# I Love You

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-love-you/106870>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [May 2, 2002, 3:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-love-you/106870 "2002-05-02T15:11:03Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 10\
**Page:** 3

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**Author:** ![Johnny\_L.A](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/johnny_l.a/32/1084_2.png) [@Johnny\_L.A](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Johnny_L.A)\
**Post date:** [May 6, 2002, 12:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-love-you/106870/41 "2002-05-06T00:50:18Z")

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Never. ☹

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**Author:** ![Eutychus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/a3d4f5/32.png) [@Eutychus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Eutychus)\
**Post date:** [May 6, 2002, 1:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-love-you/106870/42 "2002-05-06T01:17:58Z")

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Every day.

Sometimes twice or three times a day.

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**Author:** ![anya\_marie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ebca7d/32.png) [@anya\_marie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/anya_marie)\
**Post date:** [May 8, 2002, 10:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-love-you/106870/43 "2002-05-08T10:59:23Z")

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I never hear it and i cannot bring myself to say it. Isn’t that dreadful?

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**Author:** ![Typo\_Negative](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/typo_negative/32/484_2.png) [@Typo\_Negative](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Typo_Negative)\
**Post date:** [May 8, 2002, 11:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-love-you/106870/44 "2002-05-08T11:02:41Z")

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Every time I talk to her.

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**Author:** ![Tiggamoo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/858c86/32.png) [@Tiggamoo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tiggamoo)\
**Post date:** [May 8, 2002, 5:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-love-you/106870/45 "2002-05-08T17:58:27Z")

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I tell Spidyreb I love him every opportunity I get and he does the same. Emails and IMs do look wrong without saying it and conversations seem a little empty without it. Many times I’ll pop out with I love you and it means more than just those three words. He’ll do something cute or say something very sweet or it may be just the way he looks at me…saying I love you just summarizes many loving feelings. I love you, Spidyreb!!!

Well, I always tell my parents I love them at least a few times everytime I have the chance. I don’t usually tell my little brother but sometimes I do. I don’t usually tell my closer friends that I love them but I might say stuff like love ya to them.

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**Author:** ![gonzoron](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/a6a055/32.png) [@gonzoron](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gonzoron)\
**Post date:** [May 8, 2002, 6:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-love-you/106870/46 "2002-05-08T18:11:48Z")

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My fiancee and I are firmly in the “many many many many” times a day column. Perhaps due to having spent a lot of time apart. I think we might set records.

We once had a firend ask, “Did you guys have a fight or something? What’s with all the I love you’s?”

🙂 What can I say? I love her…

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**Author:** ![Skerri](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f04885/32.png) [@Skerri](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Skerri)\
**Post date:** [May 8, 2002, 7:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-love-you/106870/47 "2002-05-08T19:05:09Z")

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My SO and I aren’t very verbal about stuff like this, and it doesn’t bother me. He says it when he feels like it will matter, and I throw it at him every once in a while.

I think, (since this is IMHO), that the less you use it, the more meaningful it becomes. It’s not the words, but the sentiment attached to it that make it important.

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**Author:** ![Arken](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/dfb087/32.png) [@Arken](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Arken)\
**Post date:** [May 8, 2002, 7:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-love-you/106870/48 "2002-05-08T19:32:03Z")

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I don’t think it necessarily follows that it is meaningless if you say it a lot. Every time I tell Mrs. Arken I love her I mean it.

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**Author:** ![Koffing](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/898d66/32.png) [@Koffing](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Koffing)\
**Post date:** [May 9, 2002, 12:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-love-you/106870/49 "2002-05-09T00:46:01Z")

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I don’t have to tell my PS2 that I love it. It already knows.

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**Author:** ![Arken](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/dfb087/32.png) [@Arken](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Arken)\
**Post date:** [May 9, 2002, 4:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-love-you/106870/50 "2002-05-09T04:02:36Z")

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> I don’t have to tell my PS2 that I love it. It already knows.

Oh Koffing, Koffing, Koffing! It’s just using you for the discs!

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