The scenario is, unfortunatly, this. Unless the intruder is a psychopathic killer, she will be no threat, and he will probably leave taking what he wants. On the other hand, if your disabled wife attempts to pull a gun on him, the chances of her surviving are basically zero. Even if the intruder were unarmed, my best is that your wife will be killed with her own weapon. It’s harsh, and not comforting. But unless you know exactly what you are doing, are well trained, fit, and completely prepared to kill, the chances of your successfully defending yourself, and not being killed are slim.
No it isn’t. It simply that the vast majority of totally sane, balanced, inteligent, and reliable people still can’t be trusted with a weapon, if their only idea is that it is for personal protection. They won’t be trained well enough, won’t have any idea how to react in a true threatening siutation, won’t be prepared for the violence of an attack, and it will all go to shit. Next, world wide experience is that enough of those otherwise sane, intelligent, balanced, reliable people will turn out to not be quite so good as you hoped. And it is pretty to hard to tell who is who. Who is going to suddenly discover their spouse is being unfaithful? Who is going to suffer an acute depressive episode? Who is going come home one day and find their 6 year old kid dead after playing with a weapon. A weapon in no good locked in a safe unloaded. If you are sincere about it as defense, it is close to hand and loaded. Perfect for very nasty accidents. You are suggesting that not just you, but every other “normal” person is totally trustworthy in this respect. The simple sad truth is that they are not.
I expect government to protect me from idiots who think they are smart enough to be trusted with a weapon for their own self protection, despite considerable evidence that they cannot be so trusted.
The thought experiment. Imagine you go to work everyday, and you know that every person in your workplace is carrying a concealed, loaded, weapon. If you travel
on public transport, every person on the bus, train, tram. If you go out in the evening, every single person in the bar, restaurant, sports field. Every single one of them carrying. Do you feel safer or not? Because if you can’t trust every one of those people with a weapon, there is no reason why they should trust you with one.