 20s and we invite people to join. I was invited by my sister. Other females in the group usually invite people because they’re friends with them, irrespective of their gender. But males in the group do this: they invite males who are smart, who will be able to contribute, who are intellectual, you get the point… but with females, they usually go by who is hotter and likes to party, but who also might not get bored by discussing philosophy. Yesterday we had a meeting and afterwards we had a few drinks (these college kids, huh?) and the guys were discussing female prospects for a good couple of hours… “so and so is HOT we should tell her to join…” “no, no, she’s hot, but she might not like the meetings” “she’s smart, but she’s too ugly”
> 
> I’m pretty smart (or so I’ve been told), but it seems unless you’re “hot” you’re off of guys’ radars… If brains are more important than looks, then why are looks more valued by males? I really don’t get it, as the guys who participate in this group aren’t statuesque Greek-god-types either… some of them are even uglier than I am!
> 
> I’ve been told I’m ugly on several occasions, and it sucks, sometimes I think I’d rather sacrifice a bit of IQ (but only a little) in order to be hotter… it’s not even about getting laid, but about the fact that men treat hot women better… it may be just because they’re horny and wanna get laid, but at least they treat them better. I often get ignored, or if I have something to say, they just don’t care. It’s as if being a smart woman has no value at all…
> 
> It’s all about tit size, face, whatever… my face is quite plain. My tits are small. I am pear shaped (I hate shopping for the same reason). I’m not overweight, and yet I still look bad because my bottom half is too big compared to the rest of my body… I wish I had big tits and no hips… at least then I wouldn’t look so matronly… “child bearing hips”, ugh, I don’t even wanna have kids (yet… don’t think I ever will)!
> 
> So yeah it’s pretty pointless and it’s the inside that matters, but you know what? that’s BS, if it truly were the inside that matters, bulimia, anorexia and other body image issues wouldn’t exist, there would be no make up, breast implants or any other superficial crap! And I know self esteem is my responsibility, but sometimes I really hate this superficial society and wish that Hollywood would burn down… I know beautiful people didn’t choose to be born beautiful, I just hate that society puts them in a pedestal to the detriment of the ugly population.

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**Post date:** [March 21, 2013, 1:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-am-an-ugly-woman-and-i-hate-it/615329/259 "2013-03-21T01:36:37Z")

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Wtf is up with all the zombie threads this month?

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**Post date:** [March 21, 2013, 1:42am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-am-an-ugly-woman-and-i-hate-it/615329/260 "2013-03-21T01:42:05Z")

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> [@Hung\_Mung](#):
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> Wtf is up with all the zombie threads this month?

Every month is Zombie Thread Month.

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