# I pit eating on Zoom

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-eating-on-zoom/962448>\
**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Created:** [April 7, 2022, 12:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-eating-on-zoom/962448 "2022-04-07T12:04:50Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Love\_Rhombus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/love_rhombus/32/10694_2.png) [@Love\_Rhombus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Love_Rhombus)\
**Post date:** [April 7, 2022, 12:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-eating-on-zoom/962448/1 "2022-04-07T12:04:50Z")

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I’m in a weekly D&D session. We’re all in different time zones so I get that some people haven’t had dinner yet, but could you please just pop it on mute before you start eating? I don’t need to hear all the chewing and slurping.

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**Author:** ![DavidNRockies](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/davidnrockies/32/6279_2.png) [@DavidNRockies](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DavidNRockies)\
**Post date:** [April 7, 2022, 12:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-eating-on-zoom/962448/2 "2022-04-07T12:23:57Z")

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I find myself desperately _hoping_ that’s what you’re hearing …

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**Author:** ![ThelmaLou](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/thelmalou/32/390_2.png) [@ThelmaLou](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ThelmaLou)\
**Post date:** [April 7, 2022, 12:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-eating-on-zoom/962448/3 "2022-04-07T12:25:12Z")

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Oh God, yes! If you must nosh, at least turn off the video!

What about the people who are on Zoom on their phone and they put the phone on their lap, so you get to look up their nose the whole time. That’s fun.

Sometimes I think people don’t realize they’re on camera and other people can see them. 🤦🏽‍♀️

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**Author:** ![don\_t\_ask](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e68b1a/32.png) [@don\_t\_ask](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/don_t_ask)\
**Post date:** [April 7, 2022, 1:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-eating-on-zoom/962448/4 "2022-04-07T13:17:30Z")

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It is generally accepted in the meetings that I am in that any noises extraneous to the meeting will get you muted by someone. The usual culprits are eating and carrying on side conversations. It is usually pretty quick.

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**Author:** ![Love\_Rhombus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/love_rhombus/32/10694_2.png) [@Love\_Rhombus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Love_Rhombus)\
**Post date:** [April 7, 2022, 1:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-eating-on-zoom/962448/5 "2022-04-07T13:18:23Z")

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The downside here is that the DM is the main culprit!

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**Author:** ![enipla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/54ee81/32.png) [@enipla](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/enipla)\
**Post date:** [April 7, 2022, 1:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-eating-on-zoom/962448/6 "2022-04-07T13:26:32Z")

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Agree with y’all. But I did here a funny story, I think here on the dope.

Someones dog started barking, then someone elses, and on and on and on until it was the dogs having a ‘meeting’

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**Author:** ![Pleonast](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/pleonast/32/1183_2.png) [@Pleonast](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Pleonast)\
**Post date:** [April 7, 2022, 1:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-eating-on-zoom/962448/7 "2022-04-07T13:30:38Z")

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> [@Love\_Rhombus](#):
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> I pit eating on Zoom

If you happen to get some pits while eating zooms, just discretely\* spit them to the side.

\*Yes, one at a time.

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**Author:** ![Ike\_Witt](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ike_witt/32/283_2.png) [@Ike\_Witt](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ike_Witt)\
**Post date:** [April 7, 2022, 1:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-eating-on-zoom/962448/8 "2022-04-07T13:31:47Z")

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This is one of the things I love about the guild I am in. Everyone has (or learns) solid communication discipline. Our Discord server enforces push to talk, and that combined with the discipline ensures that we don’t hear eating, or screaming kids or the TV in the background.

I can really notice the difference on different, more lax servers.

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**Author:** ![ThelmaLou](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/thelmalou/32/390_2.png) [@ThelmaLou](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ThelmaLou)\
**Post date:** [April 7, 2022, 1:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-eating-on-zoom/962448/9 "2022-04-07T13:31:51Z")

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> [@enipla](#):
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> Someones dog started barking, then someone elses, and on and on and on until it was the dogs having a ‘meeting’

That’s what I call a productive meeting!

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**Author:** ![Atamasama](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/atamasama/32/12961_2.png) [@Atamasama](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Atamasama)\
**Post date:** [April 7, 2022, 1:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-eating-on-zoom/962448/10 "2022-04-07T13:35:47Z")

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D&D: Dining & Disgust

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**Author:** ![running\_coach](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/running_coach/32/15836_2.png) [@running\_coach](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/running_coach)\
**Post date:** [April 7, 2022, 1:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-eating-on-zoom/962448/11 "2022-04-07T13:38:58Z")

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> [@Love\_Rhombus](#):
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> I don’t need to hear all the chewing and slurping. -

Be thankful they’re not using the boa constrictor filter.

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**Author:** ![Knowed\_Out](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/knowed_out/32/7380_2.png) [@Knowed\_Out](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Knowed_Out)\
**Post date:** [April 7, 2022, 2:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-eating-on-zoom/962448/12 "2022-04-07T14:30:18Z")

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I remember pre-Covid, my company had an “All Hands” meeting in the main conference room. There were about 100 people present, and a few on Zoom. The VP spoke for a little bit, then when pausing to start the next section, we all heard a toilet flush.

Everybody laughed, and the VP smoothly reminded everybody to use mute before going AFK.

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**Author:** ![Cervaise](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cervaise/32/16693_2.png) [@Cervaise](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cervaise)\
**Post date:** [April 7, 2022, 3:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-eating-on-zoom/962448/13 "2022-04-07T15:18:53Z")

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I endorse this Pitting, and I will extend the premise to Twitch streamers.

I don’t care how good your skills are, or how charismatic and funny you might be or how entertaining your patter — if you’re crunching Funyuns or squelching burrito bites into your microphone, I’m gone.

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**Author:** ![naita](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/naita/32/5862_2.png) [@naita](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/naita)\
**Post date:** [April 7, 2022, 3:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-eating-on-zoom/962448/14 "2022-04-07T15:45:08Z")

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Maybe you already did and aren’t using the BBQ pit as a vent for pent up frustration, but I think you can tell people in a D&D session to please mute while eating …

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**Author:** ![ThelmaLou](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/thelmalou/32/390_2.png) [@ThelmaLou](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ThelmaLou)\
**Post date:** [April 7, 2022, 3:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-eating-on-zoom/962448/15 "2022-04-07T15:45:53Z")

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When the lockdown first started we had synagogue services over Zoom and lots of people were on their phones. The rabbi reminded people that if they had to leave the room \<ahem\> NOT to take their phone with them. Even on mute, there’s still video. Ewww. Best to leave the phone at your desk.

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**Author:** ![Mundane\_Super\_Hero](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mundane_super_hero/32/6304_2.png) [@Mundane\_Super\_Hero](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mundane_Super_Hero)\
**Post date:** [April 7, 2022, 4:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-eating-on-zoom/962448/16 "2022-04-07T16:04:31Z")

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> [@Love\_Rhombus](#):
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> The downside here is that the DM is the main culprit!

"You enter the room. On the far side of the room you see a Mind Flayer.  
He has eaten all of your pizza! Before him is a giant bowl of McDonald’s French Fries.

He starts to eat them slowly with a smile, knowing that you can’t have any.

Roll Initiative!"

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**Author:** ![Atamasama](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/atamasama/32/12961_2.png) [@Atamasama](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Atamasama)\
**Post date:** [April 7, 2022, 4:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-eating-on-zoom/962448/17 "2022-04-07T16:27:52Z")

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> [@Knowed\_Out](#):
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> I remember pre-Covid, my company had an “All Hands” meeting in the main conference room. There were about 100 people present, and a few on Zoom. The VP spoke for a little bit, then when pausing to start the next section, we all heard a toilet flush.

This happened during a teleconference for the freaking Supreme Court during oral arguments. 😆

[![](https://img.youtube.com/vi/xB0bUtTvdCU/maxresdefault.jpg "Listen: Toilet Flushes As Supreme Court Holds Oral Arguments By Teleconference | NBC News NOW") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xB0bUtTvdCU)

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**Author:** ![puzzlegal](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/puzzlegal/32/3827_2.png) [@puzzlegal](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/puzzlegal)\
**Post date:** [April 7, 2022, 4:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-eating-on-zoom/962448/18 "2022-04-07T16:47:24Z")

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I attended zoom Yom Kippur, and there was a guy reading the newspaper. You know, you didn’t need to log in at all. And you can turn off your video. But it feels pretty disrespectful to broadcast yourself ignoring the service.

As for eating on zoom… I agree that people should mute while slurping, but at something like a d&d game, I’d just as soon they leave the video on, so i know they are still there. I mean, they’d be eating chips if we were meeting in real life. Why not eat supper when meeting remotely?

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**Author:** ![Omar\_Little](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/omar_little/32/269_2.png) [@Omar\_Little](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Omar_Little)\
**Post date:** [April 8, 2022, 3:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-eating-on-zoom/962448/19 "2022-04-08T15:22:20Z")

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> [@Love\_Rhombus](#):
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> could you please just pop it on mute before you start eating?

I think you would have better chance of your team following through on this if you just asked them on the zoom session as opposed to discussing it in the pit here on the dope.

Do you have confrontation anxiety? Nut up and just ask them.

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**Post date:** [April 8, 2022, 3:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-eating-on-zoom/962448/20 "2022-04-08T15:33:44Z")

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> [@puzzlegal](#):
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> but at something like a d&d game, I’d just as soon they leave the video on, so i know they are still there.

Video, fine - but crunching chips across the room/table is different then broadcasting crunches directly into your headphones. Please mute while chewing.

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