# I can't go to the quite study room to study or do programming

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-cant-go-to-the-quite-study-room-to-study-or-do-programming/689564>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [May 29, 2014, 3:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-cant-go-to-the-quite-study-room-to-study-or-do-programming/689564 "2014-05-29T15:53:26Z")\
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**Author:** ![MaverocK](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9de0a6/32.png) [@MaverocK](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MaverocK)\
**Post date:** [May 29, 2014, 3:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-cant-go-to-the-quite-study-room-to-study-or-do-programming/689564/1 "2014-05-29T15:53:26Z")

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I can’t go to the quite study room to study or do programming because the final examination period is over and it is the end of the semester and people think I am odd, crazy, weird, loser, nerd etc. if they see me doing something in the quite study room of the college.

I once going to my room with my bag from the QSA (quite study area), and a friend of mine saw me and said to me “WTF is wrong with you? Go to the common room (where the party was taking place at that time) and try to get some pussy.” I felt hurt and offended.

Yet another issue: I was solving some sort of math questions and a guy saw me and told me I was crazy because I told him I was studying math for fun.

I have to get over this but I don’t know how. I sometimes get so mad that I want to do some school shooting but then I think it would be like a reward for those non-studying people because their death would be quick. But I quickly recover from this illegal and sort of immoral idea and start to think normally again.

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**Author:** ![panache45](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/panache45/32/64_2.png) [@panache45](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/panache45)\
**Post date:** [May 29, 2014, 4:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-cant-go-to-the-quite-study-room-to-study-or-do-programming/689564/2 "2014-05-29T16:25:01Z")

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So they’re letting 8-year-olds into college these days?

And they’re being taught that if you misspell a word enough times, it becomes correct?

And should you be reported, based on your last paragraph?

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**Author:** ![Miller](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/miller/32/481_2.png) [@Miller](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Miller)\
**Post date:** [May 29, 2014, 4:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-cant-go-to-the-quite-study-room-to-study-or-do-programming/689564/3 "2014-05-29T16:37:09Z")

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“Sort of” immoral?

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**Author:** ![August\_West](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/august_west/32/18069_2.png) [@August\_West](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/August_West)\
**Post date:** [May 29, 2014, 5:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-cant-go-to-the-quite-study-room-to-study-or-do-programming/689564/4 "2014-05-29T17:50:14Z")

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Stop caring what anyone else thinks.

Don’t shoot anyone.

Learn to spell “quiet”.

Don’t shoot anyone.

If you’re still thinking of shooting people, ask someone you trust for help.

Don’t shoot anyone.

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**Author:** ![UncleRojelio](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/unclerojelio/32/3160_2.png) [@UncleRojelio](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/UncleRojelio)\
**Post date:** [May 29, 2014, 5:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-cant-go-to-the-quite-study-room-to-study-or-do-programming/689564/5 "2014-05-29T17:58:15Z")

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I take it that English is not your first language so I’ll pass on the spelling/grammar. Otherwise, there is an English phrase that applies to your situation.

“Fuck’em”

If you want to go to the quiet room, go to the quiet room. If you want to study math, study math. Tell anyone who thinks you should do otherwise to fuck off.

Oh, and don’t shoot anyone.

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**Author:** ![Robert163](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/4af34b/32.png) [@Robert163](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Robert163)\
**Post date:** [May 29, 2014, 6:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-cant-go-to-the-quite-study-room-to-study-or-do-programming/689564/6 "2014-05-29T18:05:31Z")

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sorry but if this is a joke, not cool  
if you are for real, sorry for saying it is a joke  
you are obviously a bit nerdy and different from other people  
so am I!  
so are a lot of people to tell you the truth  
try to make friends more like you  
and don’t worry about what other people think so much

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**Author:** ![Living\_Well\_Is\_Best\_Revenge](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/6bbea6/32.png) [@Living\_Well\_Is\_Best\_Revenge](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Living_Well_Is_Best_Revenge)\
**Post date:** [May 29, 2014, 6:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-cant-go-to-the-quite-study-room-to-study-or-do-programming/689564/7 "2014-05-29T18:19:30Z")

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OMG is anyone taking this seriously?!

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**Author:** ![Rachellelogram](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rachellelogram/32/8689_2.png) [@Rachellelogram](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rachellelogram)\
**Post date:** [May 29, 2014, 6:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-cant-go-to-the-quite-study-room-to-study-or-do-programming/689564/8 "2014-05-29T18:48:13Z")

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> [@MaverocK](#):
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> I have to get over this but I don’t know how. I sometimes get so mad that I want to do some school shooting but then I think it would be like a reward for those non-studying people because their death would be quick. But I quickly recover from this illegal and sort of immoral idea and start to think normally again.

Is there a legal obligation to report this kind of shit to local law enforcement? I \*know \*there’s a moral one.

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**Author:** ![BubbaDog](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bubbadog/32/333_2.png) [@BubbaDog](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BubbaDog)\
**Post date:** [May 29, 2014, 6:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-cant-go-to-the-quite-study-room-to-study-or-do-programming/689564/9 "2014-05-29T18:55:56Z")

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**Maverock** ,

Where are you going to school? Most colleges/universities have summer classes that would have study (quiet) rooms.

I don’t know of a college where a quiet study room isn’t available.

Are you in the USA?

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**Author:** ![MaverocK](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9de0a6/32.png) [@MaverocK](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MaverocK)\
**Post date:** [May 29, 2014, 8:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-cant-go-to-the-quite-study-room-to-study-or-do-programming/689564/10 "2014-05-29T20:24:12Z")

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> [@Miller](#):
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> “Sort of” immoral?

Extremely immoral. 🙂

> [@panache45](#):
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> So they’re letting 8-year-olds into college these days?
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> And they’re being taught that if you misspell a word enough times, it becomes correct?
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> And should you be reported, based on your last paragraph?

Hahaha 😃 Nice sense of humor you have. I am a meek person who cannot even hold a weapon. Internet is a place where I relieve my anger. This is why I wrote about shooting. In the country where I live I can’t buy a weapon. It is very difficult to buy one. And I believe this is good. We hear a lot about school shootings in the US, and this is sad.

> [@UncleRojelio](#):
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> I take it that English is not your first language so I’ll pass on the spelling/grammar. Otherwise, there is an English phrase that applies to your situation.
> 
> “Fuck’em”
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> If you want to go to the quiet room, go to the quiet room. If you want to study math, study math. Tell anyone who thinks you should do otherwise to fuck off.
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> Oh, and don’t shoot anyone.

Thanks for the reply.

> [@Rachellelogram](#):
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> Is there a legal obligation to report this kind of shit to local law enforcement? I \*know \*there’s a moral one.

I am not familiar with the US. But I believe that you should make big demonstrations against this weapon problem in your country. 🙂 It is sad to see innocent people dying in events like school shootings.

> [@BubbaDog](#):
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> **Maverock** ,
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> Where are you going to school? Most colleges/universities have summer classes that would have study (quiet) rooms.
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> I don’t know of a college where a quiet study room isn’t available.
> 
> Are you in the USA?

Thanks a lot for the reply. I am attending an university in Europe. Here we have many quiet study rooms but my problem is not having one or “not having” one. The problem here is people who sort of disdain those who are nerdy. They make me talk like I did in my first post, and then people criticize me for talking like that. I am not saying they are not right in doing so. The OP was emotional; I relieved my anger and that is it. I have no intention of shooting. I only imagine.

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**Author:** ![Ellen\_Cherry](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ellen_cherry/32/3600_2.png) [@Ellen\_Cherry](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ellen_Cherry)\
**Post date:** [May 29, 2014, 8:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-cant-go-to-the-quite-study-room-to-study-or-do-programming/689564/11 "2014-05-29T20:37:38Z")

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Not that there is ever any appropriate time, but this week is REALLY not the time to vent one’s anger by talking about shooting up college students.

MaverocK, you are welcome here at Straight Dope, but please do not post here about harming others. With that I am closing this thread.
