# I need someone Opinion Men and Woman please?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-need-someone-opinion-men-and-woman-please/641404>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [November 18, 2012, 1:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-need-someone-opinion-men-and-woman-please/641404 "2012-11-18T13:45:01Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 4\
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**Author:** ![citizenzen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/a8b319/32.png) [@citizenzen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/citizenzen)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2014, 4:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-need-someone-opinion-men-and-woman-please/641404/21 "2014-01-10T16:37:42Z")

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So you have a friend come on to him to see his reaction … and he appears to accept the invitation.

I’d say you’re meant for each other.

DOH! I fell for a Zombie Thread.

Now wonder they warn about these things in the forum rules.

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**Author:** ![dba\_Fred](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/c37758/32.png) [@dba\_Fred](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dba_Fred)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2014, 7:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-need-someone-opinion-men-and-woman-please/641404/22 "2014-01-10T19:46:52Z")

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It’s okay to fall for a zombie, **citizenzen** , as long as you didn’t put your all in to it and spend alot of money.

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**Author:** ![Count\_Blucher](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/c5a1d2/32.png) [@Count\_Blucher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Count_Blucher)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2014, 8:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-need-someone-opinion-men-and-woman-please/641404/23 "2014-01-10T20:09:30Z")

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> [@dreamer777](#):
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> Thank You guys for the great advice, needless to say I have moved on to bigger and better things, this guy turned out to be a real jerk and was a waste of time, I love the fact that everyone took the time to write there opinion on here and some of then were indeed very funny, its nice to be able to laugh when life seem so confusing, thank you for being there and caring enough to post 🙂

Glad things worked out, even years later. Before I saw the dates, I would have thought you had trust issues & maybe needed to think about them before considering other people.  
Given that you’ve moved on, moved past them, and are now happier than ever, I’m glad to be wrong.

As for the negative things about the guy who fell into the pit-trap you set, since you’re so happy, why not be generous and let it go?

Be happy with what you have, not vindictive about what you don’t.

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**Author:** ![BobArrgh](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bobarrgh/32/2881_2.png) [@BobArrgh](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BobArrgh)\
**Post date:** [January 11, 2014, 1:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-need-someone-opinion-men-and-woman-please/641404/24 "2014-01-11T01:20:43Z")

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We should let this zombie die.

Period.

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