# I need a hug

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-need-a-hug/25213>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [July 11, 2000, 1:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-need-a-hug/25213 "2000-07-11T13:56:43Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Chris25](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ecb155/32.png) [@Chris25](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chris25)\
**Post date:** [July 11, 2000, 1:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-need-a-hug/25213/1 "2000-07-11T13:56:43Z")

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I’m sad. I need lots and lots of hugs. OR a kick in the ass. So sad:( (sigh) which ever comes first. :(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(☹

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**Author:** ![lunapark](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/278dde/32.png) [@lunapark](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lunapark)\
**Post date:** [July 11, 2000, 2:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-need-a-hug/25213/2 "2000-07-11T14:03:58Z")

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I’ve been depressed lately too, so i’ll hug you. Then someone else can come and kick us both in the ass.

from one complete stranger to another: hugs ((Chris25))

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**Author:** ![ArkonDLoC](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/a8b319/32.png) [@ArkonDLoC](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ArkonDLoC)\
**Post date:** [July 11, 2000, 4:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-need-a-hug/25213/3 "2000-07-11T16:31:10Z")

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Group Hug.

((Lunapark and Chris25))

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**Author:** ![nashiitashii](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/7c8e57/32.png) [@nashiitashii](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/nashiitashii)\
**Post date:** [July 11, 2000, 5:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-need-a-hug/25213/4 "2000-07-11T17:50:05Z")

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{{{{{{{Chris25}}}}}}}  
{{{{{{{lunapark}}}}}}}}

happy now? oh, and here’s one for giving them a hug, ArkonDLoC…

{{{{{{{ArkonDLoC}}}}}}}

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**Author:** ![Whammo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/8dc957/32.png) [@Whammo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Whammo)\
**Post date:** [July 11, 2000, 10:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-need-a-hug/25213/5 "2000-07-11T22:17:29Z")

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**Dumps a bucketfull of icewater on the group hug**

Thats what I think of your hugs… pansies.

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**Author:** ![Nanno](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/e9c0ed/32.png) [@Nanno](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nanno)\
**Post date:** [July 11, 2000, 11:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-need-a-hug/25213/6 "2000-07-11T23:12:55Z")

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((((((HUGS))))))

been there

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**Author:** ![Brunetter](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/839c29/32.png) [@Brunetter](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Brunetter)\
**Post date:** [July 11, 2000, 11:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-need-a-hug/25213/7 "2000-07-11T23:27:27Z")

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I’m having weird emotions lately. There are so many things going on in my life that I often feel very very sad and overwhelmed. Then I feel guilty for being sad and kick myself into a happy mood again. So If we can make this the bi-polar thread, I’m right in there.

Hugs to all who needs 'em…

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**Author:** ![iampunha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/74df32/32.png) [@iampunha](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/iampunha)\
**Post date:** [July 11, 2000, 11:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-need-a-hug/25213/8 "2000-07-11T23:43:51Z")

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Chris, I’ll add you and luna to the list of dopers I have who need hugs or who I’d like to hug.

Not tell you which list you’re going in, though 🙂 That’d raise all manner of questions.

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**Author:** ![dewt](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/9dc877/32.png) [@dewt](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dewt)\
**Post date:** [July 12, 2000, 4:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-need-a-hug/25213/9 "2000-07-12T04:20:28Z")

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:peeking around doorway:

…ahem… err… did someone in here ask for a kick inna ass? I, um… happen to have an extra one right here. I’ll sell it to ya cheap…

Oh what the hell. First one’s free. (but then you gotta pay)

ahem

: **BOOT** : C’mon, get up! Dust yerself off, and get back on the horse, dammit. Whatever it is that ails you, ain’t gonna last forever and it’ll last even less longer if you meet it head on, so **get up!!!**

Howzat?

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**Author:** ![dewt](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/9dc877/32.png) [@dewt](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dewt)\
**Post date:** [July 12, 2000, 4:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-need-a-hug/25213/10 "2000-07-12T04:24:08Z")

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'course y’all knew that was : **P** eeking around doorway :  
sorry

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**Author:** ![fnord1966](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/ad7895/32.png) [@fnord1966](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/fnord1966)\
**Post date:** [July 12, 2000, 4:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-need-a-hug/25213/11 "2000-07-12T04:37:13Z")

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Well, since you are new here, I thought I would tell you, All affection requests (hugs, kisses, spanking, Jell-o wrestling) all should be posted in the PIT.  
A moderator can move it there for you.  
All you have to do is say  
Uncle Beer, will you please move my thread to the PIT?  
There, now dont say I never helped ya out.

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**Author:** ![Talkinsquirrel](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/f6c823/32.png) [@Talkinsquirrel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Talkinsquirrel)\
**Post date:** [July 12, 2000, 4:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-need-a-hug/25213/12 "2000-07-12T04:41:09Z")

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Lol fnord youre evil.

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**Author:** ![fnord1966](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/ad7895/32.png) [@fnord1966](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/fnord1966)\
**Post date:** [July 12, 2000, 4:42am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-need-a-hug/25213/13 "2000-07-12T04:42:30Z")

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Shhh. Dont talk so loud.

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**Author:** ![MagicalSilverKey](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/8797f3/32.png) [@MagicalSilverKey](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MagicalSilverKey)\
**Post date:** [July 12, 2000, 4:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-need-a-hug/25213/14 "2000-07-12T04:55:29Z")

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I have legitimate reasons to be depressed and need hugs as well:

My maternal grandmother died in January of this year, now my maternal aunt is in the hospital, dying of emphysema. I have a cousin who also is in the hospital, dying of much worse. I barely have any family left, to begin with.

I lost my job thirty days ago, not of my own accord, and still have not found another, despite my efforts.

I could go on, but the rest would be just whining. The stuff above is what “really” counts.

{{{{{{your name here}}}}}} may I please have one in return?

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**Author:** ![fnord1966](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/ad7895/32.png) [@fnord1966](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/fnord1966)\
**Post date:** [July 12, 2000, 4:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-need-a-hug/25213/15 "2000-07-12T04:57:07Z")

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{{{{{{MagicalSilverKey}}}}}}}}

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**Author:** ![MagicalSilverKey](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/8797f3/32.png) [@MagicalSilverKey](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MagicalSilverKey)\
**Post date:** [July 12, 2000, 4:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-need-a-hug/25213/16 "2000-07-12T04:59:14Z")

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> [@](#):
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> \*Originally posted by fnord1966 \*  
> \*\*{{{{{{MagicalSilverKey}}}}}}}} \*\*

Thanks Fnord 😃

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**Author:** ![fnord1966](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/ad7895/32.png) [@fnord1966](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/fnord1966)\
**Post date:** [July 12, 2000, 5:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-need-a-hug/25213/17 "2000-07-12T05:00:45Z")

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Did you like my idea for Chris25 to have this moved to the pit?

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**Author:** ![GraceTX](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/c4cdca/32.png) [@GraceTX](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GraceTX)\
**Post date:** [July 12, 2000, 5:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-need-a-hug/25213/18 "2000-07-12T05:02:36Z")

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> [@](#):
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> \*Originally posted by MagicalSilverKey \*  
> \*\*{{{{{{your name here}}}}}} may I please have one in return? \*\*

Consider yourselves lucky. He asked me for sex. 😃

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**Author:** ![Talkinsquirrel](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/f6c823/32.png) [@Talkinsquirrel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Talkinsquirrel)\
**Post date:** [July 12, 2000, 5:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-need-a-hug/25213/19 "2000-07-12T05:06:08Z")

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> [@](#):
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> Consider yourselves lucky. He asked me for sex.

So whatd ya say? 😃

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**Author:** ![GraceTX](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/c4cdca/32.png) [@GraceTX](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GraceTX)\
**Post date:** [July 12, 2000, 5:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-need-a-hug/25213/20 "2000-07-12T05:15:56Z")

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I said he had to pay me just like my husband.

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