# I didn't know them but I'm still shaken

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-didnt-know-them-but-im-still-shaken/339228>\
**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Created:** [January 9, 2006, 10:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-didnt-know-them-but-im-still-shaken/339228 "2006-01-09T22:50:18Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![lieu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/c2a13f/32.png) [@lieu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lieu)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2006, 7:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-didnt-know-them-but-im-still-shaken/339228/61 "2006-01-10T19:07:52Z")

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Whatever penalty the law allows, when it comes time to hand out the sentence I hope one question will have been raised, namely in what order was the family killed? Did the bound and gagged parents have to watch as their little children were slaughtered or did the children watch in sheer terror as their sole protectors in the world were murdered knowing full well they were next?

Goddamn horrible. No punishment can possibly fit this crime.

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**Author:** ![Corii](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/aeb1de/32.png) [@Corii](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Corii)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2006, 7:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-didnt-know-them-but-im-still-shaken/339228/62 "2006-01-10T19:08:28Z")

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> [@Anaamika](#):
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> Sometimes I can’t believe the callousness of people who are against the death penalty.

Why do you say something like this? Do you think that people opposed to the death penalty for whatever reason are by default rooting for the bad guys? The world is not black and white and if you give it some thought I am sure you will understand why this comment is so insulting.

And if you are curious, I am in favor of the death penalty because I believe some crimes are heinous to merit it, at least in theory. I do concur that the implementation here in the U.S. is imperfect, but it’s my opinion that some people are simply too dangerously deranged to be allowed to interact with society. I know there are other ways of keeping such people locked up, but I admit I get a small visceral satisfaction from learning that a convicted mass murderer has been executed. That is one of my flaws.

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**Author:** ![Cerri](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/3bc359/32.png) [@Cerri](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cerri)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2006, 7:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-didnt-know-them-but-im-still-shaken/339228/63 "2006-01-10T19:19:25Z")

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> [@AFAIKnow](#):
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> Nothing ambiguous about it. It’s common sense. Just as common sense says that any form of punishment has a deterrnce factor to some degree.

Common sense as in, having nothing to do with actual facts, data, or anything in the realm of numbers, statistics…anything that might back up your claim of “common sense”. Gotcha.

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> Whether that is enough to compensate for other factors that would increase the murder rate is not my concern.

So if the Brutalization Effect theory is found to be satistically valid, the data proves out, and is proven to actually _increases_ murder rates, it’s no concern of yours, no skin off your nose, right? Well, that’s…interesting. Morally deficient and utterly callous, imo, but interesting, I suppose.

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> I don’t see anything wrong with ending the life of those who commit such crimes. As I said before, they deserve nothing less.

The perpetrators of violent crimes have no right to decide whether someone lives or dies. That is why we punish them when they commit such crimes. What gives you the right? What gives you the right to decide the same thing we punish for?

What about when we get it wrong, when justice is miscarried, when a defendant is given a faulty trial? When the wrong person is put to death?

Somehow I doubt that bothers you either. Hell, they were prolly guilty of _something_, right?

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**Author:** ![tdn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/94ad74/32.png) [@tdn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tdn)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2006, 7:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-didnt-know-them-but-im-still-shaken/339228/64 "2006-01-10T19:24:10Z")

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> [@AFAIKnow](#):
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> Nothing ambiguous about it. It’s common sense.

Then statistics should bear it out. They don’t.

And it’s common sense that the Earth is flat, but upon closer examination it’s not.

The common sense of the DP is neither common nor sensical.

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**Author:** ![catsix](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/e19b73/32.png) [@catsix](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/catsix)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2006, 8:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-didnt-know-them-but-im-still-shaken/339228/65 "2006-01-10T20:19:22Z")

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Oh my god.

I knew Ricky Gray. Until around two or three weeks ago, he was in Washington, PA. I’d met the guy. He was a student of someone I know.

I didn’t know him well, but kind of as a ‘say hello in passing’ kind of way and had spoken to him maybe once or twice.

Wow. I didn’t realize who it was until I saw the picture on CNN.

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**Author:** ![FinnAgain](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/finnagain/32/12500_2.png) [@FinnAgain](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FinnAgain)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2006, 8:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-didnt-know-them-but-im-still-shaken/339228/66 "2006-01-10T20:35:47Z")

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> [@Cerri](#):
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> Convicts on Death Row can escape too. Should we deny them their lawful right to an appeal so we can kill em faster, so there’s no chance they can escape?

Yes, we should violate the law. Yeepers.

Ahem.  
No, we shouldn’t deny the appeals process. But obviously, after it’s over and someone is executed, their chance of escaping drops to 0.

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**Author:** ![light\_strand](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/a6a055/32.png) [@light\_strand](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/light_strand)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2006, 8:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-didnt-know-them-but-im-still-shaken/339228/67 "2006-01-10T20:38:59Z")

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> [@FinnAgain](#):
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> Yes, we should violate the law. Yeepers.
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> Ahem.  
> No, we shouldn’t deny the appeals process. But obviously, after it’s over and someone is executed, their chance of escaping drops to 0.

So do their odds of being released if they are exonerated.

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**Author:** ![FinnAgain](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/finnagain/32/12500_2.png) [@FinnAgain](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FinnAgain)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2006, 8:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-didnt-know-them-but-im-still-shaken/339228/68 "2006-01-10T20:46:23Z")

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[Deja vu all over again.](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showpost.php?p=6980595&postcount=34)

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**Author:** ![light\_strand](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/a6a055/32.png) [@light\_strand](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/light_strand)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2006, 8:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-didnt-know-them-but-im-still-shaken/339228/69 "2006-01-10T20:51:45Z")

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> [@FinnAgain](#):
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> [Deja vu all over again.](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showpost.php?p=6980595&postcount=34)

Indeed, and yet your argument is a stupid as it was the first time you presented it.

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**Author:** ![FinnAgain](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/finnagain/32/12500_2.png) [@FinnAgain](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FinnAgain)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2006, 8:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-didnt-know-them-but-im-still-shaken/339228/70 "2006-01-10T20:57:15Z")

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> [@light strand](#):
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> Indeed, and yet your argument is a stupid as it was the first time you presented it.

So, you ignore what I said, ask the same question again, and then your devestating rebuttal is to use the word ‘stupid’.

Well, I’m surely beat.

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**Author:** ![light\_strand](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/a6a055/32.png) [@light\_strand](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/light_strand)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2006, 9:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-didnt-know-them-but-im-still-shaken/339228/71 "2006-01-10T21:06:27Z")

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> [@FinnAgain](#):
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> So, you ignore what I said, ask the same question again, and then your devestating rebuttal is to use the word ‘stupid’.
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> Well, I’m surely beat.

There was a question there? I musta missed it.

Life in prison w/o parole means life in prison w/o parole. I know that not all states allow this, but if you look closely the states that don’t allow this sentence are those with the death penalty. TX, for example doesn’t allow this because of[prosecutors](http://www.deathpenaltyinfo.org/article.php?did=1406&scid=64)

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> largely because of opposition from prosecutors and pro-death penalty organizations who said it would result in fewer death sentences.

lovely.

Blood-thirsty git.

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**Author:** ![JohnT](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/johnt/32/15048_2.png) [@JohnT](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JohnT)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2006, 9:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-didnt-know-them-but-im-still-shaken/339228/72 "2006-01-10T21:10:39Z")

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> [@iamthewalrus(:3=](#):
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> You really can’t base support for the death penalty solely on the heinousness of the crimes;

Yeah, you can. Watch us.

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**Author:** ![FinnAgain](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/finnagain/32/12500_2.png) [@FinnAgain](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FinnAgain)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2006, 9:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-didnt-know-them-but-im-still-shaken/339228/73 "2006-01-10T21:11:02Z")

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> [@light strand](#):
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> There was a question there? I musta missed it.

No… no question. Merely a statement that you ignored what I already wrote and rather than actually addressing it, merely posted the same question, again. And then instead of actually debating, relied on gradeschool insults.

Were I to be uncharitable I’d say that you were too lazy to actually read the thread and then too lazy to do anything more than toss off a silly little insult when it was revealed that you hadn’t read the thread. But I’m a charitable kinda guy, so I’ll just assume that you don’t understand how a debate works and that using the word ‘stupid’ as your entire logical argument doesn’t prove any points except about you and your debating style.

> [@light strand](#):
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> Life in prison w/o parole means life in prison w/o parole.

No, actually, it doesn’t. PA, for instance, had many life without parole sentences commuted in the 70’s IIRC.

> [@light strand](#):
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> Blood-thirsty git.

Another devestating factual rebuttal. I am again humbled.

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**Author:** ![Starving\_Artist](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/aeb1de/32.png) [@Starving\_Artist](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Starving_Artist)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2006, 9:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-didnt-know-them-but-im-still-shaken/339228/74 "2006-01-10T21:14:16Z")

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> [@Cerri](#):
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> You want revenge, it’s your right to go ahead and ask for it, I suppose, but don’t dress it up in terms of deterrence, it’s probably cheaper to kill em than keep em locked up, we don’t get these cases wrong, etc. Because the facts aren’t on your side.

Boy, you do go on, don’t you?

The fact of the matter is that not only are your statistics meaningless, but they are merely fodder to support your opposition to the death penalty, which I would exist whether statistics supported it or not.

Now, why are statistics meaningless regarding the deterrant effect of the DP? Because they fail to account for the inpact of an entire society growing up under the belief that if they commit murder they abvsolutely will be killed in return, versus a society growing up as is the case now where some states enforce the DP, some don’t, and others don’t have it at all. Where executions, if they even occur, don’t take place for twenty or twenty-five years, and even then accompanied by the wailing of anti-DPers that the murderer has been ‘rehabilitated’ and is no longer a threat to society. (A specious reason for letting a killer off the hook if ever there was one; who cares if they’re ‘rehabilitated’: the people they murdered are still dead. Are we to say as a society that you can get away with depriving people of their lives and depriving their loved ones of them as long as you become a worthwhile person afterward?..in other words, making murder an ‘oopsie’ that you can make up for by becoming a good guy afterward? What kind of deterrant is that?)

In short, people in this country don’t grow up with the respect for life that a properly enforced DP engenders, and they don’t really fear the consequences of murder if they commit one and are caught. The punishment is too abstract, too far off, and too uncertain for it to have the same effect were it to be applied, and applied consistently, throughout the country for a generation or two. This is a large part of the reason why people ‘panic’ or otherwise decide rashly to kill someone they hadn’t originally planned on killing: they haven’t grown up with the respect for life the DP engenders in the back of their minds and they aren’t sufficiently convinced of the price they’ll pay if they’re caught.

As far as revenge is concerned, I think of it more as retribution than revenge. To me, ‘revenge’ is an attempt to even the score whereas retribution is the administration of justice. In other words, is a traffic ticket ‘revenge’ for running a red light, or is it society’s punishment (retribution) for having broken the law?

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**Author:** ![Nickrz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/bbce88/32.png) [@Nickrz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nickrz)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2006, 9:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-didnt-know-them-but-im-still-shaken/339228/75 "2006-01-10T21:20:30Z")

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Jesus H. Christ. A fucking hand-wringer OP meets the kiss-of-death-penalty debate. This is the PIT, assholes, not a forum for your tiresome, endless wrangling over state-sponsored killing. Lynn, where art thou?

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**Author:** ![FinnAgain](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/finnagain/32/12500_2.png) [@FinnAgain](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FinnAgain)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2006, 9:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-didnt-know-them-but-im-still-shaken/339228/76 "2006-01-10T21:21:41Z")

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OMG! A debate broke out in the Pit! On a topic related to the OP! Call in the mods, ayieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!

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**Author:** ![lieu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/c2a13f/32.png) [@lieu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lieu)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2006, 9:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-didnt-know-them-but-im-still-shaken/339228/77 "2006-01-10T21:24:57Z")

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> [@light strand](#):
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> TX, for example doesn’t allow this because of[prosecutors](http://www.deathpenaltyinfo.org/article.php?did=1406&scid=64) lovely.
> 
> Blood-thirsty git.

Not true. Something like 75% of the state was in favor and it’s now an option.

“Git” yourself… and up to date.

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**Author:** ![Starving\_Artist](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/aeb1de/32.png) [@Starving\_Artist](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Starving_Artist)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2006, 9:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-didnt-know-them-but-im-still-shaken/339228/78 "2006-01-10T21:29:58Z")

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> [@FinnAgain](#):
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> OMG! A debate broke out in the Pit! On a topic related to the OP! Call in the mods, ayieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!

Yeah!!! What the hell is going on around here anyway?

:: harumphs in disgust and walks away wondering about the gall of some people, himself included, to actually _argue_ in the Pit :: :rolleyes:

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**Author:** ![bup](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/6bbea6/32.png) [@bup](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bup)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2006, 9:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-didnt-know-them-but-im-still-shaken/339228/79 "2006-01-10T21:31:53Z")

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Holy shit. I hadn’t heard about this. I saw The Dads a bunch of times in college, and was a big fan of House of Freaks after college, too.

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**Author:** ![Cerri](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/3bc359/32.png) [@Cerri](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cerri)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2006, 9:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-didnt-know-them-but-im-still-shaken/339228/80 "2006-01-10T21:46:14Z")

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> [@Starving Artist](#):
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> Now, why are statistics meaningless regarding the deterrant effect of the DP? Because they fail to account for the inpact of an entire society growing up under the belief that if they commit murder they abvsolutely will be killed in return, versus a society growing up as is the case now where some states enforce the DP, some don’t, and others don’t have it at all.

Oh. Well, I guess that explains the complete lack of murder of any sort for the entirety of human existence, right up until the first abolition of the Death Penalty, upon which murder rates exploded.

Oh, wait, no it doesn’t. Because that’s retarded. And factually incorrect.

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