Also, to add: an overly compressed soundtrack (which is what the op seems to want, whispers and explosions at the same loudness) is lifeless and flat and you miss up to half the emotion of an otherwise well done movie.
Also also to add add: bad movies use dynamic range to try and mask it’s badness. Good movies use it to enhance. And on a bad or poorly setup system, they all sound bad.
My 3 word review of Raging Bull:
Raging Volume Inconsistancy
Movies are produced to be viewed on the big screen, with the audio coming from speakers the size of Buicks. When seen on cable with a TV set with built-in sound system the equivalent to speaker-phone, , the sound sometimes completely disappears.
I go years of my life without ever hearing an uncomfortably loud sound in the real world. But apparently, people living in movie land are constantly exposed to outrageously high decibels.