# I am so upset right now **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [January 1, 2011, 6:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-am-so-upset-right-now/566065 "2011-01-01T18:19:10Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 19\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![LurkerInNJ](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/ed655f/32.png) [@LurkerInNJ](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LurkerInNJ)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2011, 2:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-am-so-upset-right-now/566065/41 "2011-01-02T14:23:13Z")
**Big T** , I sent you a private message. ---
**Author:** ![twickster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ec9cab/32.png) [@twickster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/twickster)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2011, 2:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-am-so-upset-right-now/566065/42 "2011-01-02T14:40:08Z")
**LurkerInNJ** , if you have evidence that **lisalan** is scamming us, pls. send it to the mods [I’d say “to me” but I’m about to go out for several hours] – otherwise you’re accusing her of trolling, which is against the rules. **twickster** , MPSIMS mod ---
**Author:** ![lisalan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/0ea827/32.png) [@lisalan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lisalan)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2011, 3:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-am-so-upset-right-now/566065/43 "2011-01-02T15:33:25Z")
I’d like to thank everyone for taking the time to reply. Your kind words mean a lot to me. Some other posters have accused me of being some poster on another website but that isn’t me. I seem to share the same username with this other poster. My username is a short version of my first name with the first 3 letters of my maiden name. Lisa is obviously a very popular name and there could be many people using this name. I’m thinking perhaps that someone from that other website did a search on lisalan and came up with me on facebook. They probably thought I was the same person and so sent me that disgusting message. The posters who are suggesting I am a troll really upset me very much. I explained that I have PPD and I really don’t need to be accused on this message board of things I didn’t do. I felt relatively safe discussing my post partum depression on here but I guess I was wrong. I’m too naive and too trusting and I will think twice about sharing any further personal information on here. Again I thank all the posters with the exception of one poster for supporting me and making me feel better:) Everyone feel free to look at my other posts on this board and you will see that I never was a troll on here and I am not one. ---
**Author:** ![lisalan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/0ea827/32.png) [@lisalan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lisalan)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2011, 3:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-am-so-upset-right-now/566065/44 "2011-01-02T15:34:59Z")
> [@Koxinga](#): > > Or our Lisa here might have been targeted in a case of mistaken identity. Thanks. As I explained you are right. ---
**Author:** ![Pagangirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e19adc/32.png) [@Pagangirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Pagangirl)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2011, 4:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-am-so-upset-right-now/566065/45 "2011-01-02T16:25:20Z")
No mistaken identity folks, check for yourselves. Lisalan, nice try at attempting to fool another forum. Lisalan has been a poster since June on [City-Data.com Forum: Relocation, Moving, General and Local City Discussions](http://city-data.com/forum) and [topix.com](http://topix.com). She started out on [City-Data.com Forum: Relocation, Moving, General and Local City Discussions](http://city-data.com/forum) as Lislan and then in november due to so much trouble she was causing changed her name to KylieEve. Anyone on here can verify it for themselves. Do a search for KylieEve, and on her posts prior to November, if you search in the threads, anytime she was quoted her original name of lisalan will show up. Also, her PPD, three kids and a lot of other facts she posted on her will match the stories she posted on [city-data.com](http://city-data.com). After fighting with numerous people on city-data, she opened up several accounts on [topix.com](http://topix.com), creating such accounts as 2smart4u2, which she later changed to Epstar, then Greattopics and her latest name is Dogwalker. She has continuously ripped apart dozens of people on topix, with her filthy disgusting mouth. She was never on facebook, this thread all stems from a post on [topix.com](http://topix.com). I was your friend Lisa, I was on your friends list, and I was actually rooting for you and was on your side for a long time, until you went way too far, with that post about Dogwalker425, that was so uncalled for, she did not do anything to you. Lisalan created an account on topix in the name dogwalker and then posted a link to dogwalker425’s picture on city data then proceeded to rip her apart about her looks, pretending she was the dogwalker425 poster. that was sick Lisa, what is wrong with you. I posted that latest post on topix about you because I think u went way too far, you are mean and cruel and you deserved it now. Dogwalker did nothing to you to deserve that. You need some help and quickly. Here are some of the many threads on topix that involve Lisa (who goes by Epstar, Greattopics and most recently dogwalker) or any post with Kanata, Canada as the location. > **[Quizzes | Free Online Quizzes | PCHquizzes](https://www.pch.com/quizzes)** > > PCH offers fun quizzes on a wide range of topics. Animals, history, traveling and more. Test your knowledge and play our quizzes today! > **[Quizzes | Free Online Quizzes | PCHquizzes](https://www.pch.com/quizzes)** > > PCH offers fun quizzes on a wide range of topics. Animals, history, traveling and more. Test your knowledge and play our quizzes today! > **[Quizzes | Free Online Quizzes | PCHquizzes](https://www.pch.com/quizzes)** > > PCH offers fun quizzes on a wide range of topics. Animals, history, traveling and more. Test your knowledge and play our quizzes today! ---
**Author:** ![lisalan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/0ea827/32.png) [@lisalan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lisalan)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2011, 5:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-am-so-upset-right-now/566065/46 "2011-01-02T17:27:15Z")
The person above me was probably the one who sent me the message on facebook and the one who is having a fight with this person on topix. I am not the lisalan this person speaks of. What is wrong you? I have no idea why you are stalking me. PAGANGIRL created an account on the straight dope today coincidentally and has one post to her name. I have no idea who you are or what you are talking about. I’m not the one who needs help. Your post has been reported. ---
**Author:** ![Pagangirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e19adc/32.png) [@Pagangirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Pagangirl)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2011, 5:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-am-so-upset-right-now/566065/47 "2011-01-02T17:32:10Z")
> [@lisalan](#): > > The person above me was probably the one who sent me the message on facebook and the one who is having a fight with this person on topix. I am not the lisalan this person speaks of. > What is wrong you? I have no idea why you are stalking me. I have no idea who you are or what you are talking about. > I’m not the one who needs help. Lisa, everything you posted in your original post was taken from topix, on the worst mod threads, from the poster cdmama, everyone on here can SEE THAT NOW, you took your post word for word, quit it already, you are making such a fool of yourself. :smack::smack: Go get the help you need Epstar/greattopics/lisalan/kylieEve, I am no longer defending you on city data or topix, you just went too far young lady. The links will speak volumes for themselves. ---
**Author:** ![lisalan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/0ea827/32.png) [@lisalan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lisalan)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2011, 5:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-am-so-upset-right-now/566065/48 "2011-01-02T17:35:16Z")
> [@Pagangirl](#): > > Lisa, everything you posted in your original post was taken from topix, on the worst mod threads, from the poster cdmama, everyone on here can SEE THAT NOW, you took your post word for word, quit it already, you are making such a fool of yourself. :smack::smack: > > Go get the help you need Epstar/greattopics/lisalan/kylieEve, I am no longer defending you on city data or topix, you just went too far young lady. No. You are making a fool of yourself. You are the one who is stalking me. I am not the lisalan on topix. I have no idea what you are talking about. You seem to be quite disturbed. I googled the topix site and this person who sent me the facebook message was most likely you and they posted the same exact message to lisalan on topix. Stop stalking me. I am telling you I have no idea what you are talking about. I am no longer responding to your crazy accusations. What is wrong with you??? ---
**Author:** ![Pagangirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e19adc/32.png) [@Pagangirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Pagangirl)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2011, 5:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-am-so-upset-right-now/566065/49 "2011-01-02T17:37:30Z")
It’s no secret I joined yesterday, after seeing the link on topix, big deal , so what!! Here’s a link to one of Lisa’s threads on city data, which was shutdown, you can see from the second post that her name was Lisalan before having it changed due to problems. > **[Your opinions on this???? (meal, parents, son, husband) - Parenting...](http://www.city-data.com/forum/parenting/1005316-your-opinions.html)** > > This happened a while ago but it still gets to me. My husband and I were at a restaurant with our 3 1/2 year old son. It is a very loud restaurant in ---
**Author:** ![lisalan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/0ea827/32.png) [@lisalan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lisalan)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2011, 5:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-am-so-upset-right-now/566065/50 "2011-01-02T17:41:35Z")
> [@The\_Devil\_s\_Grandmother](#): > > Take a deep breath and delete the message. It’s probably some sicko who pastes the same message to everyone. Don’t reply, don’t engage and use whatever reporting mechanism that facebook has to report. > > I’m sorry this happened to you. Thanks for the kind words. I’m sorry this happened to me too. ---
**Author:** ![lisalan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/0ea827/32.png) [@lisalan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lisalan)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2011, 5:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-am-so-upset-right-now/566065/51 "2011-01-02T17:42:40Z")
> [@Teacake](#): > > That is pretty nasty, but for all the reasons you listed, you already know that they’re wrong.\*\* Also, think about how sad, how unspeakably tragic and lonely, that person’s life must be, that they spend their time looking up people they don’t even know on facebook and writing each person a paragraph telling them nasty and untrue things about themselves. You have three lovely children and should not let someone so pathetic make you feel bad about yourself. \*\*Happy new year, **Lisalan** , with every good wish and hope that by this time next year, you’re confident enough in your own beauty (inside and out) to laugh and blush at the thought of letting some internet drooler affect your thoughts. Happy New Year to you too. I totally agree with the bolded part as well. ---
**Author:** ![lisalan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/0ea827/32.png) [@lisalan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lisalan)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2011, 5:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-am-so-upset-right-now/566065/52 "2011-01-02T17:44:14Z")
> [@twickster](#): > > **LurkerInNJ** , if you have evidence that **lisalan** is scamming us, pls. send it to the mods [I’d say “to me” but I’m about to go out for several hours] – otherwise you’re accusing her of trolling, which is against the rules. > > **twickster** , MPSIMS mod Thanks twickster and thanks for the kind words. happy New Year to you. ---
**Author:** ![lisalan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/0ea827/32.png) [@lisalan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lisalan)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2011, 5:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-am-so-upset-right-now/566065/53 "2011-01-02T17:45:23Z")
> [@ExistentialistDesperado33](#): > > Hey there lisalan, > I wouldn’t let this adolescent a-hole get to you because they obviously have no depth or emotional intelligence at all. An important thing i have learned about people and communicating on the net is you meet all kinds - from the most friendly empathic intelligent ppl to the most rude ignorant stupid insensitive idiots, > the net is like a magnifying glass as it allows you to meet more ppl -& the chance of meeting a-holes also increases. > please dont give it anymore worry as this person obviously has got issues and you are a better more intelligent person than they are. > I would say that they are immature and think it’s fun to send messages like that (they may not be entirely bad, more ignorant because they haven’t experienced any real emotional pain so they lack empathy) > I bet that when they grow up a little and face any kind of dissapointment they will think back and regret what they have done. > Hope you can try and stay positive and forget the negative.. > take care x 🙂 Thanks. You hit the nail on the head. One thing is for sure. Whoever this person is he/she is an ahole just like you said:D ---
**Author:** ![lisalan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/0ea827/32.png) [@lisalan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lisalan)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2011, 5:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-am-so-upset-right-now/566065/54 "2011-01-02T17:46:28Z")
> [@Khadaji](#): > > Just remind yourself it could be worse, you could look like [this](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/member.php). 🙂 > > Others have said what I would have: the person responsible is angry and in pain and it isn’t about you. I feel confident in saying it is not someone who knows you and was a random act of cruelty. > > Please don’t allow a sad stranger to continue to ruin your day, do your best to forget about it. Thanks. I looked at your pic. You are very handsome! ---
**Author:** ![AClockworkMelon](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/aclockworkmelon/32/10803_2.png) [@AClockworkMelon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AClockworkMelon)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2011, 5:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-am-so-upset-right-now/566065/55 "2011-01-02T17:49:40Z")
I have high hopes for this thread. ---
**Author:** ![sandra\_nz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/eada6e/32.png) [@sandra\_nz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/sandra_nz)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2011, 5:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-am-so-upset-right-now/566065/56 "2011-01-02T17:51:28Z")
Pagangirl, how did you find Lisa here, and why were you looking for her? ---
**Author:** ![tomndebb](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/b9e5f3/32.png) [@tomndebb](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tomndebb)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2011, 6:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-am-so-upset-right-now/566065/57 "2011-01-02T18:07:34Z")
> [@Pagangirl](#): > > No mistaken identity folks, check for yourselves. ENOUGH. What part of _take your suspicions to the Mods_ do you not understand or choose to ignore? If you have a serious question regarding another poster’s _bona fides_ or intents, then take it up with the staff through e-mail or by reporting the post. Do not create an account on this board for the sole purpose of bringing an off-board fight to this board. That holds true for EVERYONE. The topic of whether the OP is real or presenting herself honestly is no longer a subject for this thread. No attacks, no defenses. Any genuine information, (and relevance), may be submitted to the staff, but it will not be posted, here. [/Moderating] ---
**Author:** ![lisalan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/0ea827/32.png) [@lisalan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lisalan)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2011, 6:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-am-so-upset-right-now/566065/58 "2011-01-02T18:20:32Z")
> [@tomndebb](#): > > ENOUGH. > > What part of _take your suspicions to the Mods_ do you not understand or choose to ignore? > > If you have a serious question regarding another poster’s _bona fides_ or intents, then take it up with the staff through e-mail or by reporting the post. > > Do not create an account on this board for the sole purpose of bringing an off-board fight to this board. > > That holds true for EVERYONE. The topic of whether the OP is real or presenting herself honestly is no longer a subject for this thread. No attacks, no defenses. > > Any genuine information, (and relevance), may be submitted to the staff, but it will not be posted, here. > > [/Moderating] I thank you very much for your kind words. I will not be so naive in the future to post something like this so that I can be falsely accused just because I share a username with someone else on another board. A board, I might add, that has nothing to to with THIS message board. Actually 2 other boards that have nothing to do with this one. I feel like I am on trial here:confused:☹ Do you know how many people have the same username as me. I tried to sign up for hotmail with my user name as an ID and surprise surprise it’s taken. That’s the last thing I’m saying on this subject. Those posters who would like to comment on my OP are welcome to do so. I do appreciate the input:) ---
**Author:** ![twickster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ec9cab/32.png) [@twickster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/twickster)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2011, 8:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-am-so-upset-right-now/566065/59 "2011-01-02T20:42:19Z")
I don’t know what you guys are doing, but go do it somewhere else. **twickster** , MPSIMS moderator [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-am-so-upset-right-now/566065.md?page=2)