# I found out my husband \*almost\* cheated, before we were married. Should I say anything?

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**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [June 23, 2012, 3:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-found-out-my-husband-almost-cheated-before-we-were-married-should-i-say-anything/626020 "2012-06-23T03:31:06Z")\
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**Author:** ![perfectparanoia](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/a5b964/32.png) [@perfectparanoia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/perfectparanoia)\
**Post date:** [June 25, 2012, 6:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-found-out-my-husband-almost-cheated-before-we-were-married-should-i-say-anything/626020/41 "2012-06-25T18:04:28Z")

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I don’t know what your relationship is like but if something were bothering me like this, my husband would pick up on it and think something was wrong.

I would definitely tell him. Not to analyze it or to get upset about it (because I wouldn’t be upset) but because I share everything with him.

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**Author:** ![awldune](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/c77e96/32.png) [@awldune](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/awldune)\
**Post date:** [June 25, 2012, 9:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-found-out-my-husband-almost-cheated-before-we-were-married-should-i-say-anything/626020/42 "2012-06-25T21:19:49Z")

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> [@perfectparanoia](#):
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> I don’t know what your relationship is like but if something were bothering me like this, my husband would pick up on it and think something was wrong.

I tend to agree with this. If you can put it out of your mind, then great. If it bothers you though, it is better to go ahead and put it in the open.

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