# I pit Jeffrey Sandusky for being like his POS father

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**Created:** [September 16, 2017, 2:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-jeffrey-sandusky-for-being-like-his-pos-father/796466 "2017-09-16T14:23:32Z")\
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**Author:** ![DragonAsh](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/db5fbb/32.png) [@DragonAsh](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DragonAsh)\
**Post date:** [September 16, 2017, 2:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-jeffrey-sandusky-for-being-like-his-pos-father/796466/1 "2017-09-16T14:23:32Z")

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How can nobody have pitted this disgusting waste of space?

To recap: Jeffrey Sandusky was pestering the 15- and 16-year old daughters of the woman he was dating at the time. Being a complete idiot as well as a disgusting human being, Jeffrey did this all via completely traceable text messages. Which were eventually discovered. A week before his trial was due to start, he pleaded [guilty](http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/jeffrey-sandusky-pleads-guilty-child-sex-abuse_us_59bc4d59e4b0edff971c443b):

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> Jeffrey Sandusky, the 41-year-old son of former Penn State assistant football coach and convicted child molester Jerry Sandusky, pleaded guilty Friday to 14 counts of child sexual abuse.

Apparently asking minors for sexy time pictures is OK if you’re a [doctor](http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/son-jerry-sandusky-charged-child-sex-crimes-article-1.2971461):

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> One text, from March 2016, he allegedly asked for a topless photo and told her it was “not weird because he studied medicine.”
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> He also asked the girl to send photos of herself urinating and changing clothes, the complaint says.

Jeffrey’s father, Jerry Sandusky, of course is currently spending the next 30 years hopefully having done to him what he did to all those kids over the previous 30 years.

Jeffrey defended his father in the face of the accusations, even though another brother accused Jerry of having molested him as well. Now we know why Jeffrey defended his father.

I’ve heard on these Boards that the whole ‘child molesters are treated the worst in prison’ thing is not true (although [it doesn’t appear to be totally false](http://www.prisonerresource.com/prison-survival-guide/special-tactics/how-sex-offenders-survive/)) but boy oh boy do I hope it is true for these two at least.

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**Author:** ![bobot](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bobot/32/21622_2.png) [@bobot](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bobot)\
**Post date:** [September 16, 2017, 2:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-jeffrey-sandusky-for-being-like-his-pos-father/796466/2 "2017-09-16T14:34:57Z")

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It’s good that he’ll be locked up, and I hope his victims can heal and move on and be ok. I don’t believe that vengence or retribution = justice, so I hope he’s treated humanely in jail as I hope his fellow prisoners are.

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**Author:** ![Acsenray](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/acsenray/32/4519_2.png) [@Acsenray](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Acsenray)\
**Post date:** [September 16, 2017, 2:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-jeffrey-sandusky-for-being-like-his-pos-father/796466/3 "2017-09-16T14:36:26Z")

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Actually, I don’t hope for extra-judicial punishment for either of them. Justice means that your punishment is set through proper procedure and according to the law.

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**Author:** ![QuickSilver](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/quicksilver/32/7832_2.png) [@QuickSilver](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/QuickSilver)\
**Post date:** [September 16, 2017, 2:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-jeffrey-sandusky-for-being-like-his-pos-father/796466/4 "2017-09-16T14:44:59Z")

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You are better people than I.

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**Author:** ![Patx2](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/73ab20/32.png) [@Patx2](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Patx2)\
**Post date:** [September 16, 2017, 3:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-jeffrey-sandusky-for-being-like-his-pos-father/796466/5 "2017-09-16T15:57:38Z")

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Somehow, I did not know about this. What a miserable ass. He deserves a cell like his miserable ass father.

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**Author:** ![DCnDC](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dcndc/32/2842_2.png) [@DCnDC](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DCnDC)\
**Post date:** [September 16, 2017, 4:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-jeffrey-sandusky-for-being-like-his-pos-father/796466/6 "2017-09-16T16:07:26Z")

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Not to excuse what he did, but I have no doubt he was one of his father’s victims as well. Again, DOES NOT EXCUSE WHAT HE DID, but most monsters aren’t born, they’re made, and he never really had a chance.

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [September 16, 2017, 8:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-jeffrey-sandusky-for-being-like-his-pos-father/796466/7 "2017-09-16T20:09:38Z")

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Apple’s don’t fall far from the tree…is apparently true

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**Author:** ![DragonAsh](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/db5fbb/32.png) [@DragonAsh](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DragonAsh)\
**Post date:** [September 16, 2017, 8:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-jeffrey-sandusky-for-being-like-his-pos-father/796466/8 "2017-09-16T20:24:54Z")

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I suppose its possible, but I am disinclined to believe that Jeffrey was molested as a kid, since he defended his dad.

His other brother Matt -was- molested, and did not defend his dad.

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**Author:** ![filmore](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/7993a0/32.png) [@filmore](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/filmore)\
**Post date:** [September 16, 2017, 8:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-jeffrey-sandusky-for-being-like-his-pos-father/796466/9 "2017-09-16T20:31:29Z")

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> [@DCnDC](#):
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> Not to excuse what he did, but I have no doubt he was one of his father’s victims as well. Again, DOES NOT EXCUSE WHAT HE DID, but most monsters aren’t born, they’re made, and he never really had a chance.

This is my thought as well. Whether his dad physically molested him or not, he was a terrible influence. You can just imagine what Jerry was telling him about sex. But I personally think he was also molested. A monster created a monster.

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**Author:** ![Skywatcher](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/skywatcher/32/254_2.png) [@Skywatcher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Skywatcher)\
**Post date:** [September 16, 2017, 8:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-jeffrey-sandusky-for-being-like-his-pos-father/796466/10 "2017-09-16T20:31:44Z")

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> [@DragonAsh](#):
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> I suppose its possible, but I am disinclined to believe that Jeffrey was molested as a kid, since he defended his dad.

Of course he did. He evidently considers such behavior to be normal.

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**Author:** ![Hamlet](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/hamlet/32/2818_2.png) [@Hamlet](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hamlet)\
**Post date:** [September 16, 2017, 10:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-jeffrey-sandusky-for-being-like-his-pos-father/796466/11 "2017-09-16T22:16:15Z")

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I tried soliciting sex from a toilet paper tube and it didn’t work, so I don’t believe it happened.

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**Author:** ![Ludovic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/7ab992/32.png) [@Ludovic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ludovic)\
**Post date:** [September 17, 2017, 12:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-jeffrey-sandusky-for-being-like-his-pos-father/796466/12 "2017-09-17T00:49:35Z")

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> [@Hamlet](#):
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> I tried soliciting sex from a toilet paper tube and it didn’t work, so I don’t believe it happened.

Did you try experimenting to verify that that’s even possible?

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**Author:** ![BigT](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bigt/32/12044_2.png) [@BigT](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BigT)\
**Post date:** [September 17, 2017, 1:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-jeffrey-sandusky-for-being-like-his-pos-father/796466/13 "2017-09-17T01:01:41Z")

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This is definitely a situation where I could see him having been raised with really fucked up ideas of what is and is not appropriate. And, yes, maybe he was molested, too. Trauma in that period can cause issues with sexual desire. Or maybe he has a disorder that runs in the family–though at least these kids are likely post-pubescent.

Not that this excuses anything. He’s old enough to know better. And he had a convenient reminder that his dad’s attitudes on this sort of thing were fucked up. And even if he has the desire, desire does not compel action.

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**Author:** ![nightshadea](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/7ba0ec/32.png) [@nightshadea](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/nightshadea)\
**Post date:** [September 17, 2017, 1:35am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-jeffrey-sandusky-for-being-like-his-pos-father/796466/14 "2017-09-17T01:35:26Z")

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just a q hes going to jail for attempting to molest the kids right? he actually didn’t get to go through it …?

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**Author:** ![Morgyn](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/morgyn/32/3041_2.png) [@Morgyn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Morgyn)\
**Post date:** [September 17, 2017, 2:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-jeffrey-sandusky-for-being-like-his-pos-father/796466/15 "2017-09-17T02:41:55Z")

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> [@BigT](#):
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> This is definitely a situation where I could see him having been raised with really fucked up ideas of what is and is not appropriate. And, yes, maybe he was molested, too. Trauma in that period can cause issues with sexual desire. **Or maybe he has a disorder that runs in the family** –though at least these kids are likely post-pubescent.

_Emphasis mine._  
All of Jerry Sandusky’s six children are adopted.

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**Author:** ![DragonAsh](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/db5fbb/32.png) [@DragonAsh](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DragonAsh)\
**Post date:** [September 17, 2017, 3:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-jeffrey-sandusky-for-being-like-his-pos-father/796466/16 "2017-09-17T03:25:10Z")

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> [@nightshadea](#):
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> just a q hes going to jail for attempting to molest the kids right? he actually didn’t get to go through it …?

He pleaded guilty to 14 counts of sexual solicitation and unlawful contact with minors.

Not sure what you mean by ‘get to go through with it’. He asked underage girls to send him pics of them nude, urinating etc. That they didn’t actually comply has little to do with it.

I can’t find the cite at the moment, but I believe he is facing 4-6 years behind bars. Obviously would have been a lot more if physical touching etc would have been going on.

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**Author:** ![Nava](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/da6949/32.png) [@Nava](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nava)\
**Post date:** [September 17, 2017, 8:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-jeffrey-sandusky-for-being-like-his-pos-father/796466/17 "2017-09-17T08:25:01Z")

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> [@DragonAsh](#):
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> I suppose its possible, but I am disinclined to believe that Jeffrey was molested as a kid, since he defended his dad.
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> His other brother Matt -was- molested, and did not defend his dad.

My aunt was molested by her father and later left her own kids in his care. My mother has spent her whole life defending him, even after he assaulted her own children at different times.

Don’t expect rationality when dealing something as emotionally disturbing as sexual abuse.

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**Author:** ![Smapti](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/smapti/32/17938_2.png) [@Smapti](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Smapti)\
**Post date:** [September 17, 2017, 8:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-jeffrey-sandusky-for-being-like-his-pos-father/796466/18 "2017-09-17T08:51:57Z")

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> [@DragonAsh](#):
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> Jeffrey’s father, Jerry Sandusky, of course is currently spending the next 30 years hopefully having done to him what he did to all those kids over the previous 30 years.

You know, I wish we could have one thread about a sex crime that doesn’t have someone wishing for the guilty party to be _raped_.

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**Author:** ![pulykamell](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/pulykamell/32/3166_2.png) [@pulykamell](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pulykamell)\
**Post date:** [September 17, 2017, 3:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-jeffrey-sandusky-for-being-like-his-pos-father/796466/19 "2017-09-17T15:43:22Z")

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> [@Nava](#):
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> My aunt was molested by her father and later left her own kids in his care. My mother has spent her whole life defending him, even after he assaulted her own children at different times.
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> Don’t expect rationality when dealing something as emotionally disturbing as sexual abuse.

Yeah, I was going to say, the fact that he defended his dad makes no difference to me. People react to trauma in strange and different ways, often sympathizing with/defending the abuser. You see this in domestic violence cases, Stockholm Syndrome, cults, all sorts of stuff.

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**Author:** ![IvoryTowerDenizen](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ivorytowerdenizen/32/17937_2.png) [@IvoryTowerDenizen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/IvoryTowerDenizen)\
**Post date:** [September 17, 2017, 3:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-jeffrey-sandusky-for-being-like-his-pos-father/796466/20 "2017-09-17T15:48:21Z")

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> [@Smapti](#):
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> You know, I wish we could have one thread about a sex crime that doesn’t have someone wishing for the guilty party to be _raped_.

Totally agree.

“Sexual abuse is horrible; I hope he gets sexually abused”

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