# I pit friends that disappear

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-friends-that-disappear/479926>\
**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Created:** [January 5, 2009, 8:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-friends-that-disappear/479926 "2009-01-05T08:46:20Z")\
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**Author:** ![brazil84](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/8491ac/32.png) [@brazil84](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/brazil84)\
**Post date:** [January 12, 2009, 11:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-friends-that-disappear/479926/41 "2009-01-12T23:51:53Z")

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> [@Santo\_Rugger](#):
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> Yeah, dude. Get over her. Admit to yourself you want to be more than just friends with her, realize it’s never going to work, and move on.

I think you are probably right. And in any event, the ex-gf probably perceives things that way. And even if she doesn’t, **Mssmith** is probably right that the ex-gf would rather spend her time trying to find a new bf.

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