# I Need Advice Please

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-need-advice-please/239739>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [April 13, 2004, 6:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-need-advice-please/239739 "2004-04-13T06:23:49Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 4\
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**Author:** ![Stoner88](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/7bcc69/32.png) [@Stoner88](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Stoner88)\
**Post date:** [April 13, 2004, 6:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-need-advice-please/239739/1 "2004-04-13T06:23:49Z")

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I Need Some Advice people;

ok, me and my girlfriend, broke up a few weeks back, we had a full on great relationship and we loved eachother a lot. now we started off being friends at the beggining, then someone told her that i used her for sex, and she believes it very strongly, but i didnt use her for sex at all. And i still want me and her to be friends, so i was wondering how to go about it.  
any advice you have to give is greatly appreciated, thank you.

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**Author:** ![LolaBaby](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/d2c977/32.png) [@LolaBaby](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LolaBaby)\
**Post date:** [April 13, 2004, 6:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-need-advice-please/239739/2 "2004-04-13T06:29:55Z")

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Who is the clown who told her that? And then ask yourself, why would she believe that asshat over you if the relationship was that great?

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**Author:** ![Starguard](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/8dc957/32.png) [@Starguard](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Starguard)\
**Post date:** [April 13, 2004, 10:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-need-advice-please/239739/3 "2004-04-13T10:40:06Z")

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Tel her exactly how you feel about her and then leave her to think about it for a while.

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**Author:** ![Mangetout](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mangetout/32/19_2.png) [@Mangetout](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mangetout)\
**Post date:** [April 13, 2004, 2:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-need-advice-please/239739/4 "2004-04-13T14:22:13Z")

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This is kind of hard to say, but, based on the meagre evidence of your posts on this board (all of which seem to be about sex or relationhips), I start to wonder if the _Someone_ didn’t have a bit of a valid point. Is it just me or are you obsessing over the whole relationship/sex thing?