# I hate listening to other people's music

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-hate-listening-to-other-peoples-music/594775>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [August 31, 2011, 6:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-hate-listening-to-other-peoples-music/594775 "2011-08-31T18:56:19Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![panache45](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/panache45/32/64_2.png) [@panache45](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/panache45)\
**Post date:** [August 31, 2011, 11:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-hate-listening-to-other-peoples-music/594775/21 "2011-08-31T23:51:22Z")

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> [@LilyoftheField](#):
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> omigod! 😕 I had to have a purpose? My freakin’ life doesn’t even have a purpose, but SD threads have to?
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> This is humiliating - am I going to be deleted? :eek:

Yes, you will be deleted . . . but your thread will survive.

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**Author:** ![WOOKINPANUB](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/wookinpanub/32/132_2.png) [@WOOKINPANUB](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/WOOKINPANUB)\
**Post date:** [September 1, 2011, 3:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-hate-listening-to-other-peoples-music/594775/22 "2011-09-01T03:09:27Z")

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> [@panache45](#):
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> Yes, you will be deleted . . . but your thread will survive.

If it must survive then can it at least be dumped in MPSIMS? I’m a bit surprised that anyone responded, much less as civily as they have.

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**Author:** ![DrFidelius](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/drfidelius/32/3447_2.png) [@DrFidelius](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DrFidelius)\
**Post date:** [September 1, 2011, 11:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-hate-listening-to-other-peoples-music/594775/23 "2011-09-01T11:19:53Z")

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> [@Eve](#):
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> When \*I \*was in college we didn’t even \*have \*headphones. My roommate would walk around carrying her Victor Talking Machine, blasting James Reese Europe’s Society Orchestra playing “The Castle House Rag” at top volume . . .

Luxury!  
When I was in college we didn’t have recorded music. My roommates and I had to carry around our own harpischords, lutes and serpents to make music. Imagine three different Gregorian Chants going on in one dorm room…

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**Author:** ![Snake\_Plissken](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/41988e/32.png) [@Snake\_Plissken](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Snake_Plissken)\
**Post date:** [September 1, 2011, 12:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-hate-listening-to-other-peoples-music/594775/24 "2011-09-01T12:55:25Z")

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> [@DrFidelius](#):
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> Luxury!  
> When I was in college we didn’t have recorded music. My roommates and I had to carry around our own harpischords, lutes and serpents to make music. Imagine three different Gregorian Chants going on in one dorm room…

We love had harpcord, lute and serpant. Ogg only had rock to beat on with stick.

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**Author:** ![twickster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ec9cab/32.png) [@twickster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/twickster)\
**Post date:** [September 1, 2011, 1:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-hate-listening-to-other-peoples-music/594775/25 "2011-09-01T13:21:17Z")

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> [@WOOKINPANUB](#):
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> If it must survive then can it at least be dumped in MPSIMS? I’m a bit surprised that anyone responded, much less as civily as they have.

Good idea.

Moved Cafe Society –\> MPSIMS.

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**Author:** ![LilyoftheField](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/13edae/32.png) [@LilyoftheField](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LilyoftheField)\
**Post date:** [September 1, 2011, 1:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-hate-listening-to-other-peoples-music/594775/26 "2011-09-01T13:50:48Z")

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> [@WOOKINPANUB](#):
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> If it must survive then can it at least be dumped in MPSIMS? I’m a bit surprised that anyone responded, much less as civily as they have.

I totally agree - lame and pointless OP’s like this deserve nothing more than to be totally igno…wait, what? 😕

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**Author:** ![Nava](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/da6949/32.png) [@Nava](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nava)\
**Post date:** [September 1, 2011, 1:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-hate-listening-to-other-peoples-music/594775/27 "2011-09-01T13:54:18Z")

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I like listening to other people’s music, most of the time: often it provides me with additions to my own playlist. There are cases where it’s unacceptable: no, we are NOT playing the same smurfs song three times in a row. Because the car is mine, it’s not your dad’s car and in my car we don’t play the same song twice in a row, never mind thrice.

The most extreme case was going to a concert where the header was Marilyn Manson (which I’ve never been able to stomach and my friends liked), but where the second group in the 14-or-so-groups list was these new guys from California, Red Hot Chili Peppers.

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**Author:** ![Shmendrik](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ee7513/32.png) [@Shmendrik](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shmendrik)\
**Post date:** [September 1, 2011, 4:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-hate-listening-to-other-peoples-music/594775/28 "2011-09-01T16:40:14Z")

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> [@Snake\_Plissken](#):
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> We love had harpcord, lute and serpant. Ogg only had rock to beat on with stick.

Luxury! In our day we were lucky to beat on rock, without stick… or rock.

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**Author:** ![DrFidelius](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/drfidelius/32/3447_2.png) [@DrFidelius](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DrFidelius)\
**Post date:** [September 1, 2011, 4:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-hate-listening-to-other-peoples-music/594775/29 "2011-09-01T16:48:38Z")

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> [@Shmendrik](#):
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> Luxury! In our day we were lucky to beat on rock, without stick… or rock.

You had rocks? Back when I was young we would have given our right arm to have rocks.

But you tell these kids today and they don’t believe you.

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**Author:** ![Snake\_Plissken](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/41988e/32.png) [@Snake\_Plissken](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Snake_Plissken)\
**Post date:** [September 1, 2011, 5:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-hate-listening-to-other-peoples-music/594775/30 "2011-09-01T17:41:34Z")

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> [@DrFidelius](#):
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> You had rocks? Back when I was young we would have given our right arm to have rocks.
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> But you tell these kids today and they don’t believe you.

Kids these days, with their fancy rocks and sticks and stuff.

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**Author:** ![The\_Doughnut\_Thief](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/8edcca/32.png) [@The\_Doughnut\_Thief](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_Doughnut_Thief)\
**Post date:** [September 1, 2011, 9:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-hate-listening-to-other-peoples-music/594775/31 "2011-09-01T21:12:51Z")

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Just out of curiosity, what are your tastes in music that your roommates are so fortunate to be blessed with?

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**Author:** ![Dread\_Pirate\_Jimbo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dread_pirate_jimbo/32/3897_2.png) [@Dread\_Pirate\_Jimbo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dread_Pirate_Jimbo)\
**Post date:** [September 1, 2011, 9:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-hate-listening-to-other-peoples-music/594775/32 "2011-09-01T21:31:38Z")

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> [@DrFidelius](#):
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> You had rocks? Back when I was young we would have given our right arm to have rocks.
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> But you tell these kids today and they don’t believe you.

You had right arms? We had to beat ourselves on the head with our left leg, as there were no other limbs of any sort back then!

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**Author:** ![JessMagic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/c0e974/32.png) [@JessMagic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JessMagic)\
**Post date:** [September 1, 2011, 9:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-hate-listening-to-other-peoples-music/594775/33 "2011-09-01T21:32:07Z")

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Other people.

What a bunch of pricks.

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**Author:** ![Ponch8](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ponch8/32/9883_2.png) [@Ponch8](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ponch8)\
**Post date:** [September 2, 2011, 2:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-hate-listening-to-other-peoples-music/594775/34 "2011-09-02T02:27:25Z")

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I agree. Everybody should just listen to what I listen to. Lots of Kesha for all!

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**Author:** ![The\_Doughnut\_Thief](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/8edcca/32.png) [@The\_Doughnut\_Thief](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_Doughnut_Thief)\
**Post date:** [September 2, 2011, 2:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-hate-listening-to-other-peoples-music/594775/35 "2011-09-02T02:29:35Z")

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> [@Ponch8](#):
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> I agree. Everybody should just listen to what I listen to. Lots of Kesha for all!

uh that’s Ke$ha…pffft some fan you are:D

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**Author:** ![AnalogSignal](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/analogsignal/32/1085_2.png) [@AnalogSignal](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AnalogSignal)\
**Post date:** [September 2, 2011, 2:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-hate-listening-to-other-peoples-music/594775/36 "2011-09-02T02:34:55Z")

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> [@Dread\_Pirate\_Jimbo](#):
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> You had right arms? We had to beat ourselves on the head with our left leg, as there were no other limbs of any sort back then!

You had left legs? Fancy stuff. Back then we were just amoebas with pseudopods. Kids these days just don’t understand.

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**Author:** ![LilyoftheField](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/13edae/32.png) [@LilyoftheField](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LilyoftheField)\
**Post date:** [September 2, 2011, 3:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-hate-listening-to-other-peoples-music/594775/37 "2011-09-02T03:58:02Z")

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> [@The\_Doughnut\_Thief](#):
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> Just out of curiosity, what are your tastes in music that your roommates are so fortunate to be blessed with?

This is harder to answer than you might imagine. Of course, the OP did not explain the whole truth (does it ever?). There’s a reason why my roommates must listen to their music through headphones and I don’t. Mainly, because they listen to a lot more music than I do. They actually have playlists on their computers! They listen to their music a lot! I do not. I listen to music in a very occasional and somewhat haphazard manner. I don’t have a playlist. I am musically retarded, which some may see as a character flaw and others as a disability. (I actually did have a playlist on my last computer and I’m pretty sure it was just coincidence and not an actual act of God when that computer was taken out by a lightning hit on my house… :eek:).

So my roommates are subjected to my musical choices only every couple months or so when I go on a musical bender. Yes, it’s generally fueled by alcohol. Don’t judge me! So, yes - on those occasions, they must listen to a lot of APP (as previously stated), Chris Isaak (artist of choice for depressives and who doesn’t love “Wicked Game”?), some Enya, Emer Kenny, Fiona Joyce (“Cry Over You” gets a lot of play time) or other Celtic type tunes, with a few dashes of Dire Straits, Queen, Cheap Trick and yes, even Paul Simon, to name just a few. I tend to vacillate wildly in my choices - picking random selections from YouTube because I don’t have a great deal of ‘brand loyalty’.

Roommates haven’t complained. Probably for two reasons. One is that they frequently like my choices. Two, because, like I said, it doesn’t happen often enough to be really annoying and three, hey I’m the landlord! I pretty much get to do what I want 'cuz its my house! If they can’t deal with it, they are free to move out. If I listened to music as frequently as they do, I would probably have headphones! As it is, they have to listen to my audible books far more often than music - and I don’t play those all that loudly.

So, no need to feel too much pain for my roommates’ sake - they seem to deal with my little idiosyncrasies just fine. 🙂

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**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\
**Post date:** [September 2, 2011, 5:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-hate-listening-to-other-peoples-music/594775/38 "2011-09-02T05:33:58Z")

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> [@JessMagic](#):
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> Other people.
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> What a bunch of pricks.

I’ll give you a “Hallelujah” on that.

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**Author:** ![msmith537](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/d9b06d/32.png) [@msmith537](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/msmith537)\
**Post date:** [September 6, 2011, 9:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-hate-listening-to-other-peoples-music/594775/39 "2011-09-06T21:19:36Z")

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> [@LilyoftheField](#):
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> …but I think everybody else should be okay with listening to mine.
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> So, when my roommates are listening to their music, I expect them to use headphones so that I don’t have to hear it. But if I’m listening to mine, I can crank up the volume (when required - and let’s face it, “I, Robot” requires it!) and again, they have to put on headphones to avoid listening to it.
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> Yeah, I’m selfish that way. I don’t care. Besides I don’t have headphones.
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> Well, in all fairness, I have much better taste in music than they do. (I think. I’d actually have to have to listen to their music to be sure…)

In all fairness, you seem to have the mentality of a 15 year old (from 1977, based on your musical tastes).

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**Author:** ![The\_Doughnut\_Thief](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/8edcca/32.png) [@The\_Doughnut\_Thief](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_Doughnut_Thief)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2011, 4:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-hate-listening-to-other-peoples-music/594775/40 "2011-09-07T04:43:12Z")

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> [@LilyoftheField](#):
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> \<snip\>  
> [H]ey I’m the landlord! I pretty much get to do what I want 'cuz its my house!  
> \<snip\>

That is good enough for me. 🙂

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