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I guess the “fishy” part is getting a lawyer so fast. He must have found an attorney faster then he found a doctor! Already there has been a discovery of my insurance limits and paperwork filed and this was 30 days ago. How would this guy even know if he has a permanent injury?
Sorry you were in pain. I wonder, did you get a lawyer to sue as quickly as this guy did and if so, why?
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Oct 2nd I was rear ended in my car (his fault). His car was a mess and had to be towed - his airbags deployed as well. My car was damaged (later cashed out by my insurance company due to repair costs vs value of the car) but I drove it the half km home to call the police because the at-fault driver would not call.
Right after the accident I was sore but I thought I was fine except for being slammed into at 60-65 kph. I was taken to ER on a backboard and neck brace to be sure. Honestly, I thought it was a bit silly at the time. A few hours later when I was still in the ER, and the pain started to set in, I’m glad I was there.
The following days just resulted in more pain.
Here we are a month and a half later and I can’t stand for more than 30 minutes at a time and can’t lift anything more than a few pounds. The pain in my back is fairly intense. My neck is quite sore and movement is limited. Today was the first day I felt well enough to even drive again (hard to look in the blind spots when you can’t turn your neck). I’m doing physio twice a week which has been taking time out of my work having to bus and train to the appointments.
I’m lucky my main work is currently from home as a computer consultant because I can fit my schedule around my doctor visits. I only missed about 10 days of work on the consultant side of things.
My friend just started a business which I was looking forward to helping him with. This required a fair amount of physical labour on my part but paid a nice wage. The first job with him was a few days before the accident. I’ve not been able to work on any projects after. In just 45 days with this job alone I’ve lost about $3k in wages. Not a huge amount, but it was “extra” money slated to be put back in savings (which we took a large bite out of moving out of the country).
I don’t currently have medical coverage so ALL my doctor visits are out of pocket. My auto insurance from the states is supposed to cover some of this stuff, but so far they haven’t even finished paying me for my car - they’ve only paid half and are dicking me around.
I do not know how long this pain will last but it has greatly affected my life at the moment. I can’t make it though a grocery store without being in pain. I can’t take out the garbage without pain. I can’t sit or stand without pain. Dealing with the pain I had to go and find a new car and deal with crappy car salesmen. It took two weeks of car searching and test driving before we found one.
Two days after the crash and I realized this was going to be ongoing, I had a lawyer. I am not about to pay one cent out of my pocket because some shithead couldn’t keep his eyes on the road. At the end of the day the guy who hit me WILL pay for everything - even down to my train fare to the doctor. I fully expect to be paid for my lost wages from both jobs. I also expect to be paid for my pain and I will not settle this case until I feel like I was the afternoon before this guy hit me. I don’t know enough about the law in these cases to handle this myself - thus, the lawyer. I also have enough to worry about so I’ll let the lawyer handle this matter.
Your son was at fault. It is completely possible he damaged this man. If I recall, airbags deploy at around 50kph (30 mph) so your son must have really smaked this guy hard. Is it too early to tell if your son permently damaged this man? I think only a doctor could say for sure. I wouldn’t assume for a moment he wasn’t hurt though.
Here is another thing to consider. The only contact I had with the at-fault driver in my case was at the scene of the crash. He saw me up and walking around, talking, looking more or less fine. What he hasn’t seen is the on-going pain I’ve been in since the crash. He hasn’t seem me going to physio twice a week. He hasn’t seen me ask my 15 your old daugher to lift objects for me because, at the moment, I can not. The only contact I will possibly ever have with him is through my lawyer.