# I pit Dopers who don't share their location!

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-dopers-who-dont-share-their-location/350466>\
**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Created:** [March 29, 2006, 9:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-dopers-who-dont-share-their-location/350466 "2006-03-29T21:58:27Z")\
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**Author:** ![silenus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/silenus/32/166_2.png) [@silenus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/silenus)\
**Post date:** [March 30, 2006, 1:16am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-dopers-who-dont-share-their-location/350466/41 "2006-03-30T01:16:41Z")

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> [@Faruiza](#):
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> We got another one?! :eek: \<waves frantically\>
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> OMG. We may be gaining enough for our own small town DopefestTM!!

On top of all that, **Yeticus Rex** used to live in Calimesa, and there are several who currently reside in Redlands. We have the makings of a Dopefest!

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**Author:** ![Anaamika](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Anaamika](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anaamika)\
**Post date:** [March 30, 2006, 1:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-dopers-who-dont-share-their-location/350466/42 "2006-03-30T01:18:32Z")

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You can just ask me. I mean, my location isn’t very interesting. FTR, I live in Upstate NY.

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**Author:** ![Lilairen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8491ac/32.png) [@Lilairen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lilairen)\
**Post date:** [March 30, 2006, 1:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-dopers-who-dont-share-their-location/350466/43 "2006-03-30T01:22:04Z")

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I detect wiseass near-Bostonians, and am greatly amused.

But not as amused as I am by the google ads for cherry pitters.

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**Author:** ![Bertie\_Wooster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/58f4c7/32.png) [@Bertie\_Wooster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bertie_Wooster)\
**Post date:** [March 30, 2006, 1:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-dopers-who-dont-share-their-location/350466/44 "2006-03-30T01:27:20Z")

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You buried the only good reason you have: when an answer depends on location. But in the rare occasions when it happens, you can just ask for clarification. What I suspect is the real reason for your annoyance is that you want to poke your nose in where it ain’t wanted. I suspect this because you start off with a lame plea of curiosity. Overall, this is pretty bad, and I hope more folks obscure their locations just for you.

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**Author:** ![AskNott](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/asknott/32/5790_2.png) [@AskNott](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AskNott)\
**Post date:** [March 30, 2006, 1:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-dopers-who-dont-share-their-location/350466/45 "2006-03-30T01:43:08Z")

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> [@Omegaman](#):
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> I was going to put purgatory as the location but vegas is mostly the same only with gambling.

Purgatory is a golf course about 40 miles from here.

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**Author:** ![AncientHumanoid](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ancienthumanoid/32/278_2.png) [@AncientHumanoid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AncientHumanoid)\
**Post date:** [March 30, 2006, 1:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-dopers-who-dont-share-their-location/350466/46 "2006-03-30T01:45:06Z")

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> [@Lute Skywatcher](#):
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> I know I don’t have a real location listed but I usually give some hints of the general area when I need to give an idea of where I am.

Same, same. If the thread demands (imho) a location, I provide my generic, specific enough location: OKC, OK

As it is, the location I have listed is also correct. [Maybe](http://www.astronomycafe.net/qadir/ask/a11792.html).\* But a little uncertainty in life is nice.

- an extremely simplified description. Not to be used in physics, quantum physics, astro physics, or cosmology classes. (Cause they’ll fail your sorry ass!)

;j

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**Author:** ![AncientHumanoid](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ancienthumanoid/32/278_2.png) [@AncientHumanoid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AncientHumanoid)\
**Post date:** [March 30, 2006, 1:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-dopers-who-dont-share-their-location/350466/47 "2006-03-30T01:47:44Z")

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> [@Omegaman](#):
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> I was going to put purgatory as the location but vegas is mostly the same only with gambling.

I built some condos in Purgatory, Colorado.

Lovely place.

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**Author:** ![Crowbar\_of\_Irony\_3](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f08c70/32.png) [@Crowbar\_of\_Irony\_3](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Crowbar_of_Irony_3)\
**Post date:** [March 30, 2006, 1:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-dopers-who-dont-share-their-location/350466/48 "2006-03-30T01:48:05Z")

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> [@Rigamarole](#):
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> [This thread is an excellent example.](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=364923) In it, **ExtraKun** mentions multiple times the “quaint laws of his/her country”, and the first reply questions which country this is. He or she replies, conveniently neglecting that portion of the comment.
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> **ExtraKun** , I am not singling you out - well, yes I am, but I intend to pit all the Dopers who engage in this practice equally. I am an equal opportunity pitter.

Oh yes! My first pitting! Quick, we need some wine for the cele…

I don’t know why I shall share explictly where I am, when there are dozens (more than dozens) other dopers who don’t share where they are. Maybe I have fear of people, after knowing where I am, will send screenshots from Google Earth and threaten me “Nah hahah! Now I can see your house!”

I have my reservations, I have my reasons, I don’t feel secure enough etc. And there was one time one Doper who came from a rather controvesial location got trainwrecked, partly due to his place of origin. I come here to post – and I don’t want needless complications on where I am from.

And yes, some people do have a beef with the place I am from. So much so that they would always attempt to post their views about my country whenever its name pop up. Not that they are wrong – no place is perfect, but as said, I’m here to post and read and laugh, and nothing else.

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**Author:** ![El\_Kabong](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/el_kabong/32/496_2.png) [@El\_Kabong](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/El_Kabong)\
**Post date:** [March 30, 2006, 1:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-dopers-who-dont-share-their-location/350466/49 "2006-03-30T01:50:38Z")

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What, you never heard of Smack Dab in the Middle, Texas? It’s just south of Conroe.

Oh, wait, that would be The (THE!!!) Woodlands. My bad.

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**Author:** ![Rysdad](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/7cd45c/32.png) [@Rysdad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rysdad)\
**Post date:** [March 30, 2006, 1:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-dopers-who-dont-share-their-location/350466/50 "2006-03-30T01:55:01Z")

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If you don’t know where I live by the description, I’ll just say that I live on the side of the river that the money comes from. **Nurse Carmen** lives on the side the money goes _to._

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**Author:** ![RTFirefly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/c77e96/32.png) [@RTFirefly](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RTFirefly)\
**Post date:** [March 30, 2006, 1:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-dopers-who-dont-share-their-location/350466/51 "2006-03-30T01:55:40Z")

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**What Exit?** , with a username like that, I’d say you could do anything you want with the location field. 😃

I used to have my RL location in the location field - when that field only showed up in our profiles. I didn’t mind it being a click away, but I was less keen on its being out in the open on every post I made. Just me, I guess.

FWIW, I’m in southern Maryland, if anyone cares.

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**Author:** ![jackelope](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/a6a055/32.png) [@jackelope](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jackelope)\
**Post date:** [March 30, 2006, 1:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-dopers-who-dont-share-their-location/350466/52 "2006-03-30T01:56:38Z")

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> [@Rigamarole](#):
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> Now yes, I understand that many times it is not germaine to the discussion at all

Hell, sometimes it’s not even Tito–not even _LaToya_–to the discussion.

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**Author:** ![LilyoftheValley](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/54ee81/32.png) [@LilyoftheValley](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LilyoftheValley)\
**Post date:** [March 30, 2006, 1:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-dopers-who-dont-share-their-location/350466/53 "2006-03-30T01:57:09Z")

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> [@Lute Skywatcher](#):
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> I know I don’t have a real location listed but I usually give some hints of the general area when I need to give an idea of where I am.

Same here. If it’s relevant, I’ll mention it in my post. Otherwise, I like the idea that we aren’t tied down by real world locations.

By the way, the very existence of this thread now makes my location line a lie. (Anyone? Anyone?)

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**Author:** ![Frank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Frank](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Frank)\
**Post date:** [March 30, 2006, 1:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-dopers-who-dont-share-their-location/350466/54 "2006-03-30T01:57:58Z")

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> [@RTFirefly](#):
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> FWIW, I’m in southern Maryland, if anyone cares.

The (extremely rare) southern Maryland location always catches my eye because I was born in, and spent my teens and twenties in, St. Mary’s County.

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**Author:** ![Thudlow\_Boink](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/thudlow_boink/32/320_2.png) [@Thudlow\_Boink](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Thudlow_Boink)\
**Post date:** [March 30, 2006, 1:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-dopers-who-dont-share-their-location/350466/55 "2006-03-30T01:58:43Z")

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> [@NurseCarmen](#):
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> They should just change “location” to “Smart ass comment”

Ooh! Ooh! How hard would it be to tweak the board software and add a field? 🙂

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**Author:** ![Lissa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/85f322/32.png) [@Lissa](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lissa)\
**Post date:** [March 30, 2006, 2:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-dopers-who-dont-share-their-location/350466/56 "2006-03-30T02:03:03Z")

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> [@Antinor01](#):
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> I guess I just don’t get the whole “I won’t tell anyone my name or where I’m from” thing.

I’ll admit that my refusal to name my location stems solely from paranoia. If pressed, I say I come from the Midwest US, which is about as specific as I want to get. After 5,000-plus posts, I’m sure I’ve sprinkled enough clues to where if I revealed my city name, I’d be easily tracked. And I don’t want that. I don’t go to Dopefests for the same reason.

The anonymitity of the 'net is important to me. I feel much freer without having to worry that my posts could come back to haunt me in RL.

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**Author:** ![dinahmoe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/8797f3/32.png) [@dinahmoe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dinahmoe)\
**Post date:** [March 30, 2006, 2:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-dopers-who-dont-share-their-location/350466/57 "2006-03-30T02:05:10Z")

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> [@Lilairen](#):
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> I detect wiseass near-Bostonians, and am greatly amused.

I’m actually North Shore myself (hint: Panthah Powah!), but I love the Soxway too much, so I had to go with the Dirty Water.

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**Author:** ![Man\_With\_a\_Cat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/cab0a1/32.png) [@Man\_With\_a\_Cat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Man_With_a_Cat)\
**Post date:** [March 30, 2006, 2:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-dopers-who-dont-share-their-location/350466/58 "2006-03-30T02:13:11Z")

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heh.

A while back I started a thread that’s pretty much 180 degrees from the OP. I actually get a minor kick over some of the nonsense in the locations.

I can see why it’d be relevant sometimes, like in the examples given, but if you read a post like that, and you wonder - well, just ask.

Most of what I have to say here doesn’t have any bearing on where I happen to be sitting at the time. Some would say that little of what I have to say matters at all. In those cases, I am just as full of crap no matter what my location.

For the record, the Frappr link noted in a previous post here gives away a LOT of locations.

Now your hint: I live in the 3rd fastest growing county in the US.

PS: Want to know some locations? Get in a holiday exchange, you get real names and adresses to send things to and get things from. It’s way cool, and by the way, thanks ' **Mika** , I finally tried the tea! Yummm.

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**Author:** ![Jackmannii](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jackmannii/32/311_2.png) [@Jackmannii](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jackmannii)\
**Post date:** [March 30, 2006, 2:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-dopers-who-dont-share-their-location/350466/59 "2006-03-30T02:20:51Z")

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If it helps to understand my posts any - I was born in the back of a Greyhound bus, rolling down Highway 41.

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**Author:** ![David\_Simmons](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/9de053/32.png) [@David\_Simmons](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/David_Simmons)\
**Post date:** [March 30, 2006, 2:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-dopers-who-dont-share-their-location/350466/60 "2006-03-30T02:22:11Z")

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> [@wolf\_meister](#):
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> **Rigamarole**  
> I guess I’m one of those Dopers to whom you refer.  
> Still, it’s an old joke (at least around here) that Bostonians are so priggish, stuffy, snooty, etc that “even the owls say whom”. 🙂

You must have heard the joke about the Boston dowager who was going on a motoring trip to California with friends. When asked what route they would take she said, “Through Newton, of course.”

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