# I Pit Minor Dating

**URL:** https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-minor-dating/640782
**Category:** The BBQ Pit
**Created:** [November 12, 2012, 3:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-minor-dating/640782 "2012-11-12T15:36:11Z")
**Posts on this page:** 20
**Page:** 5

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### Author: ![Blackberry](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/ecd19e/32.png) [@Blackberry](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Blackberry)
#### Post date: [November 12, 2012, 11:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-minor-dating/640782/81 "2012-11-12T23:31:46Z")

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> [@Troppus](#):
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> Missing **Qin** , were you?

I guess I must have been.

Now I want to hear this kid’s take on, I don’t know…oral sex, alcohol, homosexuality, abortion, Nazi Germany, cussing…so many things.

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### Author: ![gamerunknown](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/6bbea6/32.png) [@gamerunknown](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gamerunknown)
#### Post date: [November 13, 2012, 12:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-minor-dating/640782/82 "2012-11-13T00:24:11Z")

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I have a feeling this strategy will pay off. Slow burn rather than a drive by gets more responses.

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### Author: ![drew870mitchell](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/drew870mitchell/32/3946_2.png) [@drew870mitchell](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/drew870mitchell)
#### Post date: [November 13, 2012, 12:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-minor-dating/640782/83 "2012-11-13T00:34:44Z")

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**Anonymous User** is trolling you guys _hard_.

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### Author: ![R3d\_Anonymous](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/aeb1de/32.png) [@R3d\_Anonymous](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/R3d_Anonymous)
#### Post date: [November 13, 2012, 1:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-minor-dating/640782/84 "2012-11-13T01:18:26Z")

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> [@drew870mitchell](#):
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> **Anonymous User** is trolling you guys _hard_.

Everyone always thinks I’m trolling, but I’m NOT!

I seriously believe this and it’s called the pit for a reason. I’m pitting underage dating. That’s all that’s happening. I don’t know why all you have a problem because that’s what this forum is about. Ranting about things you hate/disapprove of.

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### Author: ![Jack\_Batty](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jack_batty/32/3201_2.png) [@Jack\_Batty](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jack_Batty)
#### Post date: [November 13, 2012, 1:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-minor-dating/640782/85 "2012-11-13T01:19:27Z")

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So just quit it, or I’ll tell mom!

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### Author: ![R3d\_Anonymous](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/aeb1de/32.png) [@R3d\_Anonymous](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/R3d_Anonymous)
#### Post date: [November 13, 2012, 1:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-minor-dating/640782/86 "2012-11-13T01:20:44Z")

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> [@Jack\_Batty](#):
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> So just **quit it** , or I’ll tell mom!

Quit what?

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### Author: ![Telemark](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/telemark/32/372_2.png) [@Telemark](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Telemark)
#### Post date: [November 13, 2012, 1:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-minor-dating/640782/87 "2012-11-13T01:34:39Z")

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> [@Anonymous User](#):
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> Everyone always thinks I’m trolling, but I’m NOT!

That’s what trolls always say when caught.

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### Author: ![R3d\_Anonymous](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/aeb1de/32.png) [@R3d\_Anonymous](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/R3d_Anonymous)
#### Post date: [November 13, 2012, 1:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-minor-dating/640782/88 "2012-11-13T01:40:08Z")

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> [@Telemark](#):
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> That’s what trolls always say when caught.

Actually, it’s not the case though. I really do believe what I’ve said in this thread. I don’t know why you think I’m trolling right now. It’s a true fact that I’m against minor dating.

See, I can’t believe minor dating as became this acceptable that when people disapprove with it, people just think they’re trolling. It’s just sad that people think you’re trolling if you don’t agree with minor dating.

Of course I’ve looked at the other side, and sorry! It doesn’t convince me. “Experience” is not a good argument. Anyone can gain experience in adulthood dating.

EDIT: A troll’s purpose is to annoy, or make others mad on the internet either through disrupting the natural flow of discussion with some controversial topic, or by arguing a controversial argument just to make people mad.

My purpose is not to make you mad. I’m just using the BBQ Pit to my advantage to rant about minor dating like I have said repeatedly!

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### Author: ![WhyNot](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/c77e96/32.png) [@WhyNot](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/WhyNot)
#### Post date: [November 13, 2012, 1:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-minor-dating/640782/89 "2012-11-13T01:49:14Z")

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> [@Anonymous User](#):
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> Of course I’ve looked at the other side, and sorry! It doesn’t convince me. “Experience” is not a good argument. Anyone can gain experience in adulthood dating.

Of course. Anyone can gain experience in cooking as an adult, too. Or painting, or archery or any one of a number of things that people do for fun. But there are very few things that we say kids who are interested in them shouldn’t try simply because of their age; convince me that dating should be on the list with buying a house, drinking alcohol and voting.

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### Author: ![R3d\_Anonymous](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/aeb1de/32.png) [@R3d\_Anonymous](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/R3d_Anonymous)
#### Post date: [November 13, 2012, 1:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-minor-dating/640782/90 "2012-11-13T01:53:20Z")

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> [@WhyNot](#):
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> Of course. Anyone can gain experience in cooking as an adult, too. Or painting, or archery or any one of a number of things that people do for fun. But there are very few things that we say kids who are interested in them shouldn’t try simply because of their age; convince me that dating should be on the list with buying a house, drinking alcohol and voting.

Alright, I will. But I can’t right now. I don’t have time as I’m studying for a mathematics quiz I have tomorrow. But, I’ll get back to you as soon as I have the time.

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### Author: ![Darth\_Panda](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ee7513/32.png) [@Darth\_Panda](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Darth_Panda)
#### Post date: [November 13, 2012, 2:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-minor-dating/640782/91 "2012-11-13T02:48:44Z")

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> [@Anaamika](#):
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> Hey now D&D players don’t deserve that. Some of us do get dates and even sex.

It’s true, I once nailed a cleric/mage, then she was slain by an elf :mad:

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### Author: ![WhyNot](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/c77e96/32.png) [@WhyNot](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/WhyNot)
#### Post date: [November 13, 2012, 2:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-minor-dating/640782/92 "2012-11-13T02:50:57Z")

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> [@Anonymous User](#):
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> Alright, I will. But I can’t right now. I don’t have time as I’m studying for a mathematics quiz I have tomorrow. But, I’ll get back to you as soon as I have the time.

I look forward to reading it. Seriously, I do. I’m actually not quite as opposed to your ideas as my posts here may make it look, I’m just trying to help you think it through a bit more and “force” you to organize your arguments. I promise I’ll keep an open mind as I read your thoughts.

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### Author: ![Muffin](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/muffin/32/4341_2.png) [@Muffin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Muffin)
#### Post date: [November 13, 2012, 3:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-minor-dating/640782/93 "2012-11-13T03:05:46Z")

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The time spent trolling on the internet would be better spent socializing with people of your own age.

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### Author: ![elninost0rm](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/ed655f/32.png) [@elninost0rm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/elninost0rm)
#### Post date: [November 13, 2012, 2:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-minor-dating/640782/94 "2012-11-13T14:25:47Z")

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Christ, you guys are way too easy.

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### Author: ![tdn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/94ad74/32.png) [@tdn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tdn)
#### Post date: [November 13, 2012, 2:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-minor-dating/640782/95 "2012-11-13T14:38:15Z")

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> [@drew870mitchell](#):
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> **Anonymous User** is trolling you guys _hard_.

I really don’t think he is. Sadly.

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### Author: ![Enderw24](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/ba9def/32.png) [@Enderw24](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Enderw24)
#### Post date: [November 13, 2012, 2:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-minor-dating/640782/96 "2012-11-13T14:41:16Z")

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> [@elninost0rm](#):
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> Christ, you guys are way too easy.

I’ve said in another thread that I honestly don’t care whether AU is a troll. It may be that he is, but I guarantee you that his issues aren’t so far out there that others don’t hold his same views on dating, the need for education, and other like topics. So even if AU is completely jerking our chain, there are other kids who legitimately want to ask the same question and hopefully they’ll be interested in our responses.

To AU, I have another question. You continually cite Yahoo Answers as backup to your argument. Aside from the utter stupidity of that (Yahoo Answers? Seriously? Why not skim YouTube comments for some other salient points?) I have to ask something. It seems as if you are taking information from the internet, processing it, and agreeing with it. Sure, it happens to be, surprise surprise, something you already agreed with, but they’re just anonymous people on a message board.  
So why them? What makes one group of anonymous people on a message board more convincing than other anonymous people on message boards?  
In other words, why do you so adamantly refuse to listen to anything we have to say but Yahoo Answers gets your undivided attention?

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### Author: ![DrFidelius](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/drfidelius/32/3447_2.png) [@DrFidelius](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DrFidelius)
#### Post date: [November 13, 2012, 2:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-minor-dating/640782/97 "2012-11-13T14:46:10Z")

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> [@tdn](#):
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> I really don’t think he is. Sadly.

I agree.  
I was a sanctimonious little prig when I was a teenager as well. Then I reached puberty and everything became “oh why do girls go out with jerks instead of me” whines. I’m sure that if we had message boards back then I would have come across as an insufferable snot. How times have changed.  
As it was, we were limited by technology to painting cave walls with very pointed and insightful hunting scenes.

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### Author: ![Ravenman](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ravenman/32/2929_2.png) [@Ravenman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ravenman)
#### Post date: [November 13, 2012, 4:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-minor-dating/640782/98 "2012-11-13T16:33:47Z")

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I’m pretty sure that the OP is one of those teenage South Asian Puritans you hear so much about: he knows that somewhere in the world, teenagers are having fun, and he is deeply offended by that.

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### Author: ![Nava](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/da6949/32.png) [@Nava](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nava)
#### Post date: [November 13, 2012, 5:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-minor-dating/640782/99 "2012-11-13T17:17:02Z")

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> [@Anonymous User](#):
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> And you support that? Wow, I thought you’re supposed to wait until marriage for that (well I definitely will because it’s even in our religion).
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> Legally they can if they are 16 or older, but it’s definitely not advisable! We’re not talking about legality here, but advisability. You really think it’s okay for kids 16-17 to have sex. Heck, I think that you should wait until marriage (which will most likely occur when you’re in your twenties).
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> I think it’s wrong to have sex before marriage but then again, that’s just my opinion/religion.

13 where I live, and we’re going back to the old-fashioned definition of marriage (i.e., you’re married if everybody knows you’re married, paperwork be damned).

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### Author: ![gamerunknown](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/6bbea6/32.png) [@gamerunknown](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gamerunknown)
#### Post date: [November 13, 2012, 7:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-minor-dating/640782/100 "2012-11-13T19:40:46Z")

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I think he meant “easy” in the sense of “loose”. You know, sluts advocating underage fornication and all that.

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