# I got accused of being a spammer! **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [October 12, 2011, 2:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-got-accused-of-being-a-spammer/599425 "2011-10-12T14:37:50Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![MannyL](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ba8739/32.png) [@MannyL](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MannyL)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2011, 2:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-got-accused-of-being-a-spammer/599425/1 "2011-10-12T14:37:50Z")
I’m on Ok Cupid to meet new people. I’m NOT looking for a relationship but trying to make some new friends in my area. I’ve gotten tired of composing long messages about why I feel I have a lot in common with the person I’m responding to so I’ve switched to just writing something short about myself and making it clear that I am ONLY looking to make new friends and I am NOT looking for a relationship. Well I replied to one last night and today I received an replay saying that she didn’t think we would be compatible for a relationship. I replied thanking her for the courtesy to at least reply to me and stated again that I am not looking for a relationship but trying to make new friends and she responded that she doesn’t talk to spammers. Just wanted to share. ---
**Author:** ![tdn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/94ad74/32.png) [@tdn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tdn)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2011, 4:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-got-accused-of-being-a-spammer/599425/2 "2011-10-12T16:50:27Z")
Did you offer her discount Viagra? ---
**Author:** ![leahcim](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/b4bc9f/32.png) [@leahcim](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/leahcim)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2011, 4:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-got-accused-of-being-a-spammer/599425/3 "2011-10-12T16:59:33Z")
> [@tdn](#): > > Did you offer her discount Viagra? Or discount v1@gR@? ---
**Author:** ![BigT](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bigt/32/12044_2.png) [@BigT](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BigT)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2011, 6:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-got-accused-of-being-a-spammer/599425/4 "2011-10-12T18:31:15Z")
That sounds like she’s a spammer. With an auto reply. ---
**Author:** ![Attack\_from\_the\_3rd\_dimension](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/b38774/32.png) [@Attack\_from\_the\_3rd\_dimension](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Attack_from_the_3rd_dimension)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2011, 6:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-got-accused-of-being-a-spammer/599425/5 "2011-10-12T18:38:08Z")
Reported. Just kidding.