# I just received the most hateful message of my life on Facebook and it got to me.

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**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [January 7, 2009, 9:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-just-received-the-most-hateful-message-of-my-life-on-facebook-and-it-got-to-me/480206 "2009-01-07T09:05:28Z")\
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**Author:** ![SkipMagic](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/skipmagic/32/20706_2.png) [@SkipMagic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SkipMagic)\
**Post date:** [January 9, 2009, 6:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-just-received-the-most-hateful-message-of-my-life-on-facebook-and-it-got-to-me/480206/141 "2009-01-09T18:17:00Z")

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I’m too lazy to go look it up to see whether you’ve done this before, so I’ll just make this a note now instead of a warning, but **Autolycus** , don’t drag the real-world problems you have with other members onto the SDMB. For one, it’s kind of a weenie thing to do to start a thread about another member and not even mention his/her name; secondly, this type of imported drama almost always ends up as a trainwreck and is best resolved in meatspace. We also don’t want the SDMB turned into a battleground for stuff that’s happened off-board; yell at each other in LiveJournal if you wanna do that.

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