# I pit misogyny/sexism on Twitter

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-misogyny-sexism-on-twitter/688978>\
**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Created:** [May 22, 2014, 1:35am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-misogyny-sexism-on-twitter/688978 "2014-05-22T01:35:12Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Smeghead](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f1d935/32.png) [@Smeghead](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Smeghead)\
**Post date:** [May 22, 2014, 2:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-misogyny-sexism-on-twitter/688978/21 "2014-05-22T14:08:20Z")

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People on the internet fail to represent the best of humanity.

Film at 11.

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**Author:** ![joyfool](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/df788c/32.png) [@joyfool](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/joyfool)\
**Post date:** [May 22, 2014, 2:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-misogyny-sexism-on-twitter/688978/22 "2014-05-22T14:14:02Z")

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> [@MrDibble](#):
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> …and the herd keeps growing.:rolleyes:

Gotta ask…

I’ve seen you mention the 'Raffers in a couple of threads lately (this one and your most recent in ATMB) that leads one to believe you know their workings pretty well. Now, in the interest of full disclosure, I hang out there too and don’t quite seem to view it as the cesspool your posts intimate. If you find them and their ilk so distasteful, why do you read there?

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**Author:** ![Darth\_Panda](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ee7513/32.png) [@Darth\_Panda](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Darth_Panda)\
**Post date:** [May 22, 2014, 2:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-misogyny-sexism-on-twitter/688978/23 "2014-05-22T14:14:06Z")

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> [@OurLordPeace](#):
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> It’s not that people are insulting me. So what? No, what bothers me is that they think “male vagina” is an insult, as well as calling me a pussy, questioning if I am male, telling me to go put on a strap on and fuck whatever I fuck, telling me I have no self-respect because I’m a male feminist, and then liking and retweeting those tweets over and over and over again.

Anyone who says stuff like that to you isn’t really your friend.

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**Author:** ![Erdosain](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/erdosain/32/7284_2.png) [@Erdosain](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Erdosain)\
**Post date:** [May 22, 2014, 2:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-misogyny-sexism-on-twitter/688978/24 "2014-05-22T14:21:14Z")

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Once you’re done educating Twitter, could you do something about YouTube comments? Thanks in advance.

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**Author:** ![Debaser](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/3da27b/32.png) [@Debaser](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Debaser)\
**Post date:** [May 22, 2014, 2:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-misogyny-sexism-on-twitter/688978/25 "2014-05-22T14:34:57Z")

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Lame pitting.

It’s unfortunate, because Twitter actually does have some problems that are worth pitting. For instance, twitter won’t respond to rape threats unless they are [direct and specific](https://support.twitter.com/articles/20169997).

So if someone tweets “someone should rape you” that’s fine. It’s only if they tweet “I’m going to rape you this Saturday” that they will respond to it as a violation of their terms and conditions.

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**Author:** ![MrDibble](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mrdibble/32/114_2.png) [@MrDibble](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MrDibble)\
**Post date:** [May 22, 2014, 2:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-misogyny-sexism-on-twitter/688978/26 "2014-05-22T14:47:27Z")

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> [@faithfool](#):
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> Gotta ask…
> 
> I’ve seen you mention the 'Raffers in a couple of threads lately (this one and your most recent in ATMB) that leads one to believe you know their workings pretty well.

Oh, are you suggesting these people all come from the same place, pass around details of threads here, often instigated by their own Mods, and then come and post here? I had _no_ idea. Colour me shocked.

Couldn’t possibly comment on stuff that happens on another board. Certainly I have no knowledge of people gathering together on other boards to egg one another on to post trolling things here. That would be some sort of, I don’t know, “board war”, and _we_ good Dopers would _never_ have any truck with that.

So of course no-one else would do that to us, either. And if they did, we couldn’t mention it here. Because _we’d_ be instigating just for mentioning it, right?

And to answer your question, I search this board via Google, and …other sites… show up in those search results occasionally, that mention me by username. Which I read now and then, because who wouldn’t? Although now I suppose it’ll be less _someone_ still holding onto what I said years ago about **Cesario** , and more just outright baiting. So it goes in Nonnydom.

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**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\
**Post date:** [May 22, 2014, 2:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-misogyny-sexism-on-twitter/688978/27 "2014-05-22T14:50:24Z")

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> [@MrDibble](#):
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> Gosh, it took until post #6 for the White Knighting calls to start. The Giraffe herd is tardy, today…

They’re tardy every day.

Too easy? 😃

I was hoping this was going to be a Pitting of all the XX folk on twitter whose every post is about how sexy they are, how horny they are, how crazy they are, how drunk they are, blah blah friggin blah. Bleah.

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**Author:** ![MrDibble](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mrdibble/32/114_2.png) [@MrDibble](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MrDibble)\
**Post date:** [May 22, 2014, 2:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-misogyny-sexism-on-twitter/688978/28 "2014-05-22T14:55:16Z")

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> [@Cat\_Whisperer](#):
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> They’re tardy every day.

- 

Someone\* got it…

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**Author:** ![kayaker](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kayaker/32/441_2.png) [@kayaker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kayaker)\
**Post date:** [May 22, 2014, 3:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-misogyny-sexism-on-twitter/688978/29 "2014-05-22T15:15:09Z")

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> [@MrDibble](#):
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> Although now I suppose it’ll be less _someone_ still holding onto what I said years ago about **Cesario** , and more just outright baiting. So it goes in Nonnydom.

Whoa, I’d forgotten about that!

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**Author:** ![Sam\_Lowry](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e95f7d/32.png) [@Sam\_Lowry](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sam_Lowry)\
**Post date:** [May 22, 2014, 3:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-misogyny-sexism-on-twitter/688978/30 "2014-05-22T15:18:37Z")

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> [@Revtim](#):
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> Like all social networks, the experience is defined by who you associate with on them. Blaming Twitter for the people you follow being douches is like blaming the phone after you call an asshole friend.

People can follow you on Twitter without you following them. The douches could have found OurLordPeace’s tweets from people they follow, or by searching hashtags, or maybe some other way, and be responding to those tweets. It was OurLordPeace’s choice to engage with the trolls, but I can understand that it could be difficult to ignore them.

> [@Debaser](#):
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> It’s unfortunate, because Twitter actually does have some problems that are worth pitting. For instance, twitter won’t respond to rape threats unless they are [direct and specific](https://support.twitter.com/articles/20169997).
> 
> So if someone tweets “someone should rape you” that’s fine. It’s only if they tweet “I’m going to rape you this Saturday” that they will respond to it as a violation of their terms and conditions.

Yeah, stuff like this bothers me. I don’t know exactly where Twitter should put down the line, but they definitely need to look at their terms and conditions and revise them.

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**Author:** ![OurLordPeace](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/e8c25b/32.png) [@OurLordPeace](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/OurLordPeace)\
**Post date:** [May 22, 2014, 3:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-misogyny-sexism-on-twitter/688978/31 "2014-05-22T15:22:19Z")

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> [@Urbanredneck](#):
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> Curious. What do you say that upsets them so much?

First I defended science against climate denial, but then I noticed somebody’s handle, and I pointed out that without feminism, she’d be some man’s property.

> [@Revtim](#):
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> Like all social networks, the experience is defined by who you associate with on them. Blaming Twitter for the people you follow being douches is like blaming the phone after you call an asshole friend.

No, I don’t follow them. I just saw their tweets, due to a popular hashtag.

> [@BubbaDog](#):
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> And were any of those monarchists women? :dubious:

Rarely. Their women tended to be barefoot and pregnant, both oppressed and sometimes, like the aforementioned twits, complicit in subjugation of others, if not of themselves.

> [@Darth\_Panda](#):
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> Anyone who says stuff like that to you isn’t really your friend.

Indeed! They are certainly not! No, it’s not that I’m too bothered by their act of insulting me, it’s more that I’m exasperated at their own malicious backwardness.

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**Author:** ![GrandWino](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/grandwino/32/67_2.png) [@GrandWino](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GrandWino)\
**Post date:** [May 22, 2014, 3:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-misogyny-sexism-on-twitter/688978/32 "2014-05-22T15:27:16Z")

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> [@MrDibble](#):
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> Oh, are you suggesting these people all come from the same place, pass around details of threads here, often instigated by their own Mods, and then come and post here? I had _no_ idea. Colour me shocked.
> 
> Couldn’t possibly comment on stuff that happens on another board. Certainly I have no knowledge of people gathering together on other boards to egg one another on to post trolling things here. That would be some sort of, I don’t know, “board war”, and _we_ good Dopers would _never_ have any truck with that.
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> So of course no-one else would do that to us, either. And if they did, we couldn’t mention it here. Because _we’d_ be instigating just for mentioning it, right?
> 
> And to answer your question, I search this board via Google, and …other sites… show up in those search results occasionally, that mention me by username. Which I read now and then, because who wouldn’t? Although now I suppose it’ll be less _someone_ still holding onto what I said years ago about **Cesario** , and more just outright baiting. So it goes in Nonnydom.

The only person that seems to be trying to instigate any kind of board war is you.

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**Author:** ![Giraffe](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/giraffe/32/129_2.png) [@Giraffe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Giraffe)\
**Post date:** [May 22, 2014, 3:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-misogyny-sexism-on-twitter/688978/33 "2014-05-22T15:50:46Z")

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> [@MrDibble](#):
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> Gosh, it took until post #6 for the White Knighting calls to start. The Giraffe herd is tardy, today…

What? I lauded the OP as a brave warrior for feminism. I would never call him a White Knight, as that has both sexist and racist connotations. The OP could be a black woman for all I know, I don’t see color or gender. If I did, I’d scold you for your patriarchal username, **MrDibble**. The noble young ladies of the Internet have enough problems without you waving your penis in their faces.

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**Author:** ![lost4life](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/c4cdca/32.png) [@lost4life](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lost4life)\
**Post date:** [May 22, 2014, 3:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-misogyny-sexism-on-twitter/688978/34 "2014-05-22T15:53:16Z")

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> [@MrDibble](#):
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> Although now I suppose it’ll be less _someone_ still holding onto what I said years ago about **Cesario** , and more just outright baiting. So it goes in Nonnydom.

> [@kayaker](#):
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> Whoa, I’d forgotten about that!

What’s all this then? Wasn’t Cesario the pdf file?

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**Author:** ![MrDibble](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mrdibble/32/114_2.png) [@MrDibble](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MrDibble)\
**Post date:** [May 22, 2014, 4:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-misogyny-sexism-on-twitter/688978/35 "2014-05-22T16:02:28Z")

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> [@kayaker](#):
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> Whoa, I’d forgotten about that!

'Course you had, **kayaker** , _'course_ you had.

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**Author:** ![MrDibble](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mrdibble/32/114_2.png) [@MrDibble](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MrDibble)\
**Post date:** [May 22, 2014, 4:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-misogyny-sexism-on-twitter/688978/36 "2014-05-22T16:07:01Z")

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> [@GrandWino](#):
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> The only person that seems to be trying to instigate any kind of board war is you.

Of course, yes. I’ve been colluding with other Dopers in a backstabbing thread we maintain right here, just for talking about other boards, posting links to threads there and, why, right after, our members who are also members on those other boards, go and post in those same threads, stirring shit.

Only it’s a Double-Super-Sekrit thread, so you can’t see it.

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**Author:** ![MrDibble](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mrdibble/32/114_2.png) [@MrDibble](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MrDibble)\
**Post date:** [May 22, 2014, 4:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-misogyny-sexism-on-twitter/688978/37 "2014-05-22T16:10:13Z")

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> [@Giraffe](#):
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> The noble young ladies of the Internet have enough problems without you waving your penis in their faces.

Good for you to stand up for them. Mighty White of you…

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**Author:** ![Giraffe](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/giraffe/32/129_2.png) [@Giraffe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Giraffe)\
**Post date:** [May 22, 2014, 4:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-misogyny-sexism-on-twitter/688978/38 "2014-05-22T16:12:22Z")

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> [@MrDibble](#):
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> Of course, yes. I’ve been colluding with other Dopers in a backstabbing thread we maintain right here, just for talking about other boards, posting links to threads there and, why, right after, our members who are also members on those other boards, go and post in those same threads, stirring shit.
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> Only it’s a Double-Super-Sekrit thread, so you can’t see it.

Actually, I first saw this thread through an even more nefarious method. I have a special link that lists all the threads in the BBQ Pit forum _in chronological order_. This thread appeared on my master list, I clicked on it, and the rest is history.

I’d love to share the link, but I think it’s only for moderators and former moderators. You understand, I’m sure.

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**Author:** ![Drunky\_Smurf](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/drunky_smurf/32/449_2.png) [@Drunky\_Smurf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Drunky_Smurf)\
**Post date:** [May 22, 2014, 4:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-misogyny-sexism-on-twitter/688978/39 "2014-05-22T16:13:09Z")

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> [@OurLordPeace](#):
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> It’s not that people are insulting me. So what? No, what bothers me is that they think “male vagina” is an insult, as well as calling me a pussy, questioning if I am male,

Are you a male? And do you have a “male vagina”?\*  
\*And what is a “male vagina”?

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**Author:** ![Drunky\_Smurf](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/drunky_smurf/32/449_2.png) [@Drunky\_Smurf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Drunky_Smurf)\
**Post date:** [May 22, 2014, 4:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-misogyny-sexism-on-twitter/688978/40 "2014-05-22T16:17:41Z")

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> [@MrDibble](#):
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> 'Course you had, **kayaker** , _'course_ you had.

If you’d stop bringing it up people might actually start to forget about it.

Also you spelled “Of course” wrong, twice, I think you might be dsylexic. You should probably see your eye-doctor.

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