# I pit my asshole of a 'Friend'

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**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Created:** [November 10, 2013, 8:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-my-asshole-of-a-friend/673596 "2013-11-10T20:44:52Z")\
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**Author:** ![digs](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/digs/32/14889_2.png) [@digs](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/digs)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2013, 4:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-pit-my-asshole-of-a-friend/673596/85 "2013-11-15T04:33:28Z")

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> [@Green\_Bean](#):
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> So, remembering that you’d discussed various interpersonal issues before, I did a search for threads you’ve started…and man, you have had some really weird experiences! From your racist uncle to the putative sociopath who desperately wanted to drive you home…

So whatever happened to the Creepy Insistent Ride-Giver? I just read through [that very disturbing thread.](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=590642) It was fascinating, and I applaud you following your “perv radar”, but I do wonder what happened to him.

You did come back to it months later with:

> [@Is this normal? (Work related)](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-this-normal-work-related/565429/30):
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> **UPDATE:**
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> I recently was rehired by the company last week, and on the very first day back he offered me a drive home (this was with other people I work with, a carpool) anyway, I point blank refused to accept a drive home. Same thing happened the next day, luckily I ride to work on my bike now.
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> What happened next was one of my friends explained to the guy why I never wanted a lift from him, and told me that they had a few laughs about it, I don’t mind about that, the guy doesn’t speak to me anymore, my friend said that he doesn’t wanna bother trying with me.

But people asked what you meant by _“one of my friends explained to the guy why I never wanted a lift from him”_, and asked if they told him you thought he was a creepy sociopath.

You didn’t reply, so I’ll ask again now: Did someone at your work really tell him you were afraid of him? Or that you thought he was a sociopath/potential murderer? Wouldn’t that result in a much more extreme reaction than “the guy doesn’t speak to me anymore”?

Whoa, I just reread the thread and your comment sank in: _“my friend said that he doesn’t wanna bother trying with me”_. WTF!?! Is there really a chance it was an innocent joke, or does that mean the friend knows he had plans to abduct you/seduce you/take you home to mama?

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