Okay, in the article “The Five Secrets of Sexual Touch”, under the heading, “Pleasure Principle Five: Approach the big O slowly” (why the hell is Cosmo so damn big on alliteration? But that’s another rant), it says to bring your guy almost to climax, and then draw back (I follow that), but then it says, “This is the time to seek out his sweet spot. Every man has one sccret, undiscovered hot zone that send his through the roof” (Cosmo recommends the nipples, neck, and the back of his knee; these are “secret” and “undiscovered”?). “Once you find and tickle that trigger enough to bring him thisclose to climax blah blah blah” that’s not what I care about. What I’m wondering is “tickle that triggle enough to bring him thisclose to climax”. Can you get a boy off without touching his cock? If not, what are they suggesting?
Well, if you find out or are just curious and want to try something out, give me a ring.
If chickens are involved, that sure is fowl thing.
That’s like saying “Pull the pin out of the grenade, then ease it back in”. It just won’t work.
Oh, and BTW: I’ve done and been the object of plenty of research (self-study, girlfriends, etc) and have yet to find a spot that would bring me “this close to climax” other than the obvious one- my penis.
Well, unless you include Q-tips.
I figger that it depends on the guy. Some guys have lots of little sensitve spots (another one to try: the armpit. No joke.) and others (my husband, annoyingly, is one of them) have exactly one errogenous zone.
I have never brought a man to orgasm without, er, stimulating his gentalia . . . But you can back off before orgasm, when the testicles have risen but before orgasm comes, do other stuff, and come back to his cock to eventually deliver a more intense orgasm. Doing it multiple times can be really fun . . . but you’ll probably have to tie him up. 
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I have been in the army as have almost every male in Finland and at least you can do that with Finnish grenades.
Just don’t release the “spoon” and you can do what ever you want with the pin and put it back later. After you have tossed your spoon it’s too late, of course.
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I’m sorry, but considering the content of your post, I find your sig highly disturbing. Mrs March and sex don’t belong in the same thread!